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scubadou

46 M Sneads Ferry, NC

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Strictly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Sign
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Construction
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
..................................HELLO ...................................

HI !!!! And how are you ?
.... Yes this is really me ..That is my picture and I don`t fake ... I am a worker .. I am a lover of thought, And I am very real
This is my personal profile .. Very truthful, relaxed , real and kinda long , but by no means all of me. For your convenience I have vetted the most of my profile . There is a long version for those who want to KNOW more . And a short one for the tire kickers ...
....................THOSE STARS.......................................
If you rate me with the stars .. please message a "HI" as well ...... I no longer subscribe here and can`t tell if you have done so ... Also I am a meeting type of person ,not text ..What that means is by all means feel free to text me. But if it turns into a text competition no one will win. not possible romantic connections anyway . ....... Thanks ..
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..........................THE SHORT VERSION......................... ..
The good . .....I am honest, caring, Courageous, Benevolent ,loving, daring ,decent,Umbel. kind heated, considerate, open minded, understanding and loyal, self confident ,intellectual trust worthy, down to earth to every one in life , generous laughs with any one . Wants to make people happy and lively,
The bad..... Highly excitable . ( but not in dangerous situations) Talkative, Bit of a smart ass,and single minded
The weird...My comedy. Healing, and To forthright in serious situations..
...................................HER........................................

I am looking for a honest, trusted and loving, Courageous, ,Passionate, caring, and trust worthy, A little shy,down to earth, good to every one in life and generous, And laughs with any one to make people happy .Oh yeah If you are southern that is a plus and if you are from NC even better.. .Active and likes the water examples are canoe (kayak) Small boats river ocean , Wading in creeks What ever.... Just add water.

.....................THE LONG (VERY LONG :P)..................

If you want to be Real, then you are at at the right place . If you read this and look at the pics I have put up you will see what is important to me...
I am 47 Years of what ever it is that has made this country great .. I am by no means great but Greatly thankful to live where I do. For all of my time , I have lived (LOVE) in close proximity to and in the water , in doing so it has made me who I am .. ... .
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..............................SOUTHERN RAISED........................

If you read this , and you want to imagine you hear my voice ? Do it in a (very) southern ,deep, Drawl.(although articulate as well). I and some 12 Generations of ancestors are all from the old north state . A Real Tar heel but not a snob about it .That comes with the territory....BUT NOT A RED NECK..I have read a few more science fiction , and classical novels than most..
If You are up for an adventure.... Not fantasy, but for real .(Not planing or being in control of anything about it) Then I am your man.....
I don`t` drink per say but if the wine is fine then pour me some..
I don`t do clubs of any sort ,but I will carry your arm to any formal event with pride.I like live plays and music in formal places .. .(A gentleman)
I live for the out doors and travel , The farther and newer to me the better...Although I am home sick after one of these adventures..
You can bet your new car I will give it all I have to keep you happy, but I need a two way street to travel on...

..................................Passion ......................................

I am a bit of a smart ass , so be warned.I try to be the comic ( with varying results). Not a mean person but I love a good prank.(even at my expense) we will need to get to know each other to see if I can make you laugh .And If I can, you will be laughing everyday. I write Poetry,. I know some Shakespeare by heart . The classics are my thing...
Building with my hands. All manner of stuff.wood,composites,cements,metal,dirt.. Plants.. Got a little bit of a green thumb. Oh and if work slows or it rains I will lift weights but not in a gym .If you want others to feel good you need to as well . Hard work or exercise will do that for you.... ....

.....................Not into drugs or alcohol..........................

I am not a snob about this . I never did them as a kid and don't want to start them now or ever.. . Just have to many people who meant the world to me and have lost them to addictions. These people were important to me .. My limit is a good beer or red wine on occasion, before bed for sleep and dreams......

..................................DESIRE...................................

Thanks for the comments about my body but I do not work out ...I WORK... I build big stuff .. That means heavy stuff.. (construction worker ) I have three kids (all grown ) I am romantic to the bone ( I write poetry) I am currently having to recover from an accident at work .. (Three months according to the DR).. This supremely sucks....I am an active person so this is going to be hard.. .. I have an interest in Photo Voltaics and wind energy for self sustenance . I am a very good listener as well as a very passionate person in all that has my attention ...

..................................COMMITMENT..................................
I was married 25 years and now divorced for four , but still some pain left as I was just recently told.. I still have a sore heart but please understand .. Not for my Ex ..I invested a lot to try and save the marriage but she wanted it otherwise.. i am not clingy unless you want a hug :P Enough said and on with a better life . ..

..............................ATTITUDE.....................................
I am a very easy to get along with, happy person who wants to be there for another person .......
I WILL NEED TO MEET YOU .I am far better in person than on here.... .. Not Email ,text(yuk) or video phone .. I prefer meeting you and or voice over anything else ...
A lot is said when the person on the other side is having to think about an answer. If you don`t want to talk it is ok I will .. but it is much more fun if you bring questions .....
Know that I am drawn to extra ordinary Girls .. Smart , pretty passionate spirit, and heart , I am very attracted to a strong will that knows what she wants and is not scared to ask or go for it..Women who are shy (but know what they want) are my kinda girl.(I get ya).. So don`t think for a minute that if you message me first that you may seem DESPERATE .Friends first .... .. These are the 20 teens ladies .. Go after what you want ......

