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42 M Sacramento, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 3:02pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Strictly vegetarian
Not at all
Agnosticism, and very serious about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t want kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
A good friend once told me "you love your friends, but you don't respect them". I don't quite buy it, but I get what she was trying to say ... I can be pretty critical of myself and everyone around me, but I am also fiercely loyal to those I get close to, warts and all. I am looking for those who can take the same attitude towards me, I suppose.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a teacher and tutor for a living; my biggest hobby is gaming (primarily D&D); I am passionate about politics but not as involved as I'd like to be.
I’m really good at
Explaining complex things simply; listening; making obscurely intellectual sex jokes. Also I'm a decent cook and guitarist.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Big movie geek: Big Lebowski, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, eXistenZ, Pan's Labyrinth
I don't read as much as I'd like anymore, but a huge fan of James Branch Cabell, Chuck Pahlaniuk.
Music: I was a metalhead in my teen years and grew up with old country before that, and that's still with me, but I listen to all sorts of shit now. I have a pandora station based around Ronnie James Dio and Diamanda Galas.
Food: I'm vegetarian but not quite vegan - I eat organic dairy but no eggs. I love thai, indian, cap dawg, fox and goose tofu breakfast.
The six things I could never do without
authentic intimacy
strategy games
oral sex
peanut butter
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how to be a better teacher, lover, fighter, joker, activist, philosopher
and recently, what exactly are my criteria for seeking out polyamorous romantic possibilities over this here website?
On a typical Friday night I am
Often, I am chagrinned to admit, I am playing Dungeons and Dragons with a core group of loyal nerd buddies. Sometimes I take my long-term girlfriend out on the town, but neither of us drinks so we tend to stay away from any sort of "scene".
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I look forward to getting to know you well enough that I can tell you all kinds of dirty secrets.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–47
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You are a kick-ass geek chick (or at least geek-positive) with a reasonably creamy center who does NOT have a problem with open, honest polyamory and is looking for something more than just cheap sex.