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47 Walnut Creek, CA Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 29-49
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Today – 3:47pm
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Christianity and it’s important
High school
Has kid(s)
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Honestly, I am a bit tired of the dating scene. It is so much effort for so little pay off. I am very content in my life, but there are certainly times where having someone by my side would make things even better. I miss being close to someone. I am very easy going and laid back, extremely generous and romantic. When I'm in love, I live to make her smile. Quietly confident, I do not enter a room and announce myself and loudly try and take control of a place; that is for little boys and insecure grown-ups. I know who I am and do not have to prove anything to anyone. I am strong yet sensual and extremely affectionate for the right person. "PDA" is beautiful and wonderful with two people who are genuinely into each other. If you want people to respect you, you need to treat them with respect. I treat others the way I want to be treated and expect others to do the same. I believe in honesty and communication but not at the expense of hurting others, which means you shouldn't go around tearing people down because you think you're just "being honest". I believe we are here to build each other up, not tear down. Overtipping in restaurants is one of my favorite things. I have little tolerance for people with attitudes or selfishness. I like real people who are happy with who they are. I want to be just as in love with who you are on the inside as I am with what you look like on the outside. Eyecandy is nice, but unless your heart matches your exterior, I have no interest. So many shallow people out there, show me something of substance. I am done with the "bar scene" and the "club scene" and hope you are too. I prefer deep conversation about life, instead of "nice weather we're having". Small talk exhausts me. Please, let me know the inner you, not the person who you think looks good to the world. I want to press our foreheads together and stare deeply into each other's soul. That is the kind of connection I am looking for. "Good" is the enemy of "GREAT".

P.S. If you stop by my page and find me interesting, maybe even a little attractive, please feel free to say "hi" or let me know.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am a self employed contractor/business owner. I keep fairly busy during the work week but still manage to find the occasional week day off to do things that I love.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
working hard, taking care of others, making people feel at ease, deep talks, opening up, kissing, cooking, making friends, working with my hands, kicking back, putting others first, holding my tongue
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes, my smile, my hands
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Shack, Goodfellas, Facing The Giants, Flywheel, Breaking Bad, anything by Tarrantino, Seinfeld, Michael W. Smith, Israel Houghton, Casting Crowns, Sushi, Italian etc......
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
family, faith, friends, affection, my mac and my iPad.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My place in life. I don't ever want to waste another minute being on the "wrong path."
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
depends on the week....with my son at home, out with friends
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am a completely open book when you are with me one on one. Wont divulge much here.
You should message me if
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You are sweet, sincere and smile a lot.