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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 45–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Aug 24
6′ 5″ (1.96m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Not at all
Judaism, and laughing about it
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Doesn’t want kids
Likes dogs
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I've done a lot of personal growth work: suffice to say I do not seek a tradional relationship with a traditional woman. I treat women as full equals, and I cannot be shamed or controlled by guilt: I value myself and my sexuality and do not perform for sexual access. Happy to trade. As equals.
I am in touch with my emotions, needs, and desires, quite capable of engaging in sustained, powerful, truthful, and real emotional intimacy. I know myself quite well and seek a partner who will engage in mutual discovery of reality, not projections and fantasies. If being seen for what you are scares you, or if you equate romance with true intimacy, I am not a man you would be interested in....nor would you interest me.
Recreationally, I tend to head for the hills whenever possible, skiing in winter, hiking in summer, motorcycle touring, etc. Love to sing, make sacred space, people watch in fascinating places or odd situations. Flexible and always willing to learn: I've been there, done that on a lot of activities, but never know when a new one will pop up. Friend of Bill W's for over nineteen years, if it matters. I don't enjoy being around stoned or drunk people: bad bars and stupid parties annoy me. I seek enlightenment with an omnivorous appetite, never know what will work or educate.

I am tall, spiritual, and complex
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Living it. Experiencing life in all its richness.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Jack of many trades, master of none.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm 6'5". Easy.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The nature of reality, of growth, of experience and history. Spirituality. Gender issues. Politics. Going skiing. My next motorcycle trip.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There is no typical Friday night: with the exception of an occasional evening at shul there is no predicting what I will be doing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I've done Oprah and been in some national documentaries, so keeping secrets about myself is rather a lost cause, a bad habit I have learned to break with impunity. What is known cannot control me or shame me.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are truly capable of being known for what you are. Desire real intimacy rather than romantic fantasy masquerading as intimacy. Tall helps a lot, but is not mandatory.