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sbgowda

49 M Fairfax, VA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 42–49
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:30pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Indian
Height
5′ 9″ (1.76m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Technology
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
If you think about it--it's not a matter of why, but why not? You learn from life's lessons and say, "carpe diem!"
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Staying one step ahead of the pack!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Back and foot massages! I can also cook, clean, be domestic (e.g., doing laundry, paying bills, grocery shopping, dry cleaners). Oh, BTW, I won't complain about doing those activities, as long it is appreciated.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am a talker!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Music:
Pink Floyd; Moody Blues; Van Morrison; Led Zeppelin; The Smiths; New Order; Some country; Frank Sinatra; Tony Bennett; Diana Krall.

Movies:
Chinatown; Sleepless In Seattle; Black Swan; Animal House

Books: Girl with the Dragon Tattoo; The Firm; any political thrillers.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Friendship
2. Internet
3. Companionship
4. Coffee
5. iPhone
6. Sex (sorry, being honest and is a basic human need); however, intimacy is critical to any relationship to be successful and thriving.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Becoming a better person--who can make someone happy!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Kicking back with a brew, eating carryout and lounging around my house! Or, if I am lucky, out and about swing dancing, go to happy hours/movies, or hanging out with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I went to a nudist camp years ago and . . . you know the rest--nothing happened, geez.
You should message me if
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you find the following of interest . . .

No one is ever perfect and I do have my imperfections. However, I love to laugh . . . can it be with you? I hope I find my soulmate; and, if I can make you my soulmate, that would be wonderful! I like to take things ONE STEP at a time. Thank you for stopping by and wish you the very best! NOTE: ONLY REPLY IF YOU ARE FROM THE NORTHERN VIRGINIA AREA. LONG DISTANCE GIGS JUST DON'T WORK--NO OFFENSE!

No one is ever perfect and I do have my imperfections. However, I love to laugh . . . can it be with you? I hope I find my soulmate; and, if I can make you my soulmate, that would be wonderful! I like to take things ONE STEP at a time. Again, I am NOT using this site for a "booty call" nor finding women to sleep with. If you think that is the status quo, you're incorrect. Remember, I can always do the dirty deed via "you know what" and I'll never do that. Simple as that!

As a way to reflect on the past and guide the future, I need to and be really good at the following:

1. Be a good sharer. And, no it's NOT about sharing my sandwich with you or closet space; it means sharing what you think, what you love and who you really are. That applies to me as well.
2. Confront arguments and conflicts with respect. It's best to argue in the right way, with respect, care and love, focused on finding compromises and solutions to any disagreements that arise.
3. Be friends . . . or at least I do act like it. Friends support each other when needed, enjoy each other’s company, and make each other laugh.

Who knows? May be I am the one--ya don't know til take a test drive, right? Send me an email and I will respond in kind. Bon chance!

I am NOT using this site for a "booty call" nor finding women to sleep with. If you think that is the status quo, you're incorrect. Remember, I can always do the dirty deed via "you know what" and I'll never do that. Simple as that! I want a healthy" relationship to make it work--again, no drama, please.