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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27–47
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 5:31pm
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5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Not at all
Agnosticism and it’s important
Post grad
Doesn’t want kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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A good friend once told me "you love your friends, but you don't respect them". I don't quite buy it, but I get what she was trying to say ... I can be pretty critical of myself and everyone around me, but I am also fiercely loyal to those I get close to, warts and all. I am looking for those who can take the same attitude towards me, I suppose.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a teacher and tutor for a living; my biggest hobby is gaming (primarily D&D); I am passionate about politics but not as involved as I'd like to be.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Explaining complex things simply; listening; making obscurely intellectual sex jokes. Also I'm a decent cook and guitarist.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Blue eyes, long hair
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Big movie geek: Big Lebowski, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, eXistenZ, Pan's Labyrinth
I don't read as much as I'd like anymore, but a huge fan of James Branch Cabell, Chuck Pahlaniuk.
Music: I was a metalhead in my teen years and grew up with old country before that, and that's still with me, but I listen to all sorts of shit now. I have a pandora station based around Ronnie James Dio and Diamanda Galas.
Food: I'm vegetarian but not quite vegan - I eat organic dairy but no eggs. I love thai, indian, cap dawg, fox and goose tofu breakfast.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
authentic intimacy
strategy games
oral sex
peanut butter
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to be a better teacher, lover, fighter, joker, activist, philosopher
and recently, what exactly are my criteria for seeking out polyamorous romantic possibilities over this here website?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Often, I am chagrinned to admit, I am playing Dungeons and Dragons with a core group of loyal nerd buddies. Sometimes I take my long-term girlfriend out on the town, but neither of us drinks so we tend to stay away from any sort of "scene".
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I look forward to getting to know you well enough that I can tell you all kinds of dirty secrets.
You should message me if
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You are a kick-ass geek chick (or at least geek-positive) with a reasonably creamy center who does NOT have a problem with open, honest polyamory and is looking for something more than just cheap sex.