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50 South Saint Paul, MN Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 42–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 22
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Are you captured or on the hunt? Maybe a little bit of both? Are you searching for prince charming? - Kissing too many toads lately?" ♥

** If you DON'T READ MY PROFILE, I'll sum it up for us right here:

"Hi! I'm Single, into dating and I'm not GAY nor am I a transsexual!"

THAT'S Pretty much IT! - You can stop reading now!! - lol

??? If you're still here, TRY ME as a:
- friend
- creepy guy
- boyfriend
- LOVE ♥
- shoulder to cry on...
- "special" project

I'm a home owner that lives alone - no kids, no pets and learning to work with plants. When it comes to true love, ultimately I just want to love and be happy always. ☺

In my quest for our perfect match, I prefer conversation, and activities that promote interaction. Being my dance partner is a plus! We need GREAT communication, and being comfortable together in order to to ride off into the sunset.

Although I'm a free spirit now living in the moment, I ultimately want to commit for real someday. ♂

- Have no job, live with your mom, and take the bus everywhere because you have several DUI's. You've got a chronic medical condition and you are in the process of filling bankruptcy with your soon to be x husband. WHAT TIME SHOULD I PICK YOU UP (AT)?

But seriously, The differences between us I admire about you the most. We've come too far and learned too much to sacrifice harmony for lack of diversity. Reciprocation without judgment or prejudice is what we both want.

I don't want to rush into things, maybe before New Years?! I'm fine with just getting to know you as a friend also. Satisfaction is the death of desire and I just can't wait to meet you! -g
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work the "swing" (2nd) shift - off at 9:00 PM. I've got three day weekends Friday's off - 32hrs a week - part time musician - I'm mostly a "house hermit", but I'm working on it.

I'm learning to be OPEN MINDED. For me, attitude is everything and I absolutely love this video: - ☺
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people laugh, listening to thoughts, perceiving feelings, being diverse and honest about myself and others.

Being a Musician! ♫

Imposing self indulgent responses to inquiries about what I'm really good at. I still think the idea of ending sentences with a preposition (ie. "at") is thankfully something I don't do well most of the time depending upon if you're coming WITH?
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You'll find my gaze to be intense. Salt, and pepper - bedroom eyes dial me down a bit - unless I'm wearing a hat. Not really looking for pressure or an audition in "forever lovers" or awkward in public. Again, friends first works fine for me while I pretend to not notice how attracted I am to you.

The good news is that I'm a perfect gentleman and enjoy our chemistry only and if the feeling and timing is mutual. I'm happy to take your coat and pull out your chair when you sit down, even as just respectful friends, so take a deep breath and just tell me about something you love! This way I'll enjoy your passion, be inspired to give you mine, and enjoy getting to know you better ;)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
MUSIC: - Fair time and mutual respect. I'm open minded and need for you to be also. I offer equal time and being a musician myself, lots of diplomacy and acceptance.

FOOD: I've got a ten gallon cauldron in my backyard with a fire pit. My best is "Shrimp Gumbo Booya."

Video: I watch too much Netflix, Hulu-Plux, etc. We're dating and not moving in together, so when I'm with you, I'm mostly interested in YOU. I love watching movies and playing snuggle, but if you start reading books in front of me, I might have to ask you to dance! lol
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Patience, pride, respect, diversity, humor, and pursuit of the sixth item.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I started out with nothing...I still have most of it.
Funny, I don't remember being absent minded.
If all is not lost, where is it?
The first rule of holes: If you are in one, stop digging.
I went to school to become a wit, only got halfway through.
It was all so different before everything changed.
Nostalgia isn't what is used to be.

Can a man and a woman just date and have a good time without the all or nothing thing going on?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It's my first day off every three day weekend as I only work 32 hrs Monday through Thursday. What you really want to know is what I do on Thursday nights which is mostly laundry, dishes - blecht. Everything after that is pure bonus!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Although I'm not a warlock, I possess purported instances of clairvoyance.

"I don't think Disco Sucks." - me
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are:
-- a friendly type
-- totally boring
-- needing to upgrade your boy toy with a brain
-- capable of having multiple hot flashes
-- too cheap to pay for a psychologist
-- You ARE a psychologist

*** Thanks so much for reading my profile!! ♥♂