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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23-35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 24
Black, White
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
What I've picked up along the way:
- If you're not consistently crossing things off your dreams list then you're not actually living
- The same is true for smiling and laughing (the cameraman told me to look serious, like I was in "Zen mode")
- The best relationships are based on growth
- I'm far more energized after reading, goal planning or working out, far less after watching TV
- Most things are better with a touch of class, but a shirt with 10 cats on it does wonders too!
- Sax players master a very useful set of muscles

About Me:
Yes, I did just say that - Who doesn't want a good kisser? Wait, what did you think I was talking about?!?...

You can probably tell I don't lack confidence; at the same time you should know that I don't lack humility. I believe it's healthy to have a balance of confidence, humility and vulnerability. I'm most vulnerable when I'm performing. There's the pressure to put your best out there but there's also the vulnerability of living in the moment and sharing your passion and joy in front of a crowd of strangers! I have plenty of other passions beside music; above anything I value connection, conversation and quality time with those with opinions of the world.

About You:
A woman that is brilliant in her own way. One that is beautiful, ambitious, passionate with a slightly healthy ego doesn't hurt either. Oh, and sharp wit. Wits never sag. A woman that values and appreciates exceptional experiences. I'll only accept more, nothing less. You should feel the same :)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Building a lifestyle that allows me to pursue my passions
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Not bragging in my online dating profile.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If you have to ask I probably shouldn't ruin the surprise...

Although its hard not to mention I get comments on my fabulous taste in ties and shoes. Dammit, there went the not bragging thing
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
As a musician I admire music that's done with talent AND passion

I'm a foodie so I love trying new restaurants. I travel a decent amount and like to find the best restaurants wherever I go.

Movies - Django Unchained, Training Day, Borat, Inception

Books - Daring Greatly, The Power Of Now, Harry Potter, How to Win Friends and Influence People,
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- Awareness
- Thought provoking questions
- Traveling/Cultural Experiences
- Challenges - More importantly the ability to learn from them
- Ice Cream.

That's enough. My favorite number is 5 anyway.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Chicken, Watermelon and Kool-Aid
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Feeling lonely while I waste my night away on Grinder... :/

You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want to know more about me, if you're NOT looking for just a hook up, you actually read my profile and have something more to say than "hey" or "what's up saxy", you know the difference between your and you're, you have NO shirtless mirror selfies!!