I hate trying to describe myself, especially when I feel like I'm trying to sell myself (like in profiles or resumes.)
I was born and raised here in the triangle area. I have traveled a little so I'm not completely out of touch with the rest of the world, but I've never lived anywhere else. I've never really wanted to live anywhere else. In some ways I'm a typical southerner. In others, not even close.
I don't really workout, but I do try to stay fit and active. I like good beer, volleyball, wood working and boats and generally being outdoors.
I've been married... twice. I've finally learned that long term monogamy is not for me. I do not believe that it is reasonable to expect that any one person fulfills all of another person's needs and desires. I have a wonderful relationship with spicyvi and happily she feels the same way about monogamy so we have an open relationship. For us that means that we are both free to meet and date other people as long as we stay safe and keep each other informed of what's going on. If you want to hear her side of it, you can contact her.
I'm not very wordy. Some would call it terse. Don't take it wrong, it's just the way I am. I say what I mean. I'm blunt. Don't try to read between the lines. There's nothing there. I'm on a mission to actively avoid misleading people in my life. That combined with the bluntness might scare you away. If it does, I'm sorry but it's the way I am.