I am genuine, inquisitive, and passionate.
My Self-Summary
I have decided to take the next step in my life and purchase my
first house. It's nothing too big, just a condo here in
Phoenixville, but it is MY place. I'm trying to meet some people in
the area, and if I also happen to come across someone special,
that'd be just grand.
Now for a bit about me. I'm interested in politics and current
events and find it important to stay informed. I love discussing a
wide variety of things, and enjoy the occasional friendly debate.
That being said, I'm not really the confrontational sort when it
comes to most other things. I'm generally the peaceful sort, always
been a bit shy, but I really come out when I'm comfortable. I love
music and movies, and enjoy exploring new films, artists, and
genres. My family is important to me and I'm a dog lover. I enjoy
watching sports, and going to the occasional game (big Phillies and
Eagles fan!). Other than that, I'd just say in some ways I'm quite
traditional, yet in other ways not so. Honesty is huge to me (I'm
allergic to lying) and in general I strive to be a honorable
person.
As for you, I'm essentially looking for someone cool to hang out
with, and basically become friends with. If something more
develops, I'd be open to that as well. Really, I'm just looking for
someone intelligent, passionate, and kind who shares my basic
values. If we happen to share some common interests, that'd be
great. So let's chat a little, maybe meet for a drink or some
coffee, and see where it goes, okay?
What I’m doing with my life
I work in IT, doing software development. I work with a great group
of people and I really enjoy my job. And thankfully, it is
relatively secure and the company is doing well.
I’m really good at
I'm good with computers as my job would suggest. In general, I am a
very analytical and logical person and I'm good at figuring things
out. Other than that, people say I'm good at researching and
learning, so that I can then intelligently discuss and debate
things.
The first things people usually notice about me
I seem to come off differently to different people. Most people
find me to be a bit reserved or shy at first, but those who get to
know me know that I can get quite silly and I love to laugh.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
I love movies of almost any type. My favorite genres overall would
be dramas, foreign, and good horror movies. I also like comedies,
sci-fi and fantasy, and a few others. It really depends on the
mood... sometimes you want a 3-hour drama, other times a 90-minute
comedy, yet other times a good scary movie. And who knows, maybe
something animated?
I'm not a big book reader but when I do it is almost always
non-fiction about history, politics, or culture. I regularly read
op-eds and columns in a number of different sources, trying to draw
from across the spectrum. I also can be found hanging out at blogs
and other Internet forums.
As for music, my taste is eclectic and always growing. I generally
like most country music, though I find a lot of the current stuff
too "poppy" for my tastes. I also enjoy alternative, indie, folk,
and sometimes classical. I'm always looking for something new and
interesting. Right now that seems to be bluegrass, folk, and older
country. It's always evolving! It just never includes rap or pop...
ever.
For the record, some artists I currently am listening to include
Neko Case,
Regina
Spektor,
Bon
Iver,
Andrew
Bird,
The
Decemberists,
Bright Eyes,
Conor Oberst,
Death Cab,
OCMS,
Laura Veirs,
Laura Marling,
My Morning
Jacket,
Johnny
Flynn,
Jenny
Lewis,
Rilo
Kiley,
The Postal Service,
Radiohead,
Wilco,
Feist, and others. Feel free
to suggest artists based on that smattering!
The six things I could never do without
- My family and friends
- The new media
- Animals, especially dogs
- The freedom and opportunity I have in this country
- A job that I thoroughly enjoy
- Internet access
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I spend a lot of time thinking about what's going on in the world.
I also think a lot about life, my career and ambitions, and how to
improve myself and help others. Finally, I think about what I can
do to improve my new condo!
On a typical Friday night I am
I usually am watching a movie or doing something else relaxing.
Friday nights are generally fairly low-key for me - I prefer to do
things on Saturdays since on Friday I am tired from the work week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
I'm not interested in playing mind games, and I tend to favor
honesty, even when it's hard. I'm not afraid to admit that I love a
good love story, and somehow still believe I might be part of one.
But that aside, I'm clear-minded about life and try to deal with
things rationally.
You should message me if
First of all, if you are in the area and you're looking for someone
to do stuff with, you should definitely contact me. I love playing
games, watching movies, listening to music, and discussing various
issues.
As for dating, I'm looking for someone who shares my basic values
and enjoys the greatness of a good conversation. I would also like
someone who enjoys staying relatively informed about things, and
who has an interest in learning about, and being involved in, the
world around them. That's the basics I suppose.