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49 M South Saint Paul, MN

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:09pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Humble, intelligent, modern man here. Are you captured or on the hunt? Maybe a little bit of both? Are you searching for "Prince Charming?" Satisfaction is the death of desire.

** If you don't read my profile, it's okay! I'll sum it up for us right here:

Single, into dating and I'm not a transsexual; However, I'm still afraid of women that would rather read a book or workout than spend time with me and pets are good but I don't have any and I would want you to prefer me over yours. That's It! You can stop reading now!!

If your still here, try me as a friend, a creepy guy, a boyfriend, a love, etc. In fact, feel free to use me to piss off your x-boyfriend! I'm experienced and I've been trained by the best. Every modern single woman wants to exchange a guy like me even if just for friends. ♂

Me!? ---- I'm a home owner that lives alone - no kids, no pets and learning to work with plants (garden is great, but house plants not so much - lol.)

When it comes to true love, ultimately I just want to love and be happy always. I'm interested in the future - branching out and connecting with others. I prefer conversation, and activities that promote interaction. Tell me about something you love. That's how I'll get the best of you and establish great communication which I guess is important in relationships. I'm a pretty good listener as I value being in the moment. Also, a BIG talker when given the opportunity.

I'm not so much interested in rushing into some "joined at the hip" thing. Honestly, we both deserve a chance to get to know each other first before becoming mutually exclusive. There's nothing wrong with living in the moment. Relax and let me take a step back. Just because everyone doesn't get to ride with me into the sunset doesn't mean it has to be a cloudy day.

Don't get me wrong, much like yourself, I'm a free spirit. When I commit for real, I commit and expect you too. In the mean time, I only care about the time we both choose to spend together. Be patient and take your time. We'll both know if we're worth each others efforts to find quality time together.

You? ---- Have no job, live with your mom, and take the bus everywhere because you have several DUI's. You've got a chronic medical condition and you are in the process of filling bankruptcy with your soon to be x husband. You only live for your kids and still don't realize that your smartphone has GPS. Also, you love your cat and/or dog more than me. You wish you could have more alone time so you can read your book(s) which you prefer over movies. That whole "I'm just so exhausted from all the stress." - thing keeps you single; WHAT TIME SHOULD I PICK YOU UP (AT)?

But seriously, nobody is perfect. It's the differences between us that I admire about you the most. This is OUR TIME and we've come too far and learned too much to sacrifice harmony for lack of diversity. I'm always willing to "give to get" when there's reciprocation without judgment or prejudice.

I don't want to rush into things. I'm thinking by Fall? ♥

*** Important! *** Also, let's just be FRIENDS FIRST rather than get all dramatic and do the "block me", "No! block you!" thing. I like to keep it light and fun. Yes this is a dating site, so even if we meet just one time for coffee, it's just beautiful and human - always a gentleman.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work the "swing" (2nd) shift - off at 9:00 PM. I've got three day weekends Friday's off - 32hrs a week - part time musician - lucky and better than ever!

For me, attitude is everything and I absolutely love this video: - ☺
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people laugh, listening to thoughts, perceiving feelings, being diverse and honest about myself and others.

Being a Musician! ♫

Imposing self indulgent responses to inquiries about what I'm really good at. I still think the idea of ending sentences with a preposition (ie. "at") is thankfully something I don't do well most of the time depending upon if you're coming WITH?
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You'll find my gaze to be intense. Salt, and pepper - bedroom eyes dial me down a bit - unless I'm wearing a hat. Not really looking for pressure or an audition in "forever lovers" or awkward in public. Again, friends first works fine for me while I pretend to not notice how attracted I am to you.

The good news is that I'm a perfect gentleman and enjoy our chemistry only and if the feeling and timing is mutual. I'm happy to take your coat and pull out your chair when you sit down, even as just respectful friends, so take a deep breath and just tell me about something you love! That will be how I gauge your passion and get the best of our communication!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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MUSIC: Bluetooth wireless headphones streaming from a cloud Jazz and R&B - I can handle hard rock, classical, and country in moderate doses only. David Sandborn, Brecker, Frank Zappa, Tribal Tech.; and whatever you want mixed in as I can play "youtube video pass off" - all night long and get to know all your favorites as well as share mine. ♪♫♪

FOOD: Savory wok style succulent tender beef tips with healthy green veggies (never overcooked brocolli, beans, etc.). On occasion a splurge for smoked salmon with a splash of lemon. "Oops! Did I spill some shrimp cocktail sauce? Here. Let me clean that up right away for you!". I try to stay "low carb" and prefer salads, cheese, meat and veggies with ranch dressing and balsamic vinaigrette.

Video: Avatar, Yes Man, Breakin' Bad, Orange is the New Black, Weeds, Mad Men, etc. I don't mind dramas at all. "Now, would you be so kind as to hand me a tissue?". I watch a lot of Netflix and like documentaries, action adventures, sci-fi, and more.

I'm much more a video watcher than a reader these days. In fact, I'm a cuddle slut and love you and me on the couch with a bowl of popcorn. I truly believe that sometimes the olive oil from the fingers in popcorn makes for immediate relief from over dryness? - Oops, that sounded kind of creepy - lol
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Patience, pride, respect, diversity, humor, and ... the pursuit of that 6th item!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How, can there be self-help groups?

Why isn't there a mouse "flavored" cat food?

Oh, and these ...

I started out with nothing...I still have most of it.
Funny, I don't remember being absent minded.
If all is not lost, where is it?
The first rule of holes: If you are in one, stop digging.
I went to school to become a wit, only got halfway through.
It was all so different before everything changed.
Nostalgia isn't what is used to be.

Can women just want to date without the all or nothing thing going on?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It's my first day off every three day weekend as I only work 32 hrs Monday through Thursday. What you really want to know is what I do on Thursday nights which is mostly laundry, dishes, mow the lawn Friday morning whenever I wake up. Everything after that is pure bonus!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
In my mind, I possess purported instances of clairvoyance and brain sex that only a sensual partner can sense.

"I don't think Disco Sucks." - me

"Just 'cause I'm a guy doesn't mean I'm not willing to dance for food!! me again
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 42–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
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You are:
-- a friendly type
-- totally boring
-- you have an enemy rating of <30%
-- needing to upgrade your boy toy with a brain
-- capable of having multiple hot flashes

* Thanks so much for reading my profile :)