I don't hook up because I am worth more than a one night stand, and you should feel the same way about yourself.....so if you're only looking for that you might as well move on. The right guy will put a relationship first then sex. I'm over just having sex, I want to make love, and the thing with that is.... you have to be in love to make love.
I would say that I tend to be more stereotypically masculine in nature, and am attracted to stereotypically masculine men. That being said, I have and love having friends of all types. straight, gay, bi, lesbian, masculine, effeminate, queens, queer, etc. All that matters is that you are true to yourself and if you're a good person to me I will be a good person to you. I especially love drag queens. I can't say that I would ever do drag, but I admire the confidence they must have to do what they do.