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40 Ballwin, MO Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 33–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
May 11
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from law school
Rather not say
Strictly monogamous
Has a kid, and might want more
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Dutch (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Life is crazy and can be difficult at times. But it can be made sweeter or at least more manageable when you share it with someone. Let's be each other's safe haven from the chaos of the world!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm an attorney who hung her own shingle and I love it. For once I actually enjoy my job, and that just makes life that much nicer. I grew up here, but I left after high school to go to college in MA, then I lived in MD and DE before going to Philly for law school, then worked in New Jersey (but still lived in Philly). 4 years ago I moved back here.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening to people
Being loyal
Not getting bored
Building and maintaining networks (people, not computers)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My voice - it doesn't match what I look like. Don't worry, it's not whiny or grating, it just usually prompts people to ask where I'm from.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: I just read a book on the history of ballet, then turned around and read one of the Game of Thrones books, so that should give you an idea.

Movies: Favorite one is Goodfellas, but I also like movies by Tarantino, Scorcese, David O Russell, that's what's coming up in my mind these days.

Shows: I basically watch a lot of HBO and FX - Game of Thrones (and I don't generally like Sci-Ff), Sons of Anarchy, True Blood, Rescue Me when it was on, The Americans, Boardwalk Empire, Louie (I have a slight crush on Louie CK) Bill Maher, and a lot of British shows, from Downton Abbey to Absolutely Fabulous to Black Adder

Music: Not a big country fan, but I can appreciate it, I tend to favor alternative, so I don't know that much about Top 40, some electronic, classic rock, some hip hop, especially from the 90's - U2, Foo Fighter, MGMT, Chemical Brothers, early Chilli Peppers, Jay-Z, M.I.A., Prince, Bad Company (yes, I said it), The Roots, Jill Scott, INXS, Billie Holliday. I also hosted a radio show featuring American roots music, so I dig blues and zydeco too.

Food: Big fan of Thai food (I can also make decent Thai at home), Cajun, Indian, Mexican. I can also do vegetarian. I like to cook Latin and Asian food at home - not much meat and potatoes here.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Sticking with just things and not people:
Something that plays music
Glasses or contacts (I'm just about blind!)
A nook or ipad for books, magazines and other media
My watch
A good glass of wine
Pictures of friends and loved ones
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Being a good mom - you rarely if ever get objective feedback (but those hugs from my 4 year old are just the best) so aside from more obvious things, it's kinda hard to tell if you're doing the right things in the long term.

I also think about my work, but don't worry, I know when to leave that stuff in the office!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Catching up with friends, or going out for pizza and watching a movie with my son.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'd have to tell you then shoot you afterward!
You should message me if
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You appreciate intellectual conversations but can also appreciate some silliness and wit. Pluses if you know when to hang out at home and when to explore.