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20 Seattle, WA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 22–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
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Bisexual, Asexual, Demisexual, Homoflexible, Sapiosexual
5′ 2″ (1.58m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Trying to quit
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Instagram: Sad.pup
but please fricken tell me who you are before following

I used to have a really in-depth bio thing but then I realized that I don't even like reading all that stuff so I tried re-doing it but now I realize it's still just as long and not as great as beforeblah blah bla

I don't have much faith in/ take this site too seriously anymore. It's all becoming one big eye-roll. And I'd say a good 97% of you just annoy the crap out of me. I have no idea why I haven't deleted yet, but I'm thinkin the day may come soon.

Now back to sounding somewhat approachable:

I'm Katie. I tend to either care too much or too little.

Im sure that I am primarily made up of curiosity. Im open minded towards everything before forming an opinion, and I believe to fully understand something, you must experience it firsthand. I don't like settling for anything until I achieve full fulfillment, but that doesn't always mean I finish what I start.

I love animals, art, and the sky at night.
I like road trips - especially by myself.

I'm a Gemini, and have the personality and tattoo to prove it. I also have an Eye of Horus tattoo added to my left ribs. And I have a mistake of a tattoo on my thigh, but I'll eventually get that fixed or removed. Tell me you like it anyway.

I tend to like / prefer men that are a bit older than I am (I'm talking around 8-10 years, not 20+, so please stop messaging me if you're old enough to be my father or grandfather, and women who are closer to my age.
I just tend to get along in general with people that are older, and that often makes it very frustrating for me when it comes to dating men. So if you are male, I hope you can look past the age difference, too.

As for my sexuality, I believe I am homoromantic / asexual towards females (possibly demi idk tho) and demi/ grey a towards men. I have yet to date a female, because until recently I haven't really understood/ embraced my sexuality, but I would love to focus on asexual females right now. 99.9% not interested in men. It definitely is exciting but also scary and for me to finally be open to dating females, but I am brand new at it, so please be patient and kind and yeah. Ready to embrace this side of me so females rn mostly thank u.


I'm an old soul that knows too much

"What I hate is ignorance, smallness of imagination, the eye that sees no farther than its own lashes. All things are possible. Who you are is limited only by who you think you are."

Ps. If you message me or visit me and I visit your profile a bunch and am not messaging/ talking to you, in all honesty, I've probably just forgotten who you are and I'm looking at your profile to see if I'd like you then I'm going "oh this guy nvm" so sorry but oooooops

Half of me is strong and independent and half of me is lost and scared. Both have their downfalls and both have their good qualities.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Who knows (I like to pretend I do but ehhhh)

Moved here from California (gag me) in August of 2013 (already?), and now I'm feeling antsy. I want to visit someone in another state and travel the world and explore new countries.

Just finished school to become a thing but don't know how long it'll keep my interest

Eventually might want to become a cinematographer might want to become a zoologist might want to become a psychologist and might want to spend all my time on becoming a well-known author (a girl can dream, right?)

I need to get out more. And by that, I mean that I love the city so much, but it's been too long since I've gone on an adventure that includes lots of trees and sun and maybe some water and definitely some walking and gorgeous scenic views. And camping!!!!!!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Ha ha ha not making decisions, losing interest in things (and people) too quickly

Lookin like a different person in every picture

Above all else, loving who I am and therefore putting my health and emotional stability first. I hope you've learned to do the same.

Getting upset when someone says something sexist, racist, homophobic, fatphobic, transphobic, islamophobic, etc etc etc
I'll chew you up and spit you out (-:

Readin' people. A+ judge of character.
Don't ask me to read you; you won't like what I have to say.

Being overly empathetic to every living thing ever. And let me tell you!!! It really gets exhausting.

I have a hard time not speaking up when people do somethin' I think is fucked up. aka don't expect me to EVER agree with somethin rude you say (even if it's about some random stranger idc)!!!!

I like learning about people and really getting to know them. Little things about them especially. Like the way they take their coffee or what kind of art they enjoy most. I pick up on those things quite well. Which probably makes me a good lover. But I won't love you so that doesn't matter.

People I hardly know tend to tell me their deepest, darkest issues. I'm assuming that means I'm approachable and good at listening/ giving advice when needed/ knowing what to say. Also v good at keeping secrets.

Ruining the ending of movies by guessing them correctly within the first 5-10 minutes.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
People tend to point out how young I look (I get "12" And "15" a lot more than anyone who's no longer 12 or 15 would like to admit...actually, even 12 and 15 yr olds don't want to look 12 or 15) and it's v annoying and rude imo I can't help my baby face okay

I'm on the shorter side, but I always seem to forget that until I need something on the middle-top shelf.

Come up with something meaningful and genuine if you truly want to compliment me. "Wow you seem wonderful, because..." is an easy start for you.
Also, don't hit on me (that always makes me feel very uncomfortable until I know you better) thank u.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I'm bad at picking favorites, but I'll try.

