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36 San Antonio, TX Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28-50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 26, 2013
5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
Not at all
Other and it’s important
Post grad
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a truly happy person. I am not fatuously happy. I simply choose to find my joy regardless of the external circumstances.

It is near impossible to shock me but somewhat POSSIBLE to embarass me.

I make myself laugh. I suspect sometimes that I think I am funnier than other people do. :)

I'd like to write the great American novel but may not be angst ridden enough anymore to do it.

I love people. I will start conversations with anyone, anywhere. I am something of a social animal. Seguing into animals, I like to acknowledge animals when I pass then on the road and say hello. They don't answer
My interests include criminal justice, documentary film making, singer-songwriting, recovery, politics, Basketball, science fiction, spirituality, traveling.

In general, the superficial things don't interest me terribly. I appreciate aesthetics to a degree but the large bulk of my attraction to someone comes with their character and integrity.

I have led a varied and, at times, dramatic life. I keep it low on the dramatic scales these days
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Long story...mine usually are.
I am gainfully employed, fully self-supporting, educated and
Working towards something else
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Getting to know people-
asking hard questions and actually getting them answered
Learning useless statistics about NBA basketball
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile and my teeth.

That I'm really outgoing
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Food: Indian, Thai, Sushi,

Books: Neil Stephenson, Neil Gaiman, Orson Scott Card, Hermann Hesse, Tom Wolfe, M Scott Peck, Wally Lamb, John Irving,

Movies: Apocalypto, Jesus Camp, Clash of the Titans (original) Babel,City of God, No Country for Old Men, Deja Vu, Born into Brothers, Brokedown Palace, Into the wild, 5th Element, hotel Rwanda, Logan's Run, Mad Max, Monster, Neverending Story, Running Man, Scanner Darkly, Traffic, V for Vendetta.

TV Shows: Oz, Deadwood,Sons of Anarchy, Battlestar Galactica (new), Star Trek DS9, True Blood, The Wire, Doctor Who, Primeva, Game of Thrones

Music: Ani Difranco, M. Ward, Rilo Kiley Susan Tedeschi, Neil Young, Jolie Holland, Otis Redding, Paul Curreri, Matisyahu, Keb Mo, Paul Simon, Regina Spektor, Norah Jones, Johnny Lang, Bright Eyes, Dax Riggs, JT and the Clouds, Iron and Wine, Wilco, Buddy Guy, Damien Rice, Djavan, Kimya Dawson, Manu Chao, Moby, Muddy Waters, Steve Earle.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Meaningul human interaction
Moral compass,
Spiritual connection
Intellectual stimulation
Furry companion
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to be a better woman. Why people think and act the way they do (what makes them tick). Happiness.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Honestly I'll admit anything. My skeletons are on parade. I will wait for like 20 minutes into our would be conversation though before I completely shock the living crap out of you. I'm joking...sort of... Not really.
You should message me if
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You are a thinker.
Interesting.3-Dimensional. Super smart
Find your happiness where you are
You are dead serious about what is important to you but do NOT take yourself too seriously
You are a conversationalist
You have integrity, decency and depth
You are secure and strong in who you are
You are not easily offended or have terribly delicate sensibilities
You like drinking coffee
You are in recovery and/or think that someone else being in recovery is a cool/good/just fine thing and not tantamount to being in a cult