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scorpivs17

40 / M / straight / Single

Stokesdale, North Carolina

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 9" (1.75m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals, Casual sex
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and very serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius and it matters a lot
Education
Dropped out of college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am Adventurous, Enigmatic, and Hedonistic.

My Self-Summary

Hello there! A knight(at least an aspiring squire) in shiny steel armor here! I'm looking for someone to share thoughts and ideas with. Id like to find a traveling companion who isn't afraid to help me slay a dragon(presuming we find one and it's mean, lol), as well! These days, I'm feeling more like a randy pirate, however. It's easier to dress the part, lol -loose fitting comfortable clothing, as opposed to all that heavy armor ;) - I can be either, depending upon the situation...

I'm a hopeless romantic, who wants to find a beautiful, sexy, adventurous and intelligent woman to share a whirlwind romance with -ideally, she will possess the spirit of Eowyn. She will be a lover and a fighter(if need be, of course, lol) capable of taking care of herself and the people she loves, while also being able to let herself be taken care of, too.

I'm open to all possibilities, but would love to simply make a new friend in this journey of life. If the journey takes us beyond that, then all the better! Looking for adventure? Fetch your herald(or just send a message with the answer of the riddle in 'you should message me if') and drop me a line!

Despite the lackadaisical attitude I usually project, I can be serious minded when necessary -although I much prefer to be playful and romantic....Life is too serious, so don't be that way all the time!!!

BTW, I have Scorpio Rising and Moon in Scorpio. If you know what that means, I'd love to hear from you! If you enjoy the music of Enigma while being romantic, then we've got a lot in common!

What I’m doing with my life

I'm employed by a global monstrosity and spend my nights working for them. When I do get free time, I sacrifice sleep in order to have some fun... Unfortunately, by the time Friday comes around, I'm exhausted.

Finding myself back in the singles pool, I am looking for a sexy, beautiful, intelligent and adventurous damsel, who can handle whatever life throws at her and conquer it, and then be as soft and sensuous as silk when the battle is won... She should enjoy being close to the man in her life, and willing to share in new experiences. She should also have the ability to just spend the day lounging around the house, every now and then. Similar outlooks and interests would be fun, but definitely not essential. I am more than happy to find new experiences and share differing viewpoints on everything.

If you lean toward the eclectic, or your friends might describe you as a little eccentric, then that's probably a plus -but certainly not mandatory. Do you enjoy music? History? The night sky? The ocean? Traveling to distant locales and wandering off the beaten path? Do you have the courage to do things your way? Do you like the thermostat set to 75, 70, 65 or 55? Do you like bold colors or neutrals? Are you creative or artistic? Do you enjoy mystery? Have you ever enjoyed an eclipse, comet or meteor shower? Do you like snow, and taking a romantic walk in it?. Does the sound of the ocean soothe your spirit? Would you love to hike to a secluded waterfall, and sneak a dip in the cool mists? Ever wondered what a volcano looks like up close? These are some of the things I enjoy and plan on doing eventually(haven't made it to the volcano yet, lol). If you think you'd like to share in some of these wanderings, please, let me know. You're the dreamy goddess that I'm waiting for...

I’m really good at

Spending money...lol I'm not bad with computers, either. This list will grow when I really put some effort into being a little less humble... ;)

At being brutally honest. Hey, I'm a Sagittarius, after all -it's what we do- foot in mouth or not, we shoot 'em straight! In frank Sag manner, I finally figured out how to make all those silly questions public. I'm not sure I like that they were ever hidden, in the first place. Why hide your opinions? They make you uniquely your own person, so be proud of your answers. If someone judges harshly upon those results, then let their narrowness of mind be your freedom from such people! If someone really takes issue with your opinion, they have an obligation to inquire, do they not? It's not like these things have an essay section where you can explain your answers -because, by the gods, I probably would expand on them a bit, lol.

The first things people usually notice about me

An incredibly good question. I need to get some feedback on this... I would say my sun and moon with ankh tattoo that covers my entire chest. Also my naturally curly hair gets a fair bit of attention, too...

Recently, all of my coworkers would notice that my hair is almost never within corporate guidelines, lol. Newsflash for you corporate diehards, it's gonna get worse! muahahahahahah! After three years of growth, you realize that, I'm sure.

UPDATE:For you corporately minded fools who think that employment gives you control over someone, well not me. My hair is much longer than you like, and it's getting longer, still.. :)

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I did enjoy the Harry Potter series of books(the story as told from Hermione's comprehensive perspective), as well as the movies(the story as it would be told by Ron and Harry).

Also loved the Lord of the Rings movies, though they would have been done greater justice if they had played out in a TV series format, like Babylon 5 was.

Very fond of Italian and Mexican food. Love fondue, despite the hours of prep work involved. Not a snob, I'm just as eager to hit McDonald's or Wendy's. I forgot to add CookOut to that list. My apologies to them!

Musically, I like everything from classical to metal and punk. Anything but rap, and please, let us keep the country to a minimum(I actually like some)

Let's see if my imeem will embed here: If so, then you can see my list grow as I get a chance to update it...

My kind of music...SeductioAudio

I am not sure if Imeem works now or not, but it kinda got lame when most of the songs went to 30 second clips...losers....

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The six things I could never do without

I)Sex. I like it a lot. I'm not promiscuous, thankfully, but I'm a big fan...Thanks to OKCupid, I am 42% more interested in it than the average person, lol(so this is an honest trait) BTW, if you don't enjoy it, any kind of non-platonic relationship we have will be non-existent...

Crap! What happened to the rest of my list??? ugh (honestly, I had spent a lot of time typing up five other items -with descriptions- here and saved it, but when I looked at it to proofread, all that was left was the first item. I took that as some sort of divine signal, and just left it be, lol)

II)Intelligent interaction
III)Music, of some variety(not exclusive against any, but minimal on the rap and country)
IV)The internet
V)Humor and Sarcasm
VI)All things metaphysical

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Who the idiot was who thought that we should spend all of our time working, as opposed to developing who we are or spending time with our friends and families. How will we ever achieve any spiritual breakthroughs if the majority of our time is spent at work?

I, for one, would like to be able to get off this planet before it's blown away by the Vogon Constructor Fleet -or just a random asteroid. How can we evolve into a galactic power if we have people who spend all their time at work, or homeless, or starving, or being repressed from basic human rights?

Why Facebook is so popular? Hey herd, all the stuff you put on there is attached to your REAL NAME, and your employer knows this...give them an excuse to fire you, lol.... No, MySpace is way cooler, more anonymous and far more enjoyable for anyone with a hint of creativity...

On a typical Friday night I am

Dead tired from not getting enough sleep during the previous five days, working nights...

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Well, there was this one time I.........

On the other hand, I'll admit to writing some tests for the site -that might be embarrassing enough, lol. With that said, please take my latest test: The OKCupid Stupid Photo Restrictions Test

The OKCupid Stupid Photo Restrictions Test


Thanks!

You should message me if

You want to!

Up for a mental challenge? See if you can reach the destination of this riddle:The constellation containing the star Antares, spelled with V instead of U (Latin style) AT The name of the Roman goddess who was known to the Greeks as Hera -research, complete and win the admiration of your mind(okay, if you've read this far, you already have that, lol! ;) Consider this extra credit!)

Hey, ladies, I have some wonderful astrology software, so if you would like a free chart and interpretation you can print out, please let me know! Thanks! BTW, if your an astrological skeptic(as I once was) I invite you to get the chart and then tell me how accurate it is!

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