Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
First things first; DON'T obey your thirst! I am waiting for a
virtuous woman who is still intent on waiting until marriage.
I have saved myself for you, my Love.
A man is to honor, cherish, protect and provide for a woman. A
woman need never feel obligated to please a man.
While my goal on this site is to find a long-term friend and
ultimately marriage, I am just looking for an attractive friend
first. I believe there are stages that a relationship should go
through which are too easily skipped in these online chat sessions.
We both need to be discerning and continually in prayer so that we
progress in a healthy and godly manner.
I am seeking a woman, 21-35 (open to discussion), that has good
values and will challenge me. By challenge I mean that she is
self-confident enough in herself to criticize me constructively
without fearing that she would lose me, and that she would likewise
be open to that herself. Also, her strengths would challenge my
weaknesses, mine would challenge hers, and yet when we're together
those differences would complement each other. KnowutImean? Oh, and
she would be honest and loyal, self-confident and energetic...
that's all. Did I mention self-confident? That also means
I've never had a serious relationship. I can truly say that I have
never loved another, in the romantic sense, but I have cared deeply
for girls as friends. That said, I have learned a few things from
doing my due diligence researching and talking to friends who have
gone through issues.. most are married now. Basically, I know that
communication is paramount and realize relationships take a lot of
work. I would enjoy giving and learning how to please her..
receiving would be icing on the cake. We would also draw closer
through overcoming differences and arguments, and by drawing closer
to God together.
Hmm, how to let my personality show.. nevermind, lets get on with
the serious stuff! I always thought I'd get married, and that it
was even important for having a fulfilling life - by sharing it
intimately with someone else. I love the insights and unique
dimensions that a woman brings to a relationship. It hasn't just
"happened", so I'm making it a priority now.
I tend to be old-fashioned, but I'm open-minded enough to adjust to
however my woman wants to be treated. Besides that, I just want to
say that I'm a thoughtful, habitually honest, fun-seeking guy who
prefers 1-on-1 conversations, and I want more activity in my life
so I'm open to trying a lot of new things. I just need a good
reason... and you could be it!
I am honest, thoughtful, fun, and a bit sexy.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Lately I've been taking time for a reality-check on my life and
I've decided to make marriage
a high priority
in my life - not just a "nice
to have" but making the search a real active part of my life.
I've also put together a retirement
plan for us. Its a
realistic plan for our future that will provide a stable and
content way of life, no matter what the economy
. This includes retirement with
that would provide us
with a steady income and the possibility of travelling often so we
could see the world together!
I'm sorry if you think that is money-centered and unspiritual. What
I'm talking about is being a good steward, making the most of what
we have, and being able to give abundantly.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening.. I am perceptive, understanding personalities and where
people are coming from. I'm a smooth operator... I pick up quickly
when learning new things, physically or mentally. Basically, I can
do most things well if I put my mind to it. Apparently I'm real
good at seeming like a serious, boring guy in writing when half the
time I'm the one trying to lighten things up.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Probably that I am careful with my words/thoughtful/quiet.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I used to read scifi/fantasy and my favorites are still Tolkien
and Chronicles of
Thomas Covenant series by Stephen R. Donaldson
. I have also liked reading
various books about human personality types and lately, financial
Music: many kinds, mostly progressive/hard, classic rock.
Mostly stick to meat and pasta with occasional salad/raw veggie.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I hate this question. Not because I can't live without anything,
but rather because I believe one can learn to live without just
about anything but food, water and air. Its just a mind
Okay, keeping it light.. I would say Coke (soda), burgers/steak,
computers/internet, fresh air/outdoors, and.. ah yes, the company
of a lovely woman.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to find that special someone, how I can prepare myself to be
the best lover, husband and father... the next place I'll be flying
to for my job and how to manage my money.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Wishing I had someone special to spend my weekend with.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Think I said that up at the top.
You should message me if
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We have similar values and you are interested in making a good
friend that you hope will some day lead to a serious relationship
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