but if you want to actually maybe talk and not come off as a total weirdo, let me know who you are before following me
Disclaimer: I did not put nearly as much thought into this as everyone seems to think. More just a stream of consciousness that I've added to over time.
I'm Katie. I tend to either care too much or too little.
I'm sure that I am primarily made up of curiosity. I'm open-minded towards everything before forming an opinion, and I believe to fully understand something, you must experience it firsthand. I don't like settling for anything until I achieve full fulfillment, but that doesn't always mean I finish what I start.
One day I might become a zoologist/ ethologist, might become a cinematographer / director, or might want to become a psychologist.
I tend to like / prefer men that are a bit older than I am (I'm talking around 8-10 years, not 20+, so please stop messaging me if you're old enough to be my father or grandfather), and women who are closer to my age (read as: older women intimidate me).
I just tend to get along in general with people that are older, and that often makes it very frustrating for me when it comes to dating men. So if you are male, I hope you can look past the age difference, too. Ps. I've been told it's not noticeable so don't worry too much.
As for my sexuality, I believe I am fluid. Furthermore so, I'm homoromantic / asexual towards females (possibly demi idk tho) and demi/ grey a towards men.
If ya didn't get that, Google it. And please be able to respect that part of me.
I'm an old soul that knows too much
"What I hate is ignorance, smallness of imagination, the eye that sees no farther than its own lashes. All things are possible. Who you are is limited only by who you think you are."
Half of me is strong and independent and half of me is lost and scared. Both have their downfalls and both have their good qualities.
Trying to save enough money so I can buy a lot of dogs
Lookin like a different person in every picture.
Saying what I mean, and only what I mean, which I'm sure can either be refreshing or intimidating probably. But I promise if we fight I won't make up a bunch of bs to hurt you. I'll tell u true things to hurt u. I'm kidding maybe.
Getting upset when someone says something sexist, racist, homophobic, fatphobic, transphobic, islamophobic, etc etc etc
I'll chew you up and spit you out (-:
Readin' people. A+ judge of character.
Don't ask me to read you; you won't like what I have to say.
Being overly empathetic to every living thing ever. And let me tell you!!! It really gets exhausting.
I like learning about people and really getting to know them. Little things about them especially. Like the way they take their coffee or what kind of art they enjoy most. I pick up on those things quite well. Which probably makes me a good lover. But I won't love you, so that doesn't matter.
Ruining the ending of movies by guessing them correctly within the first 5-10 minutes.
Above all else, loving who I am and therefore putting my health and emotional stability first. I hope you've learned to do the same.
Come up with something meaningful and genuine if you truly want to compliment me. "Wow you seem wonderful, because..." is an easy start for you.
Also, don't hit on me (that always makes me feel very uncomfortable until I know you better) thank u.
Movies (this one is constantly changing, so things have probably been updated in my mind since the last time I added to this list): Mad Max!!!!!!!!!! (Hmu if the most recent one made u cry bc so good), Kill Bill vol 1, Donnie Darko is A+, along with American Pyscho, Pulp Fiction, Brick, Fight Club, The Princess Bride, Snowpiercer, Kickass, Good Fellas, Scott Pilgrim vs The World, I have a strong love for foreign films, everything I've seen so far by Wes Anderson, Quentin Tarantino, and Hayao Miyazaki, and manyyyy more. You can tell a lot of someone by what movies they like, so hopefully yours are as great as mine 😏.
Books: I'm in love with John Dies At The End, A Heartbreaking Work of Staggering Genius, The Host, My Name is Memory, several fantastic series, 1984, Fight Club, Enders Game, pretty much anything that makes me think/ think differently, and probably close to a billion of other good reads that I will never have enough time to list. Also some of these I read several years ago so who knows if I actually still like them but whatever I'll keep the good memory of them alive.
Currently reading: Oryx and Crake trilogy/ Infinite Jest
Next up: The Count of Monte Cristo/ Infinite Jest lmao smh
Tv: How to Get Away with Murder, GoT, Dexter, Castle, Netflix, n a bit obsessed with food-related shows lately
Food: Sigh. Everything...but some of my favorites are: Sushi, potatoes heh, can pretty much always happily eat Italian, a yummy sandwich, good, true, Cajun foods (the majority of my family is from Louisiana so you aren't foolin' me if it isn't the real deal), bread, and fruit. Mmm I love fruit.
Music: All depends on my mood and environment. Don't ask me this question. I'll forget everything I know. Don't worry, though, I likely like what you're into.
Animals (my cat does not qualify as an animal)
Pen and paper to draw and write
Music to feel and dance
Friends to make memories with
And curiosity to keep me moving and learning constantly
7. Sandwiches, dogs, my new child (hamster) named Theo.
Nutella is pretty gross, I don't like Leonardo Dicaprio, and I can't take Drake seriously
Update: I have converted to Drake
If you'll break out singing (yelling) very loudly and dancing very poorly with the windows down to whatever song we both know if we are drivin (hopefully you know every word to every song sung by Beyonce ever, too).
If you only say anything along the lines of "hey" or something else that clearly indicates you only looked at my pictures, ill delete your message without a reply. Sorry, just tbqh my messages fill up quickly and I delete the ones that dont stand out to make room.
DO NOT call me by any stupid pet name (aka "sexy", "gorgeous", "beautiful", "babe", etc.). I have a name that I tell you within the first couple sentences on here. I do not know you and I don't appreciate you trying and degrade me to being nothing more than a piece of meat. Thnx, pals.
If you go by my fathers name (David) or my brothers name (Josh) there's a 99.9% chance that we aren't ever gonna happen. The idea of calling out either of those names in bed makes me want to vomit. Sorry, nothing personal. Update to all Josh's and David's that have messaged me saying "guess we cant have sex because my name is (insert 'Josh' or 'David')" : If its any condolence to you, that probably wasn't the only deal breaker so dont worry.
You can challenge me in some way
You can make me think
You have a peaceful, kind, mind
You have depth, but can make me laugh
You can keep me on my toes. I need someone that will keep my interest even if we just sit around and watch netflix all day. I need to feel electricity through the air. Okay that last sentence I said made me chuckle tbh but still.
You want to watch Cowboy bebop w me (out of my whole profile, this one comment has grabbed the most attention of the majority of men that message me)
(...Please stop commenting on this to start a conversation with me)
(DEAR GOD, STOP)
You can deal with the fact that I'm sometimes just a sad girl tryin her hardest to be happy
You won't waste my time / bullshit me/ be a selfish prick
You aren't a bigot!!!!!!
If you are condescending towards me at all and/or I feel as though you treat me like you're better than I am (whether it be because of your age, where you're at in life, if you are more talented at something than I am, whatever) I will want to punch you in the face, so Im cautioning you ahead of time not to do that. (-;
I keep telling myself I'll message back every guy I am even slightly interested in, but I never do. I suck at this and I'm sorry.