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sayrefc

29 / M / Bisexual / Available

Seattle, Washington

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:36pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Vegetarian
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism and very serious about it
Sign
Cancer
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Science / Tech / Engineering
Income
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I am a mid-twenties (whoops, late twenties... really that must have just happened) college grad. Despite having so many things figured out about myself, I know that there is so much more out there to learn and experience. I love meeting new people and sharing new experiences, stretching my brain, challenging and being challenged by others.

After much consideration, research, and experience I have come to the conclusion that I am polyamorous and looking for people at least comfortable with the idea. Love is one of the most amazing things humans have to share and there is no reason to prevent yourself from finding it anywhere and everywhere you can. I am in a long term relationship with saviah and ideally I'm looking for people who are a good connection for us both.

I am inquisitive, thoughtful, and passionate.
What I’m doing with my life
I work a number of contract jobs that give me a lot of flexibility. I volunteer, I play, I teach, and learn whenever possible. I persevere through the sometimes monotonous, sometimes amazing details of life, through wonderful anticipation of bigger things to come.

I am currently building espresso machines for a small company in Seattle. Building things can be therapeutic.
I’m really good at
Creative problem solving. Robots :) I am good at taking 10 times as long at a task the first time trying to figure out how best to do it in the future, even if I will never have to do it again.
The first things people usually notice about me
I am really not sure about this one.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books - 1984, Stranger in a Strange Land, Any Dr. Seuss, Shell Silverstein, The Way Things work, Fierce Invalids Home From Hot Climates, and newly Sex at Dawn.

Movies - Amelie, Spirited Away, Me and You and Everyone We Know, Fantastic Mr. Fox. Different list probably every time I am asked. Brazil. As Aziz Ansari said to all those who haven't seen the Dark Knight, "What the fuck is wrong with you!"

Music - Varies a lot, but metric, smashing pumpkins, they might be giants, presidents, regina spektor are defaults. Citizen Cope, Magnetic Fields, Ozomatli, Das Racist.

Food - I am veg, but I like all types of foods with some specific exceptions. French fries are my weakness, but a salad always sounds good. I'll throw beer in this category as well. Beer is good.
The six things I could never do without
The people I am close to, nearby bodies of water, the internet music, being creative and stretching the brain. A lazy morning curled up under the covers falling back asleep and dreaming when I have the luxury.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
People and my interactions with them. Also I am an organizer, and I am fascinated with information sciences. I am fascinated by communication and how broken it can be. People have all had such amazing and intense experiences in their lives, but for some reason we haven't figured out how to use this commonality to break down the walls people use to distance themselves from each other.
On a typical Friday night I am
Getting drinks or playing board games, maybe staying in for some dinner and movies. If things go well, perhaps some dancing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Sometimes I can be a big kid... don't take me to a toy store unless you want to stay a while or to a beach unless you don't mind me building a sand castle :) I have a habit of collecting toys like legos, blocks etc.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 20–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals, casual sex
You should message me if
If you want to talk, match wits, or get a cup of coffee sometime. I do have a romantic streak, and generally open to suggestions. I would love to hear about what you are passionate about and I would be more than happy to tell you the same.