Movies: Kill Bill vol 1, Donnie Darko is A+, along with American Pyscho, Pulp Fiction, Brick, Fight Club, The Princess Bride, Snowpiercer, Kickass, Good Fellas, Scott Pilgrim vs The World, I have a strong love for foreign films, everything I've seen so far by Wes Anderson, Quentin Tarantino, and Hayao Miyazaki, and manyyyy more. You can tell a lot of someone by what movies they like, so hopefully yours are as great as mine 😏.

Books: I'm in love with John Dies At The End, A Heartbreaking Work of Staggering Genius, The Host, My Name is Memory, several fantastic series, 1984, Fight Club, Enders Game, pretty much anything that makes me think/ think differently, and probably close to a billion of other good reads that I will never have enough time to list. Also some of these I read several years ago so who knows if I actually still like them but whatever I'll keep the good memory of them alive.
Currently reading: Oryx and Crake trilogy/ Infinite Jest
Next up: The Count of Monte Crisco/ Infinite Jest lmao smh

Tv: GoT, Dexter, Breaking Bad, American Horror Story, Castle, IASIP, Netflix, n a bit obsessed with food-related shows lately

Food: Sigh. Everything...but some of my favorites are: Sushi, potatoes heh, can pretty much always happily eat Italian, a yummy sandwich, good, true, Cajun foods (the majority of my family is from Louisiana so you aren't foolin' me if it isn't the real deal), bread, and fruit. Mmm I love fruit.

Music: All depends on my mood and environment. Don't ask me this question. I'll forget everything I know. Don't worry, though, I likely like what you're into.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My cat (even though I prefer dogs otherwise)
Animals (my cat does not qualify as an animal)
Pen and paper to draw and write
Music to feel and dance
Friends to make memories with
And curiosity to keep me moving and learning constantly

7. Sandwiches, dogs, my new child (hamster) named Theo, and my best friend (who also shares my name, but spells it "Kaytee"). Not exactly in that order.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
"Now what?" Is something on my mind quite frequently lately
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I don't know. I just finished school and all my friends are still schoolin' or workin' and I'm dying to go on an adventure with someone new that I can really enjoy being around so maybe help a girl out???

Often with my best friend. Also, you should know, she always comes first and gets dibs on when she wants to hang out w me. So I guess you will have to work around us hehe.
Also also, she has an Okc too (don't find her she's hotter than me) so chances are you've messaged both of us and we are laughing about it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
A bird pooped on my head today.

Nutella is pretty gross, I don't like Leonardo Dicaprio, and I can't take Drake seriously

----fun (jk) facts about me---

I have over 32,000 notes on a screenshot of some dudes message to me on here

I laugh at myself a lot. Sometimes I'll do things like take really unattractive pictures of my face and just laugh at them real loud until tears are comin out of my eyeballs.

I'm also about as sarcastic as they come. If you can't take it and dish it back to me we probably won't work out.

Sometimes I break out in random accents, lyrics, quotes from random crap no ones ever heard of, or real bad impersonations without realizing it

I'm scared to be home alone so I keep the tv or music on constantly when I am, just to have some background noise and keep the "potential serial killer breaking in to murder you" sounds at bay.
Revise: I now am no longer afraid. I've come so far. Might even be evolving.

Intelligence is extremely attractive to me.

Also, all this talking about myself made me feel uncomfortable. I hope I didn't come off as a conceited twat or too negative at any point during your read. I assure you, I'm a twat, but not conceited. And rarely negative in actuality.
You should message me if
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You feel as though we may connect. I'm always up for a good conversation!

If you'll break out singing (yelling) very loudly and dancing very poorly with the windows down to whatever song we both know if we are drivin (hopefully you know every word to every song sung by Beyonce ever, too).

If you only say anything along the lines of "hey" or something else that clearly indicates you only looked at my pictures, ill delete your message without a reply

I thought nothing would make me delete a message faster than my last comment, but I was wrong!! DO NOT call me by any stupid pet name (aka "sexy", "gorgeous", "beautiful", "babe", etc.). I have a name that I tell you within the first couple sentences on here. I do not know you and I don't appreciate you trying and degrade me to being nothing more than a piece of meat. Thnx pals.

If you go by my fathers name (David) or my brothers name (Josh) there's a 99.9% chance that we aren't ever gonna happen. The idea of calling out either of those names in bed makes me want to vomit. Sorry, nothing personal.

You can challenge me in some way

You can make me think

You have a peaceful, kind, mind

You have depth, but can make me laugh

You can keep me on my toes. I need someone that will keep my interest even if we just sit around and watch netflix all day. I need to feel electricity through the air. Okay that last sentence I said made me chuckle tbh but still.

You want to watch Cowboy bebop w me (out of my whole profile, this one comment has grabbed the most attention of the majority of men that message me)
(...Please stop commenting on this to start a conversation with me)

You can deal with the fact that I'm sometimes just a sad girl tryin her hardest to be happy

You won't waste my time / bullshit me/ be a selfish prick

If you are condensending towards me at all and/or I feel as though you treat me like you're better than I am (whether it be because of your age, where you're at in life, if you are more talented at something than I am, whatever) I will want to punch you in the face, so Im cautioning you ahead of time not to do that. (-;

I keep telling myself I'll message back every guy I am even slightly interested in, but I never do. I suck at this and I'm sorry.