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21 Seattle, WA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 22–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 10:24pm
Bisexual, Asexual, Demisexual, Homoflexible, Sapiosexual
5′ 2″ (1.58m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Trying to quit
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Instagram: Sad.pup
but please fricken tell me who you are before following

Disclaimer: I did not put nearly as much thought into this as everyone seems to think and I'm sorry I'm a living lie basically

I'm Katie. I tend to either care too much or too little.

Im sure that I am primarily made up of curiosity. Im open minded towards everything before forming an opinion, and I believe to fully understand something, you must experience it firsthand. I don't like settling for anything until I achieve full fulfillment, but that doesn't always mean I finish what I start.

I love animals, art (film, writing, drawing, etc etc etc), and the sky at night.
I like road trips - especially by myself.

I'm a Gemini, and have the personality and tattoo to prove it. I also have an Eye of Horus tattoo added to my left ribs. And I have a mistake of a tattoo on my thigh, but I'll eventually get that fixed or removed. Tell me you like it anyway.

One day I might become a zoologist/ ethologist, might become a cinematographer / director, or might want to become a psychologist.

I tend to like / prefer men that are a bit older than I am (I'm talking around 8-10 years, not 20+, so please stop messaging me if you're old enough to be my father or grandfather), and women who are closer to my age (read as: older women intimidate me).
I just tend to get along in general with people that are older, and that often makes it very frustrating for me when it comes to dating men. So if you are male, I hope you can look past the age difference, too.

As for my sexuality, I believe I am fluid. Furthermore so, I'm homoromantic / asexual towards females (possibly demi idk tho) and demi/ grey a towards men.


I'm an old soul that knows too much

"What I hate is ignorance, smallness of imagination, the eye that sees no farther than its own lashes. All things are possible. Who you are is limited only by who you think you are."

Half of me is strong and independent and half of me is lost and scared. Both have their downfalls and both have their good qualities.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Ha ha ha not making decisions, losing interest in things (and people) too quickly

Lookin like a different person in every picture

Telling embarrassing stories about my life.

Getting upset when someone says something sexist, racist, homophobic, fatphobic, transphobic, islamophobic, etc etc etc
I'll chew you up and spit you out (-:

Readin' people. A+ judge of character.
Don't ask me to read you; you won't like what I have to say.

Being overly empathetic to every living thing ever. And let me tell you!!! It really gets exhausting.

I have a hard time not speaking up when people do somethin' I think is fucked up. aka don't expect me to EVER agree with somethin rude you say (even if it's about some random stranger idc)!!!!

I like learning about people and really getting to know them. Little things about them especially. Like the way they take their coffee or what kind of art they enjoy most. I pick up on those things quite well. Which probably makes me a good lover. But I won't love you so that doesn't matter.

Ruining the ending of movies by guessing them correctly within the first 5-10 minutes.

Above all else, loving who I am and therefore putting my health and emotional stability first. I hope you've learned to do the same.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
People tend to point out how young I look (I get "12" And "15" a lot more than anyone who's no longer 12 or 15 would like to admit...actually, even 12 and 15 yr olds don't want to look 12 or 15) and it's v annoying and rude imo I can't help my baby face okay

Come up with something meaningful and genuine if you truly want to compliment me. "Wow you seem wonderful, because..." is an easy start for you.
Also, don't hit on me (that always makes me feel very uncomfortable until I know you better) thank u.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I'm bad at picking favorites, but I'll try.

Movies: Mad Max!!!!!!!!!! (Hmu if the most recent one made u cry bc so good), Kill Bill vol 1, Donnie Darko is A+, along with American Pyscho, Pulp Fiction, Brick, Fight Club, The Princess Bride, Snowpiercer, Kickass, Good Fellas, Scott Pilgrim vs The World, I have a strong love for foreign films, everything I've seen so far by Wes Anderson, Quentin Tarantino, and Hayao Miyazaki, and manyyyy more. You can tell a lot of someone by what movies they like, so hopefully yours are as great as mine 😏.

Books: I'm in love with John Dies At The End, A Heartbreaking Work of Staggering Genius, The Host, My Name is Memory, several fantastic series, 1984, Fight Club, Enders Game, pretty much anything that makes me think/ think differently, and probably close to a billion of other good reads that I will never have enough time to list. Also some of these I read several years ago so who knows if I actually still like them but whatever I'll keep the good memory of them alive.
Currently reading: Oryx and Crake trilogy/ Infinite Jest
Next up: The Count of Monte Crisco/ Infinite Jest lmao smh

Tv: GoT, Dexter, Breaking Bad, American Horror Story, Castle, IASIP, Netflix, n a bit obsessed with food-related shows lately

Food: Sigh. Everything...but some of my favorites are: Sushi, potatoes heh, can pretty much always happily eat Italian, a yummy sandwich, good, true, Cajun foods (the majority of my family is from Louisiana so you aren't foolin' me if it isn't the real deal), bread, and fruit. Mmm I love fruit.

Music: All depends on my mood and environment. Don't ask me this question. I'll forget everything I know. Don't worry, though, I likely like what you're into.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My cat (even though I prefer dogs otherwise)
Animals (my cat does not qualify as an animal)
Pen and paper to draw and write
Music to feel and dance
Friends to make memories with
And curiosity to keep me moving and learning constantly

7. Sandwiches, dogs, my new child (hamster) named Theo, and my best friend (who also shares my name, but spells it "Kaytee"). Not exactly in that order.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
"Now what?" Is something on my mind quite frequently lately
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working, probably. 😴😴😴
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
A bird pooped on my head today.

Nutella is pretty gross, I don't like Leonardo Dicaprio, and I can't take Drake seriously
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Probably should make this a "you SHOULDNT message me if"

You feel as though we may connect. I'm always up for a good conversation!

If you'll break out singing (yelling) very loudly and dancing very poorly with the windows down to whatever song we both know if we are drivin (hopefully you know every word to every song sung by Beyonce ever, too).

If you only say anything along the lines of "hey" or something else that clearly indicates you only looked at my pictures, ill delete your message without a reply

I thought nothing would make me delete a message faster than my last comment, but I was wrong!! DO NOT call me by any stupid pet name (aka "sexy", "gorgeous", "beautiful", "babe", etc.). I have a name that I tell you within the first couple sentences on here. I do not know you and I don't appreciate you trying and degrade me to being nothing more than a piece of meat. Thnx pals.

If you go by my fathers name (David) or my brothers name (Josh) there's a 99.9% chance that we aren't ever gonna happen. The idea of calling out either of those names in bed makes me want to vomit. Sorry, nothing personal.

You can challenge me in some way

You can make me think

You have a peaceful, kind, mind

You have depth, but can make me laugh

You can keep me on my toes. I need someone that will keep my interest even if we just sit around and watch netflix all day. I need to feel electricity through the air. Okay that last sentence I said made me chuckle tbh but still.

You want to watch Cowboy bebop w me (out of my whole profile, this one comment has grabbed the most attention of the majority of men that message me)
(...Please stop commenting on this to start a conversation with me)

You can deal with the fact that I'm sometimes just a sad girl tryin her hardest to be happy

You won't waste my time / bullshit me/ be a selfish prick

You aren't a bigot!!!!!!

If you are condescending towards me at all and/or I feel as though you treat me like you're better than I am (whether it be because of your age, where you're at in life, if you are more talented at something than I am, whatever) I will want to punch you in the face, so Im cautioning you ahead of time not to do that. (-;

I keep telling myself I'll message back every guy I am even slightly interested in, but I never do. I suck at this and I'm sorry.