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57 M Brookfield, CT

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Last Online
Today – 5:59am
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Sanskrit (Poorly)

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My self-summary
If you want to imagine who I am, this profile is not a bad jumping-off point. First of all, I am someone who believes in living life to its emptiest. When it's gone, it's gone .. and I don't plan on leaving any in the glass.

These days I am of ... muted availability. I love to flirt and make friends, though. OKC is a great place to hang out and meet interesting women.

I should really have an FAQ page. Not that I get a lot of questions, really, but it would be fun to make them up.

Yes, I'm 6' 1". Yes, I'm 57. I mention this because these are apparently things that men lie about, according to my posse of women friends. I don't understand why anyone would lie about how tall they are? Seems like wishful or delusional thinking ...

And thank you, the years have been reasonably kind. This must be due to good genes, because it sure wasn't the clean and virtuous living.


I have answered a LOT of questions on this site publicly ... because it's fun to do. And I'd like to add these caveats to just about all my answers.

1. Just because I say I might doesn't mean I would.
2. I reserve the right to change my mind.
3. It depends.

And I will assume the same on your behalf. Reading the answers to questions -- and the explanations -- is much more interesting than reading the profiles.



At various times in my life, people have told me I look like or have even actually mistaken me for:

Peter Frampton
Gene Wilder
"That guy in the Moody Blues"
Richard Branson

I choose to believe I was being flattered.

Add Bruce Davison to the list (May 14.)
Throw in ... Anderson Cooper? (Aug. 16)

I should probably retake the "slut" test. Not that I lied, but there must be some sort of ... ummmm ... slightly more conservative version of the facts that will get my score down. As is, it perhaps describes me as I've been occasionally but not recently.

I'm aware that my frivolity can be deadly irksome to those who are here on serious relationship quests and missions.

I would like to form a support group for other people who had to memorize all the helping verbs and, years later, can still recite them effortlessly, fast enough that you can hear a sonic boom as they whoosh out. I'd hate to think that I am the only one.
What I’m doing with my life
Starving artist, of the writer variant. And editor. And a bit of this, that and the other. I can and do design, build and write web sites. Little ones and big ones.

Lately, I'm not actually starving and have plenty of work, thanks. People shouldn't be quite so literal, you know?

I was working on a book that has rather a lot to do with dating, mating and social networking. That project is on hold.

Though I can play guitar, it has been many years since anyone paid me to do that.
I’m really good at
Writing. I also talk a good game but I'd rather write. Talking wears me out faster. I'm pretty good at a lot of things, which has caused me as many problems in life as it has solved.
The first things people usually notice about me
Tall/blond. I look like I belong in Amsterdam.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My favorite book is Peter S. Beagle's "The Last Unicorn," because it is the book that made me want to become a writer. It didn't make me want to write fantasy, or fiction, or anything in particular. It simply made me aspire to write very well and to work hard to get better at it.

It also made me like the name "Molly."
The six things I could never do without
I am tempted to say I'll come back to this question, but I really don't intend to.
On a typical Friday night I am
I have little use for the word "typical."

I think I should just leave it at that.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm not married, nor do I expect to be (again.)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–100
  • Near me
  • For new friends
You should message me if
-- You're bored and you think I'm cute. :-) Let's face it, looks matter. I have lots of friends who think I'm funny and smart (and they're wonderful) but it's much more fun to talk to someone who thinks I'm kind of hot. (Too.)

(Note: Under "I'm looking for," above, I only checked off "For new friends." Because given a bit of friendship, all other things become possible. I only do things with people I *like* if I can possibly help it. And I change the age range around at whim. I have mostly dated women within ten years of my own age. Mostly.)

I'd say that I have given up on the fantasy of meeting a hot librarian who is sort of unaware that she's hot. But it wouldn't be true. That I've given up, that is.

-- You appreciate Coraline for saying this to her Other Mother:

“I don't want whatever I want. Nobody does. Not really. What kind of fun would it be if I just got everything I ever wanted just like that, and it didn't mean anything? What then?”