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scothaniel

51 M Irvine, CA

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Banking / Finance
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Looking for a connection first and open to more. If you like me, are looking for someone to hang out with or maybe even date and you generally fit my preferences, then say hi. Having some mutual interests is good but I am not looking for a clone of me. I like skinny, toned to average, cleanshaven (little scuffy ok) youthful looking mature guys usually younger than I am. No hookups or open relationships or married men. Really am not looking for part time or secret relationships. No mysterious or secretive guys please. That game never ends well for me.

I can't sing... I would like to learn. I don't read many books... but I read a lot. I like to drink with people I like... love sex... mild to wild, into history, social trending, art, parks, museums, photography, volunteering, cars shows, cycling, light mtn biking and my pug. I desire honest sincere open trustworthy friends that can hold a conversation. Eventually I expect I will find my soul mate. I am not perfect by far. Model or porn star... not! I definitely don't required you to be either. I prefer cute, boy next door, geeky, nerdy or brainy. No requirements for this. It just has to feel right. Something physical, intellectual, romantic and healthy. Does this fantasy guy even exist?

May you all know yourselves well enough to find people who make you truly happy.

The end.

Are you still there?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am recreating and rediscovering myself. I am always looking to better myself. I love to learn and teach. I am not in a hurry but I do prefer having a partner. So I am reaching out and getting to know people who might be interested and that there is a realistic chance of a life together. So if you are interested, don't wait till later to tell me.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Hmm. Parallel parking. Solving problems. I am a good friend and lover if I believe you are my true friend and that you love me. I can tell a story. I can teach. Love learning. I know a lot about life in general but sometimes I am not sure why.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My laugh or maybe my eyes. Not really sure. I'll have to take a survey. :-)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Music:
Love music of all kinds but rap and country are not high on the list. Right now i like listening to AwolNation, Imagine Dragons, Adele, Death Cab for Cutie, James Blunt, Adam Shenk, Of Monsters and Men, Muse, Nickelback, Lou Reed, Neil Young, Duran Duran, Black Sabbath, REM, Seven Mary Three, and Metallica. Yeah, what a mix huh? I love rock ballads, blues, live music.
Books:
I don't read many books, but I read a lot. Like Stephen King, Tolkien, Catcher in the Rye. I have started to conceptualize a book I want to write. I love history in all types of media.
Movies:
I love independent movies, cult classics. Scary movies scare me, imagine that. Fear and fright are my least favorite emotions. Psychological Drama, thrillers with great writing, acting, originality ... Yes! I like the fantasy movies a lot as well. If you want to scare me do it intellectually, not with obscene graphics. Take me to some place that does not really exist so my mind can wander. Take me deep into my imaginations limits. A place I thought only I had been or possibly never conceptualized before. Let me experience something I might not ever be able to see, do, hear, think or understand... without the movies. That's what I pay for. The Color Purple, Everything is Illuminated, Elizabeth, Kings Speech, The Iron Lady, John Adams, Star Trek, Lincoln, Batman Dark Knight, Ironman, Bourne Movies, Schindler's List, Forrest Gump, Harry Potter, LOTR, The Hobbit, V for Vendetta, Avatar, Pulp Fiction. I like most things by or with Tarantino, Matt Damon, Leo DiCaprio, Spielberg, Tom Hanks, Tom Cruise, Will Smith, Johnny Depp, Mark Wahlberg and many many more.
TV:
True Blood, Shameless, The Newsroom, Doctor Who, Game of Thrones, Californication, Big Bang Theory, Boardwalk Empire, The Walking Dead, The Graham Norton Show, Nurse Jackie, Modern Family, The New Normal, The Big C, Real Time with Bill Maher, Rachel Maddow, Hardball, Torchwood, (old shows like Star Trek TNG, Farscape. Love HBO, Showtime, AMC, BBCA, PBS, MSNBC.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The order is random. I left out air and food and a roof over my head.

1. My pug for as long as he shall live.
2. Communication. My voice, The internet / phone email and the toys that go along with it.
3. Family/friends, join me.
4. The belief he and I will fall madly in love with each other...
5. Transportation- to move about my life
6. Job/Goals to improve my life and help others along the way.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life, logic, love, art, history and politics, my pug, the next thing on the list.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I like to relax on Friday. Maybe go out to dinner, get a drink hang out with small group of friends. Something casual. Wild clubbing is rare because I don't ever learn anything in clubs with exception that half all songs played are shit, that I can't club dance without drinks and that it is amazing how one drink in a club cost the same as drinking the whole bottle at home. So uhm... Dancing is expensive. If I had someone special... something romantic or even just snuggle at home with a movie and popcorn would do. I try to stay open minded but really want to unwind in a pleasant environment with nice people/person. When I am with good people I am not as concerned with where I am on Friday night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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While I have no real secrets, just stuff I don't tell to everyone. Basically you get what you give and what you need to know depending on who you are and how much I trust you.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 18–52
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you: read and like some or all that stuff I just wrote, are single, are honest, are generally my type, are not looking for a just a hookup, think we match up on some other level, are attracted to me or just have something nice to say.