I like time with someone but want them to have their own life and their own friends as well. I don't do jealous at all. If I don't trust who I am with enough for him to spend time with his friends then I do not need to be with him. I am pretty cut and dry in a lot of things, sometimes too much so. Romance is great but sometimes it becomes too over the top. There are plenty of ways to show you care without being over the top crazy with things. I love to laugh and tend to use sarcasm in everything. When I feel awkward or upset, I try to turn it into a joke. Finally, I don't do games. I don't play mind games with anyone and I refuse to let someone do it to me. While I may not be the most perfect looking woman out there, I do have way too much self respect and dignity to allow anyone to play head games with me.
I guess what it comes down to is that I am looking for a guy who likes to laugh and have fun, who can be quick on his feet with sarcasm without trying to hurt anyone and last but not least, a guy who likes to do guy things such as fish, be outside doing something, likes to fix things (or is at least willing to kick the tires, raise the hood and pretend while drinking a beer) because, well, a guy with grease, oil, or mud on him and callouses on his hands is just sexy!, Also, he needs to be independent, not possessive or jealous and who doesn't need to be entertained 24/7 by the person that he is with. Wow, I just realized how demanding I sound but Its really not all that much. Most all of that goes hand in hand with each other and where you have one of those qualities, the others just tend to follow.
On the positive side, I dont ask anything of anyone what I am not willing to give in return. I can guarantee that you will get a smart ass who will keep you laughing and sometimes just shaking your head!