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55 M Louisville, KY

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:28am
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Scorpio, and it matters a lot
Graduated from two-year college
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, and might want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I am going to put it out there that I am a great guy to know and to be with. I am very honest, respectful, intelligent, grounded, caring, fun and loving. I communicate well, and I have a very open heart. I am financially secure and healthy. I have a very adventurous side to me, but it is a conciously adventurous side. I make it a point to avoid doing dumb stuff (I guess what is dumb can be realitive to a person's value system. The basis for me is to not hurt anybody, or myself, emotionally or physically).

So I answered a WHOLE lot of questions on here while bored a couple of evenings, and here is what their "matching system" concluded about me that I don't like. When I look at the traits under "my" personality type it suggests that I am "less spiritual". As I am a deeply spiritual person, it is clear (and was when I was answering the questions) that to be spiritual here you apparently must embrace main stream religion. This bias is mildly annoying. It also suggests that I am rather arrogant, which is also bizzare, as certainly no one in my life has ever discribed me as being such. If I had a nickel for every person who has told me I am "laid back" I would have hundreds of nickels (is it arrogant of me to think it would be silly for me to say "I would be rich"?). I tend to have very long term and good quality friendships with lots of love in my life. Kind and giving is typically how my friends and those who know me speak to me. But then, maybe you have to be really super arrogant to be super laid back and easy going...I don't know... :-P

And then it says I am "more mathmatical"! That's a hoot! I have always hated math and have never been good at it. When I was in college I flunked calculus not once, but twice!

Funny stuff :)
What I’m doing with my life
Raising my son. Building my rental property business. At the moment looking for someone fun to date, or a girlfriend with the potential to have a high quality long term relationship with.
I’m really good at
Communication, compassion, relationships (of all kinds, work, friends, lovers, partners, etc), loving, sex, giving massages (I'm professionally trained), cooking (professionally trained in that too). Being in touch with my feminine, compassionate and nurturing qualities while still being very masculine in my base essence.
The first things people usually notice about me
It is different things for different people. I get around a lot, and I am around a pretty good diversity of people, and different types of people see different things.

I guess the most common thing though would be that I am kind and I am respectful. People say to me a lot about how good of a person I am. I like that because that is who I want to be and what I hold a strong intention to be...good to people, as well as good to myself. It is important to be good to ones self as well. Also my strong energetic presence.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Believe it or not, I like books about relationships, healthy sex (I don't mean porn, although porn is okay), compassion and spirituality.

I like most all kinds of music. Not a lot of rap, but I do like some. Also I do not care much for the contemporary country music. It all sounds kind of the same to me. If it is going to be country then give me the old classics. I love that stuff.

I have probably logged a total of about 30 years as an adult not owning a TV. I do own one now, a damn nice one in fact, but I still only have rabbit ears for it. I don't turn it on much.

I love to cook at home, and dining out. Fine dining to all types of ethnic foods.
The six things I could never do without
1. Air
2. Water
3. Food
4. Shelter
5. Sex
6. Hard pressed to think of anything else. Most anything can be taken away from us, so the basics to live are all I could never do without. Okay...I guess technically I could live without sex...but hey!
On a typical Friday night I am
at home hanging out with my son. My usual schedule has him with me every Friday night, and I am free on Saturday nights. I do have the flexibilty, with notice, to switch the schedule if there is something I want to do on a Friday night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Kind of a silly question if you ask me. I cannot even think of anything to put here.

If I feel close to someone and I trust them, then there is nothing that I won't admit to them. I am an open book.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–60
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you want to. You will get a reply back, guaranteed. I am not one to not acknowledge someone when they take the time and make the effort to reach out and write to me. My value system is that it is important to acknowledge people who attempt to connect with me, in a kind and compassionate way, even if I am not interested.