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30 Easthampton, MA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 29
5′ 1″ (1.55m)
Body Type
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Dislikes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Hebrew (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I love deep conversations that last for hours, and silly ones that lead to inside jokes. My close friends are very important to me, and I am there for them. I know what really matters to me, and am going for it: I started my own business in my dream job, and tailor my life to feed my spirit with art, exercise, the outdoors, personal growth, and great connections with wonderful people. I keep a healthy, holistic, eco-friendly lifestyle, and believe that we all have a duty to build a more compassionate and equitable world. I'd say I'm spiritual, rather than religious; nature is sacred to me and my philosophical outlook tends toward Buddhism. Since I'm constantly seeking to grow, I have become very good at understanding and changing my own inner stories and patterns. You won't have to know me long to see me grow, and if I do something you don't like, you can tell me and I will honestly think about it and use it to progress.

I am ready to meet my life partner, but as long as a relationship feels genuinely good, I'm there. I'm more on the straight side of bi and tend to be attracted to men who are: physically fit, good at fixing/building and growing things, joyful, confident, self-aware and communicative, intellectual and inquisitive, responsible, and romantic. (And I know that I could be very happy with you, even if this list doesn't totally describe you.) In my vision of a healthy relationship, we both feel whole on our own but reach new heights together, and work together to solve any problems, so that it never feels like "me vs. you." And we laugh and cuddle a lot.

I’ve had some great success meeting new friends on OkCupid and would love to connect with some more.
What I’m doing with my life
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I have my own business as a writer and consultant supporting anyone working for a better world. Grant writing for nonprofits is my bread and butter. It is deeply, inexpressibly gratifying to do what I love and use it to make a difference.

I eat healthy, run, do yoga every day, hike occasionally, and dance 1-3 times a week for hours on end. I'm committed to keeping fit and healthy as I get older, and looking for a man who is too.

Salsa dancing/Latin dancing is pure joy to me. I'm also getting into west coast swing. My dance partner and I go dancing 1-3 times per week and teach together. He's training me in a dozen other styles too, including ballroom, swing, and a little country. I also love freestyle dancing to just about anything with a beat.

I am working on my first novel (character-based literary) and write some poetry. For down time, I read novels and National Geographic, make my own jewelry, and watch quirky or artsy stuff on Netflix.

My friends and I tend toward long talks and tea, hiking, clubbing, or pool (which I am hilariously terrible at).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Appreciating the little things, giving advice, supporting people emotionally, growing as a person, writing, editing, networking, building my own business, staying organized, dancing, cuddling, bargain shopping, doing energy work (reiki and others), attracting synchronicity, making people laugh, and meowing so realistically that even cats are convinced.

I regularly find 4, 5, 6, and even 7-leaf clovers - my record is over 300 on the same walk. I find them all the time, and still each one feels like a miracle.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My hair – it’s down to my butt, crazily thick, and wavy.
My tininess – I’m 5 feet tall, size 3, just over 100 lbs.
My butt - just being honest. Men really seem to notice it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Anais Nin (just the diaries and novels), Tom Robbins, Margaret Atwood, or the archaeologist Marija Gimbutas. Poetry by Liz Waldner. Portrait of Jennie by Robert Nathan, Poisonwood Bible by Barbara Kingsolver, The Time Traveller’s Wife by Audrey Niffenegger, The Five People You Meet in Heaven and Tuesdays with Morrie by Mitch Albom, Women Who Run with the Wolves by Clarissa Pinkola Estes, When God was a Woman by Merlin Stone.

Movies: Big Fish, Ever After, Mirrormask, Amelie,Chocolat, Gulliver's Travels, Don Juan Demarco, The Neverending Story, Edward Scissorhands, Dumbo, Beauty and the Beast, 3-Iron (I'll be really impressed if you've heard of that one). Mostly I tend to watch artsy, indie, and foreign movies. I especially like French ones because people are always having interesting thoughts and telling them to strangers - I wish the world were really like that.

Music: Michael Franti, Marc Anthony, Portishead, Karmacoda,Sleepthief, Emiliana Torini, Blackmore's Night, Massive Attack, Yael Na'im, Jewel, Tori Amos, Sarah McLachlan, Ani Difranco, etc. New age in the morning, alternative/rock/pop/reggae during the day, anything with a good beat to dance to, trance late at night. Nothing jarring, angry, violent, or misogynistic.

TV: I don't have one, but I watch some online, like So You Think You Can Dance, Once Upon a Time, Tin Man, and Doctor Who.

Food: Saba sushi (mackeral) makes me moan. I have a limited diet for digestive issues, so I eat mostly organic meat and cooked veggies.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Understanding, love, writing implements, books, nature (especially trees), and music.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to become happier and happier, how to do a better job balancing everything I want in my life, how my past has led me to where I am and how I can change what I want to change, how to deal with stress better, how to build my business, how the people I love are doing, etc. I fantasize about romance, career success, and travel.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Dancing salsa.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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In May of 2008, I was in a high-speed car crash and had a beautiful near-death experience with a life review. It was incredible and I am no longer afraid of death. I designed a tattoo for myself based on the experience, and six months later discovered that the symbolism in it perfectly matched that of Neolithic Europe, so a person from that time and place would actually be able to look at it and accurately explain what it means, while people today tend to find it odd.
There are many other synchronicities like this in my life, yet I don't get used to it; it still amazes me... But then, I am also still totally excited that I have cats, and I've had them for over a decade.
You should message me if
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You have read my whole profile and think we’d genuinely connect, whether