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46 M Bend, OR

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:14am
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Entertainment / Media
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
"An absinthe cocktail and an Einstein documentary" is how a recent Facebook posting of mine started the other evening...
"No wonder I am still single" is how it ended.

A gay friend of mine dared me to put that as the opening line of my profile, so....well, it is.

I think everyone is looking for the dream: your best friend; your confidant; your lover; your support system. You look at them when they walk into the room and your world gets a little bit brighter. You can't wait to spoil them as much as they spoil you.

I am looking for is someone who puts up with my faults as much as I put up with hers. Who always speaks the truth, even when it may not be what I want to hear - and I do the same in return. Who has a heart slightly bigger than her brain. Who appreciates the fact that I can be counted on to be faithful as much as the fact that I make inappropriate compliments about how great her ass looks in those jeans.

If she had a pair off cross country (or alpine) skis and/or a kayak, I half way suspect I'd do a back flip.
What I’m doing with my life
I recently moved to Bend to take over a small video production company. But I mostly moved to Bend for the cross-country skiing and outdoor lifestyle. I went to a great deal of sacrifice to move here, so I'm taking the time to become an active member of the community.
I’m really good at
Performing music, predicting the weather (not kidding), scaling hills on my XC skiis, and adapting to whatever comes my way.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Lord of the Rings would count in books AND movies (I know, I'm a geek at times), Shawshank Redemption, and Contact are fav movies and anything by Monty Python. Music is Beatles, Foo Fighters, Peter Gabriel, Alison Krauss, all over the place. Food? I love everying, but Curry, Salmon, Crab, and Tacos/Nachos make the list too.
The six things I could never do without
Gratitude for living.
Cosmology (note: not Cosmetology)
Playing music
My family
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how to enjoy the moment I am living in, while preparing for the future and learning from the past.
On a typical Friday night I am
Having cocktails with friends or recording music in my studio.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I had a near death experience. It changed my life. No visions, no out of body experience, just a gratitude for breathing.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 33–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You've gotten over your "bad boy" stage.
You know that a partnership is a two way street.
You have a zest for living and a sense of adventure.
You are a giver looking for another giver.