I'm looking for someone to share thoughts and ideas with. I'd like to find a traveling companion who isn't afraid to help me slay a dragon(presuming we find one and it's mean, lol), as well! These days, I'm feeling more like a randy pirate, however. It's easier to dress the part, lol -loose fitting comfortable clothing, as opposed to all that heavy armor ;) - I can be either, depending upon the situation...
I'm a hopeless romantic, who wants to find a beautiful, sexy, adventurous and intelligent woman to share a whirlwind romance with -ideally, she will possess the spirit of Eowyn. She will be a lover and a fighter(if need be, of course, lol) capable of taking care of herself and the people she loves, while also being able to let herself be taken care of, too.
I don't care about your social status or any of that bullshit. If, however, you are the kind of woman who has a loose relationship with honesty, truth or honor, you will likely do something to piss me off, and I will call you out on it. I am not going to be disrespected by you, or anyone. There are a lot of you out there, and I seem to find you. Let me offer you some advice, if you think that lying to me, for any reason whatsoever is a good idea, reconsider. I am a natural detective and WILL find out that you have been less than honest. There is nothing worth the damage that dishonesty causes to the relationship between two people. There is almost never a way to restore trust, once lost.
I also believe that a relationship must be balanced. In other words, if I do something for you, there is an expectation(whether implied or not) for you to offer something in return as a balance. Too often I end up with women who have no sense of balancing relationships, are selfish or are not interested in a real 'give and take' relationship. I am not here to be used by you. I am here to help you, if needed, and I expect the same in return.
It's worth a mention that with regard to communication, if I take the time to send you a message, text or whatever, it's a matter of respect that you make an attempt to respond as soon as possible. It does not matter if you don't like this, it's a matter of respect. I don't waste time sending messages that don't serve a purpose, so I expect a response. If this is too much to ask of you, a simple response to my thoughts or request, then you are too superfluous to really want anything between us to work.
I'm open to all possibilities, but would love to simply make a new friend in this journey of life. If the journey takes us beyond that, then all the better! Looking for adventure? Fetch your herald(or just send a message with the answer of the riddle in 'you should message me if') and drop me a line!
Despite the lackadaisical attitude I usually project, I can be serious minded when necessary -although I much prefer to be playful and romantic....Life is too serious, so don't be that way all the time!!!
BTW, I have Scorpio Rising and Moon in Scorpio. If you know what that means, I'd love to hear from you! If you enjoy the music of Enigma while being romantic, then we've got a lot in common!
Anyone interested in knowing me better needs to understand the description of the INTP and INFP personality types, as I waver between them.. It will save you a lot of misunderstanding. The full text of this is on my my space page. You will also find my photography there, which is cool -check it out if you dare, of course!
I believe this profile should be used as a tool to not only weed out those who are too, something-or-other to get and/or respect me, but to attract exactly what I want, so I'm upping this just a notch here. I am looking for the last, best relationship, but I am also looking for friends who share my perspectives. There is nothing traditional about me. I do not view sexuality as a perverse or bad thing. "All acts of love, honor the Goddess". I live this, and believe that "Love is the way". That means that if we are so attracted to each other, that we have sex on the first date, I absolutely respect you, then, the next morning and forever. If you become my lover, you become a life-long friend, whom I shall never abandon.
I was a firefighter for nine years, and a 911 dispatcher for three. I have learned that life is a something that can disappear in one second, so my attitudes to living are edgy, and non-traditional. I am committed, when in a committed relationship. Until that point, however, we are 'dating'. For my part, I have no problem with the concept of polyamory or open relationships, as long as they are completely based in truth and honesty.
You may think this means that I am promiscuous, but being in the medical field makes one skittish about disease, so that limits my sexual exploits to a very few. It also makes those generally long-term, which is fine by me. A caveat -or warning- is needed here:If you have sex with me, you will likely fall in love with me. This is not a boast, but an observation of the last four years of my life, with four different women. I was once told that I have powers and abilities, and that my specialty was the 'movement of energy through sexuality'. I suppose that's like sexual reiki, or something, which I have no training in, yet.
At this point in my life, I am old enough to know what I want, and honest enough to handle what life gives me. If you are alright with what you have read here, please make a new friend for life...Namaste
I am Adventurous, Enigmatic, and Hedonistic