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34 M New York, NY

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 30–40
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:42am
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Sweet, fun loving guy looking for someone to hang out with, see movies, plays, dinner, that sort of thing. But not just dates ... I think I'm ready to learn someone else's quirks and eccentricities, share my random thoughts and moments ... The guy that'll see what I call "The Lucy Trilogy" (I'm With Lucy, If Lucy Fell and While You Were Sleeping) and get how awesome and insane and purely fun and happy making they are, that's the guy for me.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a freelance hairstylist, working mostly on photo shoots and runway during season. And also listening to a lot of audio books ... I love an audio book. I might just love listening to people talk, though.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Going with the flow, picking the right filter for Instagram pics and being a great friend. The last bit was by consensus. ;-) I'm also really good at making people laugh, sometimes intentionally, most times not.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes, eyelashes (before I turned 30, everything went a little blurry and I started wearing glasses) and my smile. Also, my phone sex voice. It's rarely intentional, I usually don't know when I'm doing it and it has gotten me some very strange looks at some very awkward times.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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• Little Children by Tom Perrotta
• Let the Great World Spin by Colum McCann
• Revolutionary Road by Richard Yates
• The Garden of Last Days by Andre Dubus
• One Day by David Nicholls
• The Passage by Justin Cronin
• Anything by David Rakoff. I re-read his work pretty regularly and am savoring his last book. Still pretty sad about his passing.

• Flirting with Disaster
• Heaven
• Rabbit Hole ... I'll pretty much watch anything and I like to get lost in the moment, completely suspend reality. I don't ask questions, just shut up and go with it.
• The aformentioned "Lucy Trilogy".

• House of Cards (I came for Kevin Spacey, I stayed for Robin Wright)
• Luther
• Downton Abbey
• Law & Order
• Justified
• Scandal
• Game of Thrones
• Suits
• Childrens Hospital

(Artists currently in my top 25 listened on iTunes)
• Betty Carter
• Carmen McRae
• Eyrkah Badu
• Meshell Ndegeocello
• Tori Amos
• Janet Jackson
• Mariah Carey
• Jill Scott
• New Order
• Kendrick Lamar
• Prince
• En Vogue ... pretty much anything from the early to mid 90's, r&b, alt rock, house and also a big fan of classic rare disco.

• Thanksgiving dinner. Never disappoints.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) Real talk with close friends
2) Good music
3) A warm blanket
4) A great cologne
5) Touch
6) My work
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything and nothing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Curled up on my sofa under my favorite blanket, in a movie theatre, at a play, with friends, working, sleeping ...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Didn't I just admit to liking (loving) disco? Actually, I can't think of anything right now but that's just because I forget most things that aren't useless trivia.

And I can't whistle.
You should message me if
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You're interested in meeting me. I'm pretty fun.