Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I've done a lot of personal growth work: suffice to say I do not
seek a tradional relationship with a traditional woman. I treat
women as full equals, and I cannot be shamed or controlled by
guilt: I value myself and my sexuality and do not perform for
sexual access. Happy to trade. As equals.
I am in touch with my emotions, needs, and desires, quite capable
of engaging in sustained, powerful, truthful, and real emotional
intimacy. I know myself quite well and seek a partner who will
engage in mutual discovery of reality, not projections and
fantasies. If being seen for what you are scares you, or if you
equate romance with true intimacy, I am not a man you would be
interested in....nor would you interest me.
Recreationally, I tend to head for the hills whenever possible,
skiing in winter, hiking in summer, motorcycle touring, etc. Love
to sing, make sacred space, people watch in fascinating places or
odd situations. Flexible and always willing to learn: I've been
there, done that on a lot of activities, but never know when a new
one will pop up. Friend of Bill W's for over nineteen years, if it
matters. I don't enjoy being around stoned or drunk people: bad
bars and stupid parties annoy me. I seek enlightenment with an
omnivorous appetite, never know what will work or educate.
I am tall, spiritual, and complex
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Living it. Experiencing life in all its richness.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Jack of many trades, master of none.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The nature of reality, of growth, of experience and history.
Spirituality. Gender issues. Politics. Going skiing. My next
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There is no typical Friday night: with the exception of an
occasional evening at shul there is no predicting what I will be
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've done Oprah and been in some national documentaries, so keeping
secrets about myself is rather a lost cause, a bad habit I have
learned to break with impunity. What is known cannot control me or
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are truly capable of being known for what you are. Desire real
intimacy rather than romantic fantasy masquerading as intimacy.
Tall helps a lot, but is not mandatory.
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