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49 F New York, NY

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5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any

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My self-summary
Are you ready to be with a woman who is fun, caring, smart and sexy? Someone who wont cramp your style, drag you shopping (I personally hate shopping), and can make a really good breakfast? Well, then your wait is over, because here I am!!

I am very low maintenance (you probably have more health and beauty products than I do). My baggage fits under the seat in front of me - with room to spare. I am not interested in changing or molding someone. I'll welcome you into my life warts and all.

I am a native NYer (Manhattanite to be exact), socially and politically liberal, theatre geek, have library card and passport and wish I had the time to use them more, likes food (wish I could tag along with Anthony Bourdain on his travels), independent, intelligent, successful in my career and have lots of gay boyfriends who tell me how fabulous I am.

I would love it if I could find a partner for the long haul. I would be happy if I never had to write another online profile again. I am looking for someone who can make me laugh and think, gives great back rubs, and never underestimates the joy that a Mr Softee ice cream cone on the first warm day of spring can bring. You are not afraid of intense conversation or comfortable silences. You tip well, can cook at least one "signature dish", and can go for more than an hour without checking your email.
What I’m doing with my life
Working (too much), having fun (not enough) and trying to do a better job at appreciating the people in my life.
I’m really good at
Decluttering closets and cabinets. No hoarding here.
The first things people usually notice about me
My curly hair. But only in the summer. In the winter, I wear a hat, which renders me invisible. My "profile pix" was taken June 14, 2014. So, what you see is what you get. FYI, the "sari" pix was taken a couple of years ago before I cut my hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
If Finding Nemo or the Princess Bride is on, I'll watch again for the 100th time. Love the theatre. My favorite book is basically the last thing I read that transported me away from reality. Food? I am NYer, I'll eat anything, though, soft serve ice cream, Lillet, mussels, and foie gras (yea, I know) are hard to pass up.
The six things I could never do without
My independence
Unsweetened green jasmine iced tea
A good laugh
Only 4. When I meet you, I'll add you to the list.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why guys will "Like" me on OKC, but not write and then when I write to them, not write back? I don't get it. Isn't the whole point to actually make a real live connection with someone?
On a typical Friday night I am
Nothing about me is typical, so neither are my Friday nights. But, as I have my personal trainer on Fridays, I am usually achy on Friday nights. Therefore, someone with great massage skills would be very welcome.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I cannot ride a bicycle. Anything else will have to wait until we have shared a couple of adult beverages.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 40–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You have actually read my profile. If you think homosexuality is a sin, creation should be taught in schools, God is one of the 6 things you cannot live without or women have an obligation to keep their legs shaved, then we are so NOT a match and don't expect a response back. Also, please be within the NYC area. I am not interested in a long-distance thing.