34 Schenectady, NY
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My self-summary
So I've been an okcupid member for years, but finally decided it was time to update this profile.

I recently got out of a long term relationship and am looking at a bunch of life changes at the moment, and that includes expanding my social circles, hence the returning to okcupid.
What I’m doing with my life
mostly trying to get it back on track, ran into a couple speed bumps the past few years, but I think I've finally figured out where I'm going now.
Currently working as a bouncer in a bar I love, reestablishing my own life, and trying to maintain and expand my social life
I’m really good at
keeping my head when everythings going to shit around me, keeping my spirits up, helping friends out, apparently also at seeing and making connections between people, and maintaining those connections, or so people tell me.
The first things people usually notice about me
that I'm large and quiet, and some say brooding and intimidating.

I've also been told that people notice my height( I don't think I'm that tall), or the dreadlocks

and apparently when I am amused my laugh is somewhat distinctive
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food

books: pretty much anything from Louis L'amour, Kelly McCullough, Illona Andrews are all immediate reads... other than that, I tend towards classic fantasy and science fiction, urban fantasy, mystery and technothrillers

movies: Rio Bravo, Gone in 60 seconds, the Clooney and Pitt version of Ocean's 11, the Avengers and Captain America, Hackers

I admit that my go to movies are not high cinema, but it did say favorites

shows: Firefly, Nikita, Psych, Star Trek DS9, Burn Notice, Lost Girl

music: Adam WarRock, Dr. Awkward, Combichrist, iVardensphere, Random, Ke$ha(don't judge), old school Hank Jr., or any of that old outlaw country. KRS-1, and I have a soft spot for new wave and 90s pop music

Food is good. big fan of pretty much anything and everything, but particular favorites are sushi and indian buffet
The six things I could never do without
wow, this has changed a lot over the years....

1) Smartphone
2) close friends
3) my cat Shadow
4) good boots
5) Netflix
6)table top RPGs( nerd, admitted)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the past, the future, and what I'm going to have for lunch D&D
On a typical Friday night I am
I"m at work until 130-2am in the morning, and then seeing if there is still anything left to get into

Friday during the day, lately I've been trying to reward myself with a movie theater trip, and would love some company
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
that I am in process of completely rebuilding my life and everything here is subject to change( well, favorite movies have been pretty standardized for the past few years)
You should message me if
I sound interesting, or you can think of ways to improve this, or you're bored, or I'm bored, and you just happen to know that, or whatever