What am I looking for? I would like to find a woman who is intelligent, funny, reasonably drama-free, has some kind of creative outlet or interests, is okay with the fact that I already have a long-term commitment to somebody else, and of course I would like to find her physically attractive. I'm in good shape -- I don't work out, but I'm naturally lean and fit, and I'm aging well. I prefer women with some curves and softness, and generally am more attracted to slightly overweight than to muscular and athletic. (But this is a general preference only -- I like ALL kinds of women.) And then of course, our pheromones need to like each other so we feel that spark.
What do I have to offer? Sense of humor. Delight in sexual play and exploration. Honesty and earnestness. Goofiness and playfulness, if you get me comfortable with you. Warning: I am usually not at my best meeting people I don't know, although there are the rare few I feel at home with right away. I'm smart and I write novels and have a strong creative side, if that happens to be a turn-on for you. And I've been told I'm a good listener.
And as of November 1, 2013, I've just finished writing my newest novel, "The Thing About Alice," and I'm happier with it on completion than I can remember being with anything I've ever written. It's a kink-heavy comedy thriller romance, and anyone who's interested, just contact me and I'll email you a copy. I'm that happy with it.
Movies: My single favorite movie is Obsession, a 1976 romantic thriller by Brian De Palma, who has never done anything remotely like it again. I've got no excuse for loving it so much except that it hit me at just the right time in my life, and I was madly in love with Genevieve Bujold.
Music: Mostly 20th century classical composers and Elvis Costello. Amy Winehouse was fuckin' brilliant but she went and got herself dead.
Food: Oh my god, you name it. Any middle-eastern cuisine, taco bus, hamburgers with fried egg on top, Fritos ... seriously, you name it. Oh, and kimchee makes everything better.
Shows: I assume we're not talking theater here. Don't watch network stuff. I think Game of Thrones is one of the best things I've ever seen that was made for the small screen.
Music (primarily classical)
Pencils, paper, and other writing essentials
The few people I really care about