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couldbehoneycomb

28 F Portland, OR

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:36am
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Strictly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Administration
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Dreamy-eyed and divinely practical queer feminist performance artist, etc. Enamored of: woods, ocean, cozy cafes, etc etc. Seeking Portland folk with whom to share tea, adventures, heart-to-hearts.

Hello!

I am looking for people who have a visionary, expansive creative mind. A sense of direction and a definite sense of self. A strong sense of "play," curiosity, joy, hands-on exploration. A hunger to communicate richly, fully, and honestly. To engage truthfully with the world around you, and to see magick where magick lies. An ability to create your own fun. An eye for and a pursuit of beauty [in a multitude of forms], and a touch of enchantment.

Primarily here to connect on a platonic friendship level with kindred spirits/comrades. Romantic chemistry is something that happens organically. My standing okcupid modus operandi is to have no expectations and no anticipation, just the sparkly piqued-interest wonder accompanying meeting any new soul: come as you are.
What I’m doing with my life
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I moved to Portlandia in springtime 2012 from Boston, Massachusetts, with my best friend and my kitten, hardly any local connections and minimal personal possessions, compelled by what I'd heard of the confluence of creative community and outdoorsy dreaminess.

I'm forever engaged in a love affair with art that that challenges the mind and the body, and defies expectations. Fusion bellydance is a beloved practice, and I train with several phenomenal teachers around town. I keep myself rooted and rejuvenated with vinyasa flow yoga on a daily basis. I have a solid background in Suzuki actor training and have dabbled with butoh, emerging with my own intuitive movement practice. I have performed living statuary professionally since 2005, creating whimsical accessible street art with a child-friendly focus. Music - as a framework within which to vocalize [caterwaul] and art out - is a shy, fledgling dream of mine, but it's increasingly beginning to manifest.

I went to university in the Pioneer Valley of Massachusetts, majoring in English with a heavy Comp Lit bent, myth-tracing from religious systems to Victorian monster literature to modern media. Understanding myth-making as the essence of human experience informs everything I am and do.

I work in healthcare/education. I am blessed to be a part of an amazing, compassionate team of professionals, scientists and healers doing some very heart-centered work.

I share my home with an orange kitten named Icarus. He is big trouble and the love of my life.

I am a year-round all-weather bicyclist, and I have very strong emotions for my bike, a cute little red steel 1985 schwinn named Darla. She gets me everywhere.

I am all about the creature comforts. Tea, incense, warm homes and warm blankets, soft scented skin, wholesome food, music music music, good books, good films.

I crave adventures. I love being immersed in interesting natural environments. My most favoritest adventures have been 1. a friend spontaneously texting me at 5:00am and running away with me to a Boston harbor island during a tempest in March to watch the grey dawn, standing on the cliffs, whipped by wind and rain, and 2. camping on Prince Edward Island with my partner, all brilliant green grasses, bright blue oceanwater, and red[!!!] soil. In Portland, I enjoy the wet greenness, towering trees and luminescent mosses of Hoyt Arboretum and Forest Park. I like seeking out rocky coves along on the coast that have a Pacific kind of wildness that I am learning to appreciate. I saw Multnomah Falls in winter and my mind was blown by the verdant foliage in conjunction with thick ice and frost. I'm not a hardcore outdoorswoman - I just need fresh air, an active body, and beautiful views as much as I need good food and solid sleep in order to feel whole and healthy.
I’m really good at
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Mother-henning my loved ones, recreating myself and shaping my path and rolling with the punches, expressing myself through language and movement, balancing a healthy selective humanism and misanthropy, walking very quickly.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My wardrobe is cute-comfy-functional: leggings, tunics, soft dresses, combat boots. My hair is a little curly, a little floofy, a little hobbitish, a little rats nest.

I have a presence that commands attention, without being overbearing. I can be reserved on account of shyness in unfamiliar social situations, but I am confident and comfortable in myself unto myself. I don't want fluff, I abhor friendships of convenience, let's talk, let's meet each others eyes, get to the marrow, give me some truth.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music:

Kate Bush is my true heart.

Fever Ray and The Knife. Cocteau Twins. Nick Cave's voice makes me feel so safe. Jason Webley. Florence + The Machine. Jaggery. SWANS and Angels of Light. Balkan Rromani music, Scandinavian folk rock, various international indigenous and traditional music with or without world fusion flair.

Books:

The Lord Of The Rings, J.R.R. Tolkien. Imajica, Clive Barker. American Gods, Sandman, Neil Gaiman. Everything Is Illuminated, Extremely Loud & Incredibly Close, Jonathan Safran Foer. Wuthering Heights, Emily Bronte. The Stand, Stephen King.

Movies:

The Lord Of The Rings, Eternal Sunshine Of The Spotless Mind, Butch Cassidy & The Sundance Kid, Angels In America, Me and You and Everyone We Know.

Series:

Twin Peaks, Six Feet Under, Firefly, Doctor Who [Ten forever].

Food:

Anything we cook ourselves, Indian, Ethiopian, local organic foods. And comfort foods! I never count calories; it's all fuel to me. I'm a sucker for a good burger and fries, ideally paired with a bloody mary [yep, at dinner.]
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Compelling music and literature, dance and yoga, substantial conversation, tea, trees, a space for solitude.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to improve my circumstances, my loved ones, whatever music I'm currently drunk on, how I can make-believe whatever mundane environment I'm in isn't quite so mundane, my kitten.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At a show, having tea with a friend, or spending the night in burning incense and snuggling in a blanket reading or watching a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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sun - virgo
moon - pisces
ascendant - libra
mercury - leo
venus - leo
mars - leo
jupiter - aquarius
saturn - scorpio
uranus - sagittarius
neptune - capricorn
pluto - scorpio
dark moon lilith - taurus
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 24–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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you think we could enrich each others lives.