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59 Belmar, NJ Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 49-64
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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My details

Last online
Today – 2:53pm
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
Two-year college
Has kid(s)
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Dancing, golf, semi-pro poker player ( No Limit Texas Hold'em )and camping. Prefer warm vs. cold. Would like to meet a woman that's not a drama queen and doesn't sweat the small stuff. I'm very social and easy to make friends. Definitely have a sense of humor but I guess every body says that. I NEVER get tired of hearing one of my favorite compliments"Boy Freddy you're REALLY FUNNY". Love to dance to swing,funk and blues music. I love to travel almost anywhere in the US and Canada but with the right woman I'd go anywhere. So many things I love because I love living. Almost all sports. starting with Basketball( Knicks) and Football (Steelers) and playing golf. Going to music festivals in Memphis (International Blues Compitition), Delaware Riverfront Blues Festival,Poconos Blues Festival, Crawfish Festival(Augusta NJ),Grassroots Festival Ithaca NY just to name a few.I LOVE to cook for two and I've also have helped prepare and cook for about 800 people at a camping /music festival in the Blue Ridge Mountains of Georgia and North Carolina at the end of the summer. A MAJOR movie nut. I love going to NYC to see a play , Alvin Ailey or the Joffrey Ballet. I love all kinds of dance and that DEFINITELY includes my favorite Savion Glover (Tap ). I'm not into classical music or ballet. Enough of what I do for me. I am good at making a woman feel like woman. For any man that really knows ,his true strength comes from a woman that loves him. There's nothing like a woman who appreciates her man when he tells her EVERY day how beautiful she is ( even when she feels like she's not).Slow dancing (does it get any better) Well maybe slow kissing. Ok enough of this typing. Let's get together and live this last chapter out together.
What I’m doing with my life
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Even though I just turned a young 59, I really don't have a bucket list. I realized a long time ago, that no matter what I wanted to do, I would not be able to do everything. So why start thinking that now I have to do certain things in life. I always liked to travel, go to the movies, make people laugh, go camping, dancing, listening to music ALL THE TIME and too many things to mention here. So I guess I'll just keep on trucking. But damn, isn't it better with that someone special. The one new thing I'm excited about and have a passion for is learning the game of Texas Hold'em to become a professional ( hopefully within the next two years ).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making grown ups and children laugh.
Making dogs wag their tails
Making cats purr
Playing Poker ( Texas Hold'em )
Kissing - I know EVERYBODY says they are , but I really am a good kisser
Shooting Pool
Making my partner feel appreciated
My Job
ANY SPORT I've ever tried ( except surfing )
The first things people usually notice about me
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I would have to say that I'm short ( 5'4" ) but that I carry myself as if I'm taller ( Character is who you are when no one is looking ). If I'm with people around me, in all likelihood I'm spinning a yarn that's making them laugh.
My eyes
That I smile and laugh A LOT
I'm attractive and a gentleman
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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To all the beautiful woman that love to read, I'm sorry to say that I'm not much of a reader. It's not that I'm illiterate but I just read too slow to enjoy a book in a reasonable amount of time. Don't get me wrong. I'll read a book from time to time, just not regularly. I do read the paper almost every day because I'd rather watch The Big Bang Theory than the 11 o'clock news.
I have always been a movie goer. That's probably why I don't read so much. I let the movies tell me the story. I've seen over 2000 movies in my life time and to name a "few of my favorites" in this space would be impossible. I'll name a few and when we meet you could tell me your favorite ones that I don't mention.

Good Will Hunting, Scent Of A Woman, Kramer Vs Kramer, Ray, Cadilac Records, Standing In The Shadow Of Motown , Twenty Feet From Stardom ,Savion Glover in Taps and Bojangles, Mrs. Doubtfire, Avatar, Godfather 1&2, A Bronx Tale, Good Fellas, Once Upon Time In America, Glengary Glen Ross, anything by Mel Brooks and Neil Simon, Groundhog Day, Django Unchained, Up, Ted, Shrek ( loved Eddie Murphy ), Aladdin,Happy Feet, oh yeah and Beetle Juice

I love Broadway and off Broadway shows but I just don't go enough. I do miss going to see Alvin Ailey and the Joffrey Ballet.

AHH MUSIC! I've been going to concerts all my life : Stevie Wonder, Jimi Hendrix,The Temptations, 4 Tops, James Brown and the Fabulous Flames ( 16 piece band), Crosby Stills Nash and Young, Chicago, Manhatten Transfer, Billy Joel, Elton John, Chris Botti, Santana, B.B. King, Delbert McClinton, Etta James, Koko Taylor, Marcia Ball, Deanna Bogart, Jeniva Magness, Rod Piazza and the Mighty Flyers just to name a few.

I love to eat anything from Sushi to Matzo Ball Soup.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
MUSIC MUSIC and some more MUSIC
Music in the morning to get ready by, music in the car, music at work , music to make love by and definitely music to dance by.
Dance - Going out to dance or watching it live or on TV ( So you think You Can Dance not Dancing With The Stars )
Laughing- Me laughing or making others laugh ( IT REALLY DOES MAKE ME FEEL GOOD TO SEE OTHER PEOPLE LAUGHING )
My 5 Senses- Because I appreciate everything life has brought to me
My 2 Princesses ( Daughters ). Counts as one because I love them both equally
My Car - What can I tell you, I don't live in the city.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How good I have it and how SO MANY PEOPLE DON'T

On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Looking for you at the club that has the best band to dance to. If I don't find you on Friday, I'll probably do the same thing Saturday night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Are you kidding me. I'll tell you what, when we are all alone I'll tell you anything you want.
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