What am I looking for? I would like to find a woman who is intelligent, funny, reasonably drama-free, has some kind of creative outlet or interests, is okay with the fact that I already have a long-term commitment to somebody else, and of course I would like to find her physically attractive. I'm in good shape -- I don't work out, but I'm naturally lean and fit, and I'm aging well. I prefer women with some curves and softness, and generally am more attracted to slightly overweight than to muscular and athletic. (But this is a general preference only -- I like ALL kinds of women.) And then of course, our pheromones need to like each other so we feel that spark.
What do I have to offer? Sense of humor. Delight in sexual play and exploration. Honesty and earnestness. Goofiness and playfulness, if you get me comfortable with you. Warning: I am usually not at my best meeting people I don't know, although there are the rare few I feel at home with right away. I'm smart and I write novels and have a strong creative side, if that happens to be a turn-on for you. And I've been told I'm a good listener.