I am funny, smart, cheeky, sarcastic, positive, attractive, outgoing, independent, warm, caring, assertive, creative, in a nutshell a great human being, I should point out here that I usually dont speak in lists of adjetives, I can form full sentances, honest! Like the following :I'm a bit clumsy in an endearing way, I love my bed for all its purposes, I love being in Love but always enjoy the single times too.. I cant stand wingers but i like a cynic.. I'm positive without being annoyingly optomistic.
I Love cheeky bold clever opinionated funny sexy men who aren't backwards about coming forwards, you read books, you like good music and you dont vote Fianna Fail. I'm Looking for someone to be lazy with and at the same time somoene who will get me off the couch out into the wilds too.
If you are a fan of Bill Hicks we would probably get along famously.

In order to see what happens when I get to 95% completed profile, i have to write 1000 words but there is no word count. Anyway I'll guess and see what challenge OKC sets for me next. I love a challenge.

I got a hard time from a guy here because I said i was monogamous, he accused me and all monogamous types of being exploitative, demanding x in order to obtain y from a man, x being rulemaking y being surrender of my goods, using the old cliche of love as a justification. If this is your belief too then best not contact me, we would hardly get on. And just for the record, this has not been my expericence of manogamy to date.. I have been monogamous because "man I was with" was all I desired, simple as that.

working during the day in adult education and studying photography at night also work a little as a photographer, just starting out will be doing it full time in the future I hope, apart from that (which doesnt leave a lot of time) catching up with friends and family, looking at photos or online.

My Job, photography, understanding people, straight talking, making u laugh, lying on couches, getting better and better at spotting cyberfiends at first mail too.

if i have my back to you, my ass.

Movies first, love independent movies, american, canadian and ausie indie, european, esp spanish and romanian, Also goofy comedies (anything with will ferrell) Hate big action and most chick flicks, basically anything made with a big budget leaves me cold.
Books with pictures, Well great photographs! I dont read airport junk or chick lit, havent been reading many novels lately but fav authors would include Hanif Kureishi,Tom Robbins, Philip Roth, Paul Austre, oh many more...
Music, so wide but generally falls into the indie or electronica genres.. Too many to mention, right now loving new white lies album, Mum and yeah yeah yeahs, could change next week!

Food...All Yummy food ;-) Being single I dont cook as much as I used to, and I miss it. I'm really looking forward to getting back in the kitchen and cooking for two.

love, family, music, my camera, men, internet.

life, love, politics, photography , philosophy..., do i have a dark side, is that ok? My online friends and their private lives, are they real? Thinking about next stage of my life, maybe a move is in order, house, job or both?? Both methinks.

Whats typical? Could be out, home with friends, watching a movie alone, studying, online, asleep, taking photos.

I spend too much time online

u are not a creepy stalker, are confident, mischievous, funny, smart, tolerant, open.... u like me.