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26 M Petaluma, CA

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5′ 11″ (1.80m)
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Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
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My self-summary
...about me. I like to be outdoors and active in the sun doing just about anything. But I get really excited if rock climbing, hiking, frisbee throwing, kayaking, or wind surfing are involved. i try not to attach myself emotionally to difficult situations, doing so causes unneccessary stress over things you have little control over. I'm very physical and like being active and click well with others who are the same, however two of my favorite activities is sitting in a good coffee shop and reading for a few hours, and watching a good movie. i believe that maturity is looking at yourself and knowing who you are and what you can improve, which in turn helps you decide what you like and dislike about others. cant expect things in others if you dont know yourself. what am i doing here? Dating or just looking for a friend to do things with, but i always keep an open mind.
What I’m doing with my life
I am studying health services at the coast guard training center in Petaluma. It's a breath of fresh air to be back in California, even of most oc my time is devoted to studying and practicals.
I’m really good at
Martial arts (tang soo do), its been a huge part of my life and regret not being able to do it constantly. I'm trying to be as consistent as I can with Muay tai and capoeira, both of which I take down here.

As I have indirectly learned from my coworkers, I'm good at breaking out of my comfort zone and taking on whatever issue is at hand, thankfully mostly good issues.
The first things people usually notice about me
Many people would say that I am initially shy and quiet, as if I'm anti-social or uncomfortable in social settings.
Untrue. Introversion and shyness are two different things. Give me a reason to talk and I will enthusiastically.
Also: good posture, for some reason.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
movies: i love film and enjoy studying it. I'm a sucker for good writing and dialogue, also Kung fu movies. Quentin Tarantino( I was hooked with reservoir dogs), Christopher nolan( again, was hooked with memento), the usual suspects, clerks, true grit, Hero, pan's labrynth, life is beautiful, fist of legend, to name a few. Also, in case I haven't already flown my nerd colors yet, Miyazaki's Porco Rosso is my current favorite.
music: 90s rock/alternative is what I grew up with, however blues is the favorite genre now. i also like more underground hip-hop: stuff like pete rock.
Books: science books about astrophysics, psychology, etc. David Sedaris, Italo Calvino, David Mitchell.
Tv: can't tolerate tv like I used to, but the Simpsons has always been my favorite show, and I have Firefly on blu-ray, which I am unable to play.
The six things I could never do without
Sense of adventure
Desire to keep changing for the better
Good friends that take a while to get to know
Supportive family back home
Life experience
Craft beer and good scotch
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Whatever book I'm reading, what movie I just saw, or where I plan on traveling to next
On a typical Friday night I am
Sleeping in early, or grabbing a drink or two
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating
You should message me if
Do you like to play/spar/grapple? Do you have the urge for adventure? How about a sharp wit? Maybe you want to hang out with someone who is genuinely sincere. In any case, we may possibly be friends.