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sbgowda

50 Fairfax, VA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 43–46
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 11:26am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Indian
Height
5′ 9″ (1.76m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Technology
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Status
Single
Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Spanish (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Smart, successful, 50-something Program Manager with nothing to lose but plenty to gain!!!"

Aiming to please but soft, tender side to life, love, and the pursuit of happiness. If you think about, you only live once; so, what are you waiting for? If you think about it--it's not a matter of why, but why not? You learn from life's lessons and say, "carpe diem!" Okay--here's the bottom line--I'm NOT on a booty call nor in for a quick "lap around the track". Let's take it one minute at a time. If things work, let's walk on the wild side and try the dating gig. Ya know, man (aka, me) asks you (aka, yes, YOU) to go dinner, a movie, a hike, buy a pizza, go to Home Depot, eat cheap Chinese food, dip our feet in the lake. May be more--who knows?

Thank you for taking the time to read about me. After all is said and done, I am still growing and realize I have a lot left to learn. NOTE: ONLY REPLY IF YOU ARE FROM THE NORTHERN VIRGINIA AREA. LONG DISTANCE GIGS JUST DON'T WORK--NO EXCEPTIONS. I'm truly wishing for a partner, friend, & lover. That's what I want. We all want to be in a "relationship", but it needs to be done on terms we're both comfortable with.

Please note: I have been DIVORCED for some time! While no one goes into marriage getting divorced, it's time for the fresh new start. Learn from past mistakes and failed attempts and be honest, truthful, and emotionally ready in opening that "first page of a new book!" BTW, another tidbit to ponder: each of us needs to be in a "healthy" relationship to make it work--NO DRAMA, please. Most important, I'm not going to pressure you into doing something you don't feel comfortable with. Period. Wouldn't you like to feel safe with a male and not get mauled???

I'm also comfortable being alone when I should be; incidentally, I won't pout or pee in my pants if you don't contact me for some reason.

Unbeknownst to y'all, may be learn to be friends first (and foremost) and then . . . let's take it one day at a time . . . and see where the road takes you and I (me and you; us; she/he). I do believe in commitment and working "smart" for the hopes, dreams, and challenges. Oh, BTW, communication and being there for each other is really important between the two of us.
P.S., Ask me about the "pizza pie of relationships"--which are 8 critical pieces for a complete relationship and a good slice of za!

Again, the BOTTOM LINE, which means no grey matter and certainly, NO FFFIING BS: I sincerely hope I'm NOT using match.com as a way to find women to sleep with or make/feel uncomfortable in terms of unwanted advances, harassment, and overall inconsiderate, stupid behavior. Having fun means "having fun"--whatever that means (hugging, kissing, watching silly cartoons, etc) ONLY WHEN you're comfortable with me or with us, albeit should it progress to that point. Just being genuine . . . that's all!

As you may discern from reading about me, I'm far from perfect. However, I'll do what it takes to make you happy--emotionally, physically, spiritually--in being a friend, lover, partner in crime (legit activities only). I do NOT believe in one-night stands or being one's "sugar-daddy". We're here on the planet to be happy, make each other happy, and work as a team. Most importantly, let's just have some fun--coffee shops, wine outings, buying groceries, watching a movie with popcorn, reading the Washington Post or New York Times over brunch (that includes mimosas and scrambled eggs/bacon/toast/fresh strawberries) and great music like Adele, Pink Floyd, Keane, Kate Earl, and Diana Krall.

Remember, it's best to click as friends before romance, right? That's the only way it works . . .

Thank you for taking the time to read about me. You won't know about me unless you take a chance on me . . . you won't be misled or duped.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Staying one step ahead of the pack!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Back and foot massages! I can also cook, clean, be domestic (e.g., doing laundry, paying bills, grocery shopping, dry cleaners). Oh, BTW, I won't complain about doing those activities, as long it is appreciated.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am a talker!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Thank you for taking the time to read about me. After all is said and done, I am still growing and realize I have a lot left to learn. NOTE: ONLY REPLY IF YOU ARE FROM THE NORTHERN VIRGINIA AREA. LONG DISTANCE GIGS JUST DON'T WORK--NO OFFENSE. Since we all have requirements in our "potential one's" you and I are looking for, here's my wish list:
About the one I'm looking for...
Smart, intellectual, attractive. Better be humorous!
Ideal Date:
Dinner with great bottle of Shiraz with you overlooking the city or the mountains! But, I'm happy to buy you coffee and do something fun (legit and nonthreatening) if both of us want to meet.
Music:
Pink Floyd; Moody Blues; Van Morrison; Led Zeppelin; The Smiths; New Order; Some country; Frank Sinatra; Tony Bennett; Diana Krall, 80s Alternative; 90s Grunge (sometimes); 00s - 10s whatever . . .
Movies:
Chinatown; Sleepless In Seattle; Black Swan; Animal House, Spy thrillers, and yes, chick flicks !!!--which makes for a more romantic time for both of us . . .
Books: Girl with the Dragon Tattoo; The Firm; any political thrillers.
Also, someone who likes to keep fit (exercise, health, good diet--but can splurge from time-to-time).
While some claim more than "he" is, I'm a real deal; no bs!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Friendship
2. Having a partner
3. Companionship
4. Romance (hugging, holding, kissing)
5. Coffee
6. Internet
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Becoming a better person--who can make someone happy!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Kicking back with a brew, eating carryout and lounging around my house! Or, if I am lucky, out and about swing dancing, go to happy hours/movies, or hanging out with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I went to a nudist camp years ago and . . . you know the rest--nothing happened, geez.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you find the following of interest . . .

No one is ever perfect and I do have my imperfections. However, I love to laugh . . . can it be with you? I hope I find my soulmate; and, if I can make you my soulmate, that would be wonderful! I like to take things ONE STEP at a time. Thank you for stopping by and wish you the very best! NOTE: ONLY REPLY IF YOU ARE FROM THE NORTHERN VIRGINIA AREA. LONG DISTANCE GIGS JUST DON'T WORK--NO OFFENSE!

No one is ever perfect and I do have my imperfections. However, I love to laugh . . . can it be with you? I hope I find my soulmate; and, if I can make you my soulmate, that would be wonderful! I like to take things ONE STEP at a time. Again, I am NOT using this site for a "booty call" nor finding women to sleep with. If you think that is the status quo, you're incorrect. Remember, I can always do the dirty deed via "you know what" and I'll never do that. Simple as that!

As a way to reflect on the past and guide the future, I need to and be really good at the following:

1. Be a good sharer. And, no it's NOT about sharing my sandwich with you or closet space; it means sharing what you think, what you love and who you really are. That applies to me as well.
2. Confront arguments and conflicts with respect. It's best to argue in the right way, with respect, care and love, focused on finding compromises and solutions to any disagreements that arise.
3. Be friends . . . or at least I do act like it. Friends support each other when needed, enjoy each other’s company, and make each other laugh.

Who knows? May be I am the one--ya don't know til take a test drive, right? Send me an email and I will respond in kind. Bon chance!

I am NOT using this site for a "booty call" nor finding women to sleep with. If you think that is the status quo, you're incorrect. Remember, I can always do the dirty deed via "you know what" and I'll never do that. Simple as that! I want a healthy" relationship to make it work--again, no drama, please.