Yes- I'm a girl who likes video games.
Yes- I'm a girl who likes comic books.
and Yes- I'd love to talk with you about it.
But I'm not flamboyant about my nerdy passions because that's not all who I am. As most of my generation is, music is what defines me. Hell, I'm even a musician my self. Drummer. I'm not going to go into how powerful music is, but if you don't understand why I feel that way, then maybe you should avoid that "Send Message" button. But just this once. Music is remarkable and I just want to surround myself with people who can see that.
Let's discuss the the sociological significance and symbolism on today's society in connection with the death of Bruce Wayne's parents. Let's build hypothetical situations of "what ifs" and "would you rather's" in the reality of Aperature Science or Skyrim. Let's make a plan for when the robot-zombie-nazis who are also ninjas take over.
Or let's just talk about the weather. But honestly, we're better than that.