Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Please Note: While I occasionally visit this site, I am not
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that tends not to be the case most of the time, since most of those
tend to identify as monogamous.
If you identify as any variation of monogamous, or have an
expectation that your partner be monogamous or exclusive with you,
please move along to the next profile.
I see the internet as a great way to make connections, but a
horrible way to get to know someone. Don't be surprised if I bring
up the subject of meeting for a casual conversation early on (even
within the first few messages).
I am currently involved in a great relationship, but I am open to
exploring other opportunities, should they arise as I identify as
non-monogamous. While everything is subject to change, I suppose I
have a preference for non-exclusive dating at the moment.
I have been best described as a Rock. I am a stable and dependable
person who can be a bit stubborn, unyielding, and pedantic. If you
know your Chuck Norris jokes well, just know that I'm the rock that
Chuck Norris can't break.
The only thing that erodes this rock is the use of Logic and
evidence to present well-reasoned arguments. If you want to shape
this rock, that is all that is required.
I see relationships as two independent autonomous individuals on
the journey through life who choose to travel together because they
enjoy the companionship. They travel together voluntarily because
it is mutually beneficial to each other, and not because one person
imposes a specific view or vision on that other person.
I am following a specific path through life that I have chosen that
I believe will bring the most happiness. You can choose to travel
with me, or if you don't like the direction I'm heading, you can
take your own path. If you feel the need to tell me that there is a
better path to take, you better come to me with logic, reason and
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have far too many creative hobbies and very little time in the
day to pursue them all.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Critical thinking and analysis. I've always been able to cut
through confusion and get to the heart of the matter. To me it's
merely common sense, using logic and reasoning skills to figure it
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm tall and I have red hair that women would kill to have.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My musical interests range between rock and metal, but depending on
my mood, may also include classical/instrumental, jazz and the
Primary Musical Interests: Megadeth, Nightwish, Within Temptation,
Lacuna Coil, Hammerfall, Stormwitch.
Secondary Musical Interests: After Forever, Apocalyptica, Blind
Guardian, Drain STH, Dream Evil, Dream Theatre, Epica, Helloween,
Imperia, Iron Maiden, Lullacry, Mortal Love, Rhapsody, Sevendust,
Stratovarius, The Crest, Therion. I've recently added Opeth to the
I am open to adding others to the list. Please note: The Primary
Musical Interests above are bands I routinely listen to.
Regarding movies and tv, my primary interest is in documentaries,
but I also favor Horror (real horror; not slasher), Fantasy and
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Freedom and Liberty
Drum Corps and Music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why the world is as messed up as it is, then I realize government
has long been the problem, not the solution. Problems that we see
today can be traced back to policies or laws governments passed 20
or 30 years ago. The effects simply take that long to manifest. It
also doesn't help that the government works via incrementalism so
no one actually sees how one action created a later problem.
How do you cook a frog? If you throw it into a pot of boiling
water, it will react and jump out, but if you put it in a pot of
cold water and slowly turn up the heat (incrementalism). it will
sit happily in it until it is cooked alive. Do you see where
society is heading?
You should message me if
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You're interested in getting to know me or something on here
You're open to polyamory or open relationships.
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me, date me or do anything other than to communicate.
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