Not necessarily better, just different. Hear me out.
Do you prefer going to things like writer's festivals or Festival of Dangerous Minds than getting mindlessly drunk, dancing to crappy music and having to shout to be heard? Would you prefer to watch an HBO series than reality TV? Do you prefer going to a dinner party to going to see a live music that leaves your ears ringing afterwards?
Do you have a healthy disdain for superstitious beliefs, and have to quietly roll your eyes at the people around you bragging about their latest fad diet, de-tox, or medical remedy that has no evidence to support it?
Are you spiritual but nevertheless turned off by the simplicity and obvious untruth of most of the world's religions creation myths? Do you like to talk about real issues affecting people around the world? Are you grateful for this world we live in but see places it could be improved?
Would a picnic on a nice summer day be your idea of a perfect afternoon? Do you think that most romantic movies are terrible, with notable exceptions such as the "Before Sunrise/Sunset/Midnight" series?
Do you have a deep passion for something that you'd like to communicate with someone? Are you a daydreamer? Do you detest mindless consumerism? Have you ever had dreams of living a simpler, more frugal life?
Do you think artistic endeavour (of any kind) is one of the highest forms of human expression?
Would you like to meet someone else who answers "yes" to these questions?