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sbonelli

21 / F / gay / Single

Jersey City, New Jersey

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Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin
Height
5' 1" (1.54m).
Body Type
Athletic
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and laughing about it
Sign
Virgo and it matters a lot
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Dislikes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English, Spanish (Fluently)

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I am weirdly interesting, sincere, and a perfectionist.

My Self-Summary

I love to think, analyze, and decipher just about everyone and anything. This could be one of the main reasons why I chose Psychology as my major.

I've always been athletic, I know it sounds weird but the more messed up my hair looks and the sweatier I' am, the better I feel about myself, at least when I'm working out. I love sports and just in general jumping around although that may sound silly. I used to swim competitively in high school and I was pretty darn good at it. There’s really nothing like the smell of chlorine, lol. I'm just kidding. :P No, but really the chlorine smell to me is like smelling an ex's shirt, lmao. Take that as you please, haha.

I live my life to appreciate all the small things. I'm a simple person although my friends would argue and say that I can be very complicated about things.

I take in the good, the bad, and I'm not a resentful person. All negative experiences in my life have helped me to grow into the individual that I' am today and that I would never trade for the world. Every encounter and person to me is a learning experience, I gain something from everyone.

I don't like camping which should tell you I don't really like the outdoors, I dislike mosquitoes, haha but I do love a warm and sunny day...

I'm all up for road trips, if I still had a vehicle...but I'm usually the type that would drive up to the shore in the winter, lol just for the pure enjoyment of the open road, loud music, and a person in the passenger seat. :)

Rather than going to club or bar, I'd be perfectly happy with buying a few beers and having a movie night with close friends. Not saying that I don't like to go out, I just like keeping it simple.

Other than that, I'm a really conscientious and generally agreeable person, that in itself should tell you a lot about me...

and you should know because this is an "extremely" important fact about me...

No matter how much I try, painting my right hand's nails with my left hand is by far impossible, I just can't do it. (Now you know my life's struggle!, lol)

What I’m doing with my life

I'm a full time student, I work as a lifeguard part time at a gym, and I'm in the process of hopefully becoming an EMT.

I’m really good at

Figuring things out, listening and understanding everyone's problems, and expressing myself.

The first things people usually notice about me

The eyes, dimples, smile, hair/ haircut, and I would just say my face in general, lol. (Thats not a vain statement, by the way) I'm not conceited.

Oh and...

I'm tiny, as in I'm shorrrt. ehhh although I think it suits me. :)

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I love to read books from the self-help section. No, I don't need self help but I find these books particularly interesting because they are all mostly psychology related, lol but other than I love those cheesy romantic novels and I have this weird obsession with Vampire story lines. Yes, I like the Stephanie Myers series although the movies require better acting in my opinion. When it comes to movies, you have to drag me to a movie theater. Don't get me wrong I like movies but I rather catch them on DVD. In general I always found it extremely entertaining to watch horribly directed, low budget, sci fi flicks, to me these are the best comedies. I don't know why, I just find humor in unusual things, lol.

Music- Tegan and Sara, NIN, Placebo, Garbage, Coldplay, Radiohead, Imogen Heap, Incubus, Metric, The Cliks, Nirvana, The Postal Service, Anything (Indie/Alternative), and a pop/rnb single here and there, although I have to add that anything that comes from the radio nowadays is just plain garbage, its catchy repetition just seems to grow on me. Music has died!

-I love a fettuccine Alfredo any day of the week <3

The six things I could never do without

-Hair Straighter
-Cell Phone
-My Converse Sneakers
-My mother
-Ear Plugs
-My Alarm clock

I spend a lot of time thinking about

...Why I think so much to begin with...lol.

- Why people make the choices that they make and why they turn out a certain way...

- Why I' am the way that I' am.

- How to channel positive change in myself...

- The meaning of life and all that good stuff...

On a typical Friday night I am

Wondering what to do or out doing it...

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I actually might be growing a soft spot for Lady Gaga, I really like her paparazzi single, lol. The radio got to me, now its only a matter of time till they ruin it for everyone by playing it 13 million times a day.

You should message me if

-You're looking to meet someone new, hangout, and make a friend in the process.

-Please someone "normal"... I don't know what happened but it seems like good people are hard to come by...

-You live by/close to me...