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35 Mayfair, UK Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 32–46
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:11am
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Spanish (Okay), Icelandic (Poorly), Russian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
According to my parents, as a baby I would roar with delight at the world around me each time I woke up. While my roars tend to be more internal these days, I'm still a happy, joyful person who wholeheartedly loves life. All sorts of things spark my interest and I love sharing other people's passions with them. New, fun, pleasurable, exciting and exceptional are all good things in my book. And I'm a borderline INFJ / ENFJ, if you're that way inclined :)

Aside from being enchanted and charmed by the mundane, I love keeping fit and flexible. I mostly avoid refined and processed foods, although I will lustily devour a delicious dessert, should the mood take me - life's about balance after all!

I really do stop to smell flowers, savour sunsets and to receive a compliment. I appreciate material things and money is really wonderful, but the intangibles, a smile, a shared laugh, being wrapped in the arms of the man I love, are priceless.

Willing to try almost anything twice, as I believe in giving everything and everyone time and space to shine.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Well, apart from being a Bond girl in training...

I'm actually a Mary Poppins aka a governess. I love my job as I get to play and laugh all day. Dream job, right? I travel a lot and enjoy the luxurious international lifestyle that goes with my job. I do work most evenings and weekends, just to let you know.

Since my teens I've volunteers with various social and educational charities in a few different countries. Mostly, I've worked in education: teaching street kids in Honduras, training teachers in rural Rwanda, and public sector education management in the UK.

Dancing is a big part of my life and I'm planning on spending October dancing salsa in Cuba and tango in Buenos Aires, if you fancy joining me?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being happy, making plasticine dinosaurs and blanket forts, and having beautiful curly hair, according to the 4-year old boy I work with.

Looking mighty fine: in my Dainese leathers on a sports bike (about to buy a new Ducati), dressed up crazy sexy and shaking it on the dance floor, delightfully splattered in mud on a trail run, or naked (with you?) on a secluded beach...

Being a muse, inspiration and loving cheeerleader. Calling out the best in people. Loving, nurturing and holding the dreams of those I love, even when they loose faith in themselves.

Packing. Seriously, if 10,000 hours of practice makes you an expert at something then I am an expert at packing. Oh, and I absolutely love it. I help friends and family move house because I find it fun.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Quick survey of friends reveals that they notice my:
1. Smile (thanks very much)
2. Good posture (can't take the dancer out of the girl)
3. Exotic allure (what, am I a mango or something?!)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Lots! I love books - browsing, buying, borrowing, devouring, having, lending and good old fashioned reading. Tend to favour classic literature, spiritual and (quasi-)academic books. Currently reading 'Seductress' by Elizabeth Prioleau, 'Flourish' by Martin Seligman, 'Biocentrism' by Bob Berman and the Samuel Beckett biography 'Damned to Fame' by James Knowlson.

I'm almost word perfect on The Big Lebowski, The Princess Bride and Howl's Moving Castle. Oh, and anything with Vin Diesel in, I'm all over. He's super sexy, positive and charismatic, and extremely swoon-worthy - deal with it!

Yes to music, from opera to reggaeton, especially if it makes me want to dance. Life's too short for making endless lists!

Double yes to food. Almost anything fresh and natural I'll try. If you grow and / or catch our dinner that's a triple yes.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
* Loved ones (friends & family)
* Experiencing sensual pleasure (dancing, gelato, silk, bubble bath, kisses)
* Being read to
* Loving kindness
* Feeling fit, toned and at home in my body
* Meditation
* Broccoli
* Questions: formulating, asking, mulling, and even, sometimes, answering.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Love, desire, appreciation, stillness and joy.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Most Friday evenings I'm working, so reading Mr Men books or playing with Lego. Seriously rock'n'roll, I know.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm an alpha submissive and sleep better with something to cuddle.
Choice 1: my sexy hunk (you?!)
Choice 2: my threadbare childhood teddy bear Leo (he's getting a bit hugged out)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're a strong, happy alpha male with quick wit and slow hands.

You take yourself lightly and are comfortable with who you are.
(I find integrity and authenticity very sexy.)

You know you're amazing and want to be with someone who encourages you to be even more so.

You can write in sentences and are not afraid to do so.

You can make me smile (5 points), chuckle (10), laugh (20), fall on the floor laughing (free play).