...........................FINANCES........................................
Just like everybody else I like the extras that hard work provide.. But as of now ,with three kids "and two in collage" it is harder to have for myself so money is kinda tight right now...... It is going to take a year or so to get things like they were .. It is going to take a very understanding and honest Lady around my age ,( 10 years or so )to understand what I am talking about.I have traveled the road less traveled ..If you know what that means give me a "HI" as a message..

......................NOT ALWAYS ON HERE.............................
I leave my computer on with OK cupid, most of the time even though I may not be on here .. Please be patient as I will answer back as soon as possible ......

............................NO GAMES......................................
I do not chase girls,never have . But once I have found THE girl and if (feelings ) are equitable, I will pursue her and show my intentions... ....

.............................REALIZATION......................................
Long looks are required to get who I am .. Starring at very clear, very deep water is the best analogy I can give .. Looks shallow at first but If you are careful you will see a big fish swim by and then it all comes into focus....Remember focus...... REAL... This will take time and if you are in a hurry stop here and I hope you find what you are looking for somewhere else ...Friends first .. ..

.............................3000........................................
Here are my answers to the questions . Just ask if you need to know anything... Most of the questions are answered on the profile and re answered in my profile questions of about 3000 or so . I had to do a lot of introspecting to get them right and honest.(STILL WORKING ON THEM). Hope you have as well...I have a very sympathetic ear ......I am looking for far more than a pretty face and and silhouette ...A match and some intuition is needed
............................PHOTOS..........................................
Here are my pictures .. As you can see it is full of things I have done and a few of me ..If you want one that is new, just tell me and I will get it for you ..

...........................WORK HABITS...............................
I work very hard , long and odd Hours . That`s not to say I wont take the time for you at the drop of a hat .(hard hat HA HA)
...........................WHAT I LIKE ..................................
A lady who is spicy .. My favorite spices are, TIME (experience)Trust worthy,Down to earth (EARTHY ) , silly(in private ),Real,Caring,Strong willed but soft spoken,Easy going,Loving,Touchy feely,(in private ) Giving,Shy, but getting over it (means a PRIVATE PERSON)) And last but not least SMART (Big time)........

........IF I HAVEN`T GOTTEN BACK TO YOU QUICKLY.............
. Sorry if it takes time to get around to it with my job.. Right now it is 50 TO 73 hours .. Nothing new to me.... I build therefore I am. But don't let that sway you .. I will change all of that for the right person..

............................THANK YOU .......................................
Thanks for your time.....I know how valuable it is and also how sweet it is when lit with the flame of passion ..

.....................WIDE SPREAD EXPERIMENTS................

........."OK CUPID IS DOING EXPERIMENTS ON ALL OF THE PROFILES HERE , FREE OR PAYING IT DOES NOT MATTER .
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If you don`t want that " get off of the net" .. Face book did it and so did all of the other information grabbing sites as well ..That is why this site is free to everyone who chooses.. I no longer pay for the service so I look at it like this .. The more you know about me the better but You will only know me if we meet .. I am really tired of stressing that .. I know we are both taking chances to get to know each other but I am looking for the one to be beside me forever..
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These OK Cupid people are only trying to get others together and talking.
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.... I have had four 100% matches so far (anything above 98% according to OK cupid) and they went OK but had better results from other ratings ( These OK Cupid people are only trying to get others together and talking)....Thanks for your time and this profile will self destruct after reading . 10 ,9 8,7,6,5,4,3,2,1,.. :P thwthwthwt..
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What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Starting over......And It is Great.....
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Meetings..Lots and lots of meetings .. So far not a bad one yet ..
I am a simple person ...But It takes a lot to keep my mind busy...
I am certified in a lot of EXCITING things like...........
Scuba instructor retired ....11 years
100 ton master capt .. Lieutenant officer ..30 years
Large boat building and repair ...20 years
Dive boat capt.... retired but not for long ...18 years
Concrete dome construction... 8 years
building heavy bridges.....6 months ....
building great orgasms for her.....27 years .. ( yes that has a certification as well.. ) just ask how and I will elaborate on it with decorum ...
NON CERTIFICATIONS ARE THUS............................
Poetry
Canoeing
Snow skiing
Three wheelers
four wheelers (Yes that includes jeeps)
caving(spelunking)
hiking
hunting ( a long time ago)
Fishing (trout) and salt water
clamming
shrimping Trawling
crabbing
shell collecting ......etc.... etc ..( you get the picture)

Basically anything you want to do and I am happy ...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Some shy....but noticeable and social... I put myself into any picture.
You will need to be your own judge when you see me ..I am a private/ public person.
People that claim to know me really don`t ....
I open up to only a few people ...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love to read ..
The internet ..
Classic novels
Original Shakespeare.
science fiction (the classics)
Large collection of movies ( DVD)
The true romance ( classical)
Music that carries me away ..
Hole in the wall places to eat ....I know where the perfect Japanese restraint is.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
It takes way more than six .... But a few are ....
My Creator.......
Children ......Family
Love.......SEX......(Passion)...They are connected
Creating......
Strength......
And a plethora of other..................
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
New ideas....And the other person before myself.... Sticking to your guns takes more if it sounds weak to everybody else...Remember NOAH and the flood....And after reading lots of profiles , there are a lot of lonely people out here.. ..
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
plenty of time for you ..
But usually cleaning the house .......
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If you said it on the net ,it is not private anymore...................................thwthwthwthwpt :P
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–47
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you can look at me for who I am ....I have answered over 3000 or so questions as far.. just do a questions match. to important subjects that matter to you..Preferably more than 100 will give you a better idea of who I am .. .......Thanks. Eric.....
.........................................................................................................Gonna try anyway..........................................

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