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say_tea

27 F Holden, ME

I’m looking for

  • Everybody
  • Ages 18–99
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Sep 13
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English (Okay), Other (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Things I like: Contra Dancing, Noise, Lack of Noise, Preening, Gardening, Reading, Fairy Tales, Moons, Crooked Teeth, Tea, Coffee, Crossed Eyes, Visiting Places and People, Cats, Bruises, Charcoal-ed Nudies, Facial Movements, Farms, Stepping on People's Feet, Hula Hoops, Rain, Snow, Suns, Conversations, Bicycling, and Children.

Things I don’t like: Bad Dogs, Complacent Ignorance, Communication Problems, Confrontations, Mathematics, Bigotry, Dirty Dishes, and When Birds Fly into Windows.
What I’m doing with my life
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Weeding gardens, humming all the time, wandering in the woods, getting involved (and trying to get others interested) in local and global social, economic, environmental, and political activism, listening to all kinds of music, making lists, and trying to make connections.

I am currently attending school and working part time. I am studying Information and Library Sciences and Elementary Education. I find it terribly ironic that I am studying ILS and yet have absolutely no time to read for pleasure.

I work at a small library and moonlight in a writing center. In the summer I work at a local museum as an interpreter and gift shop attender. And I help edit a newspaper (I even write articles for it sometimes).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Asking questions, staying calm in challenging situations, starting crafting project and never finishing them, indecisiveness, making food (good and bad), laughing, being sassy, killing slugs, organizing things, asking others to peel my oranges, milking goats, reading books, memorizing songs, being a fool, making a clover with my tongue, wiggling my ears, petting cats, hula hooping, making children feel comfortable, and crossing one eye.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I smile at strangers. I wave at passing cars when I'm walking. I say hello to people in grocery stores. I'm surprised how strange people think this is.

I blush entirely too much. I sometimes get tongue-tied if people address me directly. I can be shy but I am comfortable with silence.

I look you in the eye and have a tendency to skip small talk. I ask questions.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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In no particular order…

Books:
I Capture the Castle, Ursula Under, Peter S. Beagle, The Little Prince, Tom Robbins, E. E. Cummings, Kahili Gibran, Till We Have Faces, Starhawk, Trina Schart Hyman, Watership Down, Madeleine L'Engle, Mirror-Mirror, Kim Stafford, Housekeeping, Prince of Tides, Winnie the Pooh, Field Guides (all of them), Sandra Boynton, Gabriel Garcia Marquez, Oryx and Crake, The River Why, The Tao of Pooh, Catwings, Alice Hoffman.

Movies:
Brother Sun, Sister Moon, Franco Zeffirelli's Romeo and Juliet, The Cuckoo, Akira Kurosawa's Dreams, The Last Unicorn, Pride and Prejudice, King of Hearts, Even Cowgirls Get the Blues, Amelie, The Dark Crystal, Ondine, The Secret of Roan Inish, The New World, Neverwas, Elvis and Annabelle, Penelope, In Your Eyes, The X-Men Movies

Shows:
Ehhh, no thanks. I only say this because I can’t stop myself when I start to watch a show. I mean, ca'mon, Game of Thrones… How addicting is that!?

Music:
Martin Hayes, Peggy Honeywell, Alela Diane, The Band, Iron & Wine, Rise Up Singing! (which is a sing-along book), Feist, Kid Koala, Joanna Newsom, Martin Carthy, Regina Spektor, Billie Holiday, Manu Chao, David Bowie, Modest Mouse, Devendra Banhart, Gillian Welch, Mariee Sioux, John Fahey, Anais Mitchel, Iris Dement, Warsaw Village Band, Noah Jones, Planxty, and many more….

Food:
Anything wholesome and delicious. And, admittedly, some things that are not so wholesome. I try to eat creatively.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I will not be taking this very literally:

1)Changing Seasons
2)Intellectual Conversations
3)Bodies of Water
4)Love In All Forms
5)Cats!
6)The big 5: touch, taste, see, smell, and hear
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The apocalypse.

Well, not the zombie kind but our carbon footprint, our widening ozone hole, and the dwindling of natural resources. Ever seen 'The Road'? Terrifying!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sleeping, reading, contra dancing, taking a bath, and preparing for the weekend. I have a piano in my house that I’ll bang on (terribly, I’ve almost got hot cross buns down!) and I am capable of buying my own wine. I haven’t really found anywhere that I want to roam for company in the Bangor area yet; so let me know if you have ideas.

I used to go to bed at 8 and, though I still have the tendency to look forward to sleep, I am working hard to kick the habit.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I wear comfy undies or none at all.

I think armpits are much more attractive with hair.
You should message me if
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you want to.

I really want to hear about what you're cooking for dinner, or how you saved a snapping turtle from near death, or a musical experience that you enjoyed, or a poem you wrote.

While I respect the person you are and that you are reaching out to another human being, I am NOT interested in having sex with you, no matter how much money is involved. I am also very much NOT interested in whether or not you are attracted to my physical appearance. I don’t want to hear ‘Hi, how are you’, ‘What’s up’, or other such greetings. I’m sorry, but no thanks.