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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:51am
Black, White
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Wants kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
What I've picked up along the way:
- If you're not consistently crossing things off your dreams list then you're not actually living
- The same is true for smiling and laughing (the cameraman told me to look serious, like I was in "Zen mode")
- Even the sun shines on a dog's ass some days
- I'm far more energized after reading, goal planning or working out, far less after watching TV
- Most things are better with a touch of class, but a shirt with 10 cats on it does wonders too!
- Sax players master a very useful set of muscles

About Me:
Yes, I did just say that - Who doesn't want a good kisser? Wait, what did you think I was talking about?!?...
You might think I'm cocky. You're right, sort of... but don't worry, I've earned it ;) I believe it's healthy to have a balance of confidence, humility and vulnerability. I'm most vulnerable when I'm performing; there's pressure to play perfectly but there's also the vulnerability of sharing your passion and joy in front of a crowd of strangers! I have plenty of other passions beside music; above anything I value connection, conversation and quality time with those with opinions of the world.

About You:
A woman that is brilliant in her own way. One that is beautiful, ambitious, passionate with a slightly healthy ego doesn't hurt either. Oh, and sharp wit. Wits never sag. A woman that values and appreciates exceptional experiences. I'll only accept more, nothing less. You should feel the same :)
What I’m doing with my life
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Finding goodness, beauty and truth
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Not bragging in my online dating profile.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If you have to ask I probably shouldn't ruin the surprise...

Although its hard not to mention I get comments on my fabulous taste in ties and shoes. Dammit, there went the not bragging thing
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I admire music that's done with talent AND passion

I'm a foodie so I love trying new restaurants. I travel a decent amount and like to find the best restaurants wherever I go.

Movies - Django Unchained, Training Day, Borat, Inception

Books - Daring Greatly, The Power Of Now, Harry Potter, How to Win Friends and Influence People,
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
(Assuming I should stay away from the lame answers like family, friends, water, air, shelter and plenty of other things that I obviously wouldn't want to live without)

- Challenges, more importantly the ability to learn from them
- Traveling/Cultural Experiences
- Awareness - being able to see things for myself
- My Saxophone
- Inappropriate humor at inappropriate times

That's enough. My favorite number is 5 anyway.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Chicken, Watermelon and Kool-Aid
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Feeling lonely while I waste my night away on Grinder... :/

You should message me if
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You want to know more about me, if you're NOT looking for just a hook up, you actually read my profile and have something more to say than "hey" or "what's up saxy", you know the difference between your and you're, you have NO shirtless mirror selfies!!