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50 South Saint Paul, MN Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 40–60
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from space camp
Sales / Marketing
Mostly monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
On a quest for prince charming? Kissing a lot of "toads" lately?

TRY ME! (as a):
- friend
- creepy guy
- boyfriend
- LOVE ♥
- shoulder to cry on...
- "special" project
- toad

I'm a home owner no kids, no pets and learning to work with plants. I'm into gardening, playing gigs, couch potatoe - lol. I'm open minded to new adventures and can't wait for this winter stuff to be done. ♂

I'll want to give you a call, and discuss activities that promote mutual interaction. Last time I checked, I guess dating is supposed to be fun!? No pressure as I enjoy meeting new friends also and don't expect to "pooch" on the first date.

- Have no job, live with your mom, and take the bus everywhere because you have several DUI's. You've got a chronic medical condition and you are in the process of filling bankruptcy with your soon to be x husband. Although you would like a man, you have too many family obligations that take up all of your time. WHAT TIME SHOULD I PICK YOU UP (AT)?

But seriously, The differences between us I admire about you the most. We've come too far and learned too much to sacrifice harmony for lack of diversity. Reciprocation without judgment or prejudice is what we both want.

I don't want to rush into things, maybe before Spring?! -g
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm slightly lame, but I've got three day weekends (Friday's off - 32 hrs a week in sales) also part time musician. I figure that just about puts me good for "St. Patty's Day".♣

In the big picture, I'm learning to be OPEN MINDED. For me, attitude is everything and I absolutely love this video: - ☺
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people laugh, listening to thoughts, perceiving feelings, being diverse and honest about myself and others.

Being a Musician! ♫

Imposing self indulgent responses to inquiries into what I'm really good at. I still think the idea of ending sentences with a preposition (ie. "at") is thankfully something I don't do well most of the time depending upon if you're coming WITH?
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
"Salt, and Pepper" - bedroom eyes dial me down a bit - unless I'm wearing a hat, never awkward in public.

I'm a perfect gentleman and enjoy our chemistry whenever mutual. I'm happy to open doors, take the coat and pull out the chair when we sit. Just tell me about something you love. I'll enjoy your passion and personality as I offer you mine.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
MUSIC: - Fair time and mutual respect. I'm open minded and need for you to be also. I offer equal time and being a musician myself, lots of diplomacy and acceptance. I may not love all your music nor you mine, but that shouldn't keep us from taking turns and having a good time.

FOOD: I'm mostly meat and green veggies. I can slip sometimes and eat starch, sugar, etc. I quit smoking last year, and I put on a few pounds. My goal is to loose 20 lbs or gain two inches by Spring. When it gets warmer, I've got a ten gallon cauldron in my backyard with a fire pit. My best is "Shrimp Gumbo". I like to eat a lot of what I can rather than feel hungry all the time. I respect portion control people, but I eat seldom and hearty. Salads, meat, and green veggies work for me.

Video: Netflix, Hulu, etc. I recently got a 50" TV so I like watching HD movies. I hardly ever have live TV although I have access. Again, I mostly like to discover a series, or take in a movie - NO COMMERCIALS works best for me unless it's a live event like the Superbowl. I try to avoid watching the news. Drama's are fine, but I'm also a guy so I like action, suspense, comedy, documentary, back rubs, not paying attention to the movie, etc.

We're dating and not moving in together, so when I'm with you, I'm mostly interested in YOU. I love watching movies and playing snuggle bug. If you start reading books in front of me, I might have to ask you to dance! lol
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Patience, pride, respect, diversity, humor, and pursuit of the sixth item. ♂
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I started out with nothing...I still have most of it.
Funny, I don't remember being absent minded.
If all is not lost, where is it?
The first rule of holes: If you are in one, stop digging.
I went to school to become a wit, only got halfway through.
It was all so different before everything changed.
Nostalgia isn't what is used to be.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It's my first day off every three day weekend as I only work 32 hrs Monday through Thursday. What you really want to know is what I do on Thursday nights which is mostly stay up late and watch videos. Being with my schedule Monday - Thursday 12:30 in the afternoon until 9:00 PM, I love Thursday nights and being off for the three day weekend. I'm looking forward to getting out of town a few times and kickin' it on my back porch with the fire pit this summer.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I possess purported instances of clairvoyance.

"I don't think Disco Sucks." - me
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are:
-- a friendly type
-- totally boring
-- needing to upgrade your boy toy with a brain
-- capable of having multiple hot flashes
-- too cheap to pay for a psychologist
-- You ARE a psychologist

*** Thanks so much for reading my profile!! ♥♂