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54 • Durham, NC • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 30–60
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Today – 3:57am
- 6′ 1″ (1.85m)
- Body type
- Other, but not too serious about it
- Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from university
- Rather not say
- Open relationship
- Mostly non-monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
- Likes dogs and has cats
- English (Fluently)
I stay fit and active. I like good beer, volleyball, wood working, boats, sailing, biking, hiking, camping, and generally being outdoors. I used to run a lot. Lately I’m trying to make running part of my life again, but it’s a slow process fraught with silly little injuries. I’ve done some bicycle touring, to several locations in NC and three months crossing Australia. It’s a wonderful way to travel. My cat really likes it when I manage to get up early in the morning and lift weights in the basement.
I am somewhat passionate about boatbuilding and taijiquan. Don't get me started about either one unless you are prepared to stop me.
I want to meet people and get to know them. I think the best way to get to know someone is to spend time with them, talk to them, experience their actions and reactions. Profiles and surveys are nice, but no substitute for real world interaction. I’m open to all sorts of friendships and activities like movies, hiking, conversation over beers (out at a pub, on the deck, out by the lake, at home, in the hot tub), getting sweaty outdoors, getting sweaty indoors :-)
I have a wonderful, committed, open relationship with spicyvi and she actively encourages me to seek out fun activities with other people. She’s a bit of an activist for open relationships so you’re welcome to contact her if you like.
I'm on a mission to actively avoid misleading people in my life. I’m finding it slightly more difficult than I first thought. I try to say what I mean and mean what I say. If something doesn’t make sense, ask me and I’ll try to clarify.
It would be nice to add a couple of new friends and see what sorts of activities we can do together.
I’m told I’m good with my hands and at some other things that I’ll be happy to show you later.
movies... I like guy movies. I’m a guy, what did you expect?
music... classic rock, traditional Irish stuff, bagpipes.
food... meat and potatoes, simple food.
Some things I’d rather not do without are: Companionship, good beer, a paycheck.
I think about whether or not there is a way to make my work environment more enjoyable.
I think about taijiquan and how it applies to everyday things in life.
I wonder what my cats might be thinking.
My partner gave me advice about how to write this profile.
There are lots of more private things about me, but I'm not willing to admit them *on the internet*. I'll probably admit them in person. Ideally, those sorts of things we can discover about each other in person.
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