There are a few things I'd like to mention. I don't have "game", and I don't want any. Some of you will like that, some of you won't, but whatever. I'm not the douchy guy that goes to all the clubs and gets wasted every weekend.
At the same time, I'm still fairly confident that I've got my own thing working for me. What you will get is a fun, good guy that'll treat you right.
I've had a few great experience from these sites, and a few not so great ones
I'm honestly not comfortable messaging online back and forth without knowing who I'm talking to.
It just seems more rational to glance at each other's profile, talk for a bit, then just meet in a public place during the daytime for coffee to get a better feel for each other rather than trade messages as strangers. Strange being the key part of stranger.
It we hit it off as friends, cool. More than friends, even better. Neither, no worries.