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35 Delft, Netherlands Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23-39
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Nov 20
Questioning, Straight
6' 0" (1.82m)
Body Type
Average build
Special Diet
Atheism but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Dutch (Fluently), German (Somewhat), Indonesian (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a curious smartass. I'm an optimistic cynic.

I'm probably not as weird as I like to think I am. Some will disagree.
I tend to careful and quiet and slightly difficult until I think people can handle my sharp edges - then I can get playful. I tend to make my best friends something makes me forget to feel out of place.

It seem I prefer partners in quirk / crime. I'm fond of directness, in that I'd rather have a few closer say-anything relationships than many say-little acquaintances.

I'm better at hugs now that I don't overthink so much.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Job and/or freelance work in technical stuff. Am considering moving to the other hemisphere, and/or a research job within my real interests.
Occasionally dreaming a bit about other things I might be able to live on (so far not enough guts there).
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My minimum velocity.
A few people have asked whether I'm a dancer. This pleases me even though I'm not, and I'm really not controlled enough to understand why they ask:)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I like storytelling some wildly personal or challenging things, which seems to correlate with grit or random-honesty stuff. I prefer it even in the schlocky, escapist, good-bad, eye-candy stuff.

My cheerup movies used to be Tank Girl, Fifth Element, and Hedwig. I have different kinds of love for the Aliens series, Ghibli stuff, Real Genius, Princess Bride, Clue, Bound, Rocky Horror, Empire Records, and another handful or two. If you have a non-trivial theory why I have a soft spot for movies like Ballistic and Resident Evil, I like you.

I don't watch TV, I do get series addictions, often on the story-driven or sci fi side of things - think Torchwood, B5, the later Stargates, Doctor Who, Fringe, Dollhouse, but also Warehouse 13 and others I'll remember or admit to later.
I like various anime and a few jdramas, for the different storytelling and the silliness. Nodame is awesome, watch it (the live action if you've a choice).

I often read little, and sometimes five books at once. For the most part I don't stick to authors. I'm currently working on things like Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance and Anais Nin. And the recent Yotsuba :) is relatively accurate. My longest-term squee is probably for Fiona Apple, Tori Amos, K's Choice,Lamb, Garbage, Björk (mostly her nineties stuff), am quite fond of Emilie Autumn, and have quite a few more recent loves.
I seem to have have seasonal cycles through the genres I like.
Disturbing soft spots include bouncy eighties pop and italo disco, and I like Aqua beyond its use as torture material.

I like my food spicy - Thai, Indian, Indonesian.
My own cooking is improving slowly, a little more so after I broke enough blenders to decide not to buy more.
I am omnivorous, but cook and eat almost exclusively vegetarian.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Rainstorms. Personal connections sans protocol. My sense of suspended disbelief about reality and my sense of humour about it. Occasional escapist shiny entertainment.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Comfort and discomfort, with yourself and in interactions. Also in relation to being spontaneous - I think this may be relevant:
Being positive without its cult. Memory. Rationalization. Shirked issues. Creativity. How society might work with fewer misunderstandings. Real and artificial intelligence. Deviance and dark sides.

Whether it wouldn't be more informative to list some of our sharp edges - compatibile demons, less profile polishing, and all that. But then, incompatibilities are highly subjective so it's hard to find useful words... Whether okc's matching is a off because of the low-hanging-fruit questions. Whether it make sense to list casual sex or not.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've got a not-yet-very-expored kinky side.

Generally, I answer people, not sites. Ask - I'm really quite open once I think you're weird ^^
You should message me if
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interest outweighed worry.