51 South Saint Paul, MN
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My self-summary
"Hi there! I'm guessing, you're on a quest for 'Prince Charming?' - Kissing a lot of frogs out there now?" My pofile pic is recent. I could dye my beard; But, "Why bother?"

...still WITH ME? - Click + more!!
Please!! TRY ME! (as a):
- friend
- boyfriend
- LOVE ♥
- shoulder to cry on...
- walking buddy
- fishing buddy
- "special" project
- excuse to leave your "X"
- f*ck buddy
- frog

I live alone and work Monday through Thursday from 12 noon to 9 pm. Although I am doing better at keeping up with my dirty dishes, I've recently been "spotted" at an all you can eat Asian Buffet eating alone again.

- Have no job, live with your mom, and take the bus everywhere because you have several DUI's. You've got a chronic medical condition and you are in the process of filling bankruptcy with your soon to be x husband whom you stay married for health care. Secretly you love your grandchildren and are obsessed with them and don't have any need nor time for men much less willing to pay somebody to watch your pets for the weekend. "What time should I pick you up at? ♂ ♥"
What I’m doing with my life
Mostly procrastinating and wondering what I'm going to do when all the snow melts.
I’m really good at
Imposing self indulgent responses to inquiries into what I'm really good (at). I still think the idea of ending sentences with a preposition (ie. "at") is thankfully something I don't do well most of the time depending upon if you're coming WITH? ♂
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm either hiding and pretending to be whatever I think you are looking for or I'm being comfortable enough to just be myself, or both. I try to smile more in public as it not only looks nice, but it makes me feel more confident. No, I'm not afraid to ask you to dance when we're out even if I hadn't met you here first. ;)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
MUSIC: - As a professional musician part time, I'm a sax player - thus my handle - "saxmandiamond." With that being said, I play keyboards, guitar, sing and have a drum set in my basement. I love to play "youtube tradeoff", but I'm mostly known as the sax man. Music is different for me than it is for most people. Just give me open mindedness and I will give you the same. I'm sure you'll love all my music in no time! - lol

FOOD: Speaking of tastes, "NO CARBS!!" I'll eat until I'm full and focus on what I'm eating rather than do portion control. I like to do greens and proteins- also intermittent fasting where you only eat during an eight hour period each day. This allows my insulin levels to go down enough to actually metabolize the fat on my body. Since quitting smoking over a year ago, I'm working hard at loosing weight and enjoying proteins and green veggies. I recently picked up the Nutri-Bullet. Not to worry, as I am still naughty sometimes, but I'm feeling great! No I don't have diabetes.

Video: "Gotham, Mystery Diners, Doc Martin, Master Chef, Game of Thrones, Vikings, The Island, Naked and Afraid, Orange is the new Black, etc."

I guess since movies have sound and moving images, I don't read much any more. With that being said; surprisingly, I've actually read all the "Harry Potter" books, "Water for my Elephant", "Kite Runner", "Marley and Me", etc.; But, Only because I had a part time job working midnight to 8 am with no internet and I just happened to be curious about developing punctuation personality.
The six things I could never do without
Freedom, Diversity, "Fire Pit", Google, DRAMA!!?, of course "MUSIC" and profiles on here that don't include things like air and water. Oh, is that seven?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Will I make it through four seasons with a lover and be willing to marry again?

I almost had a psychic girlfriend, ..... But she left me before we met.

What kind of life will I have ten years from now?

Is this video really true?
On a typical Friday night I am
It's my first day off every three day weekend as I only work 32 hrs Monday through Thursday. What you really want to know is what I do on Thursday nights which is mostly stay up too late and do laundry and watch videos. Being with my schedule Monday - Thursday 12:30 in the afternoon until 9:00 PM, I love Thursday nights and being off for the three day weekend. I'm looking forward to getting out of town a few times and kickin' it on my back porch with the fire pit in my blue over sized robe barefoot.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I possess purported instances of clairvoyance.

I've met some of these women:

"I don't think Disco Sucks." - me

"If the man can communicate to his woman in such a way that she feels he is being positively impacted by her good intentions, her good words, the relationship works." - David Snyder

I secretly want to take a trip to CO to go skiing with a lover and get stoned legally.
You should message me if
You are:
-- bored with your B.O.B - Battery Operated Boyfriend
-- needing to upgrade your boy toy with a brain
-- capable of having multiple hot flashes
-- too cheap to pay for a psychologist
-- a psychologist
-- a good frog kisser

You "dig" this video...

*** Thanks so much for reading my profile!! ♥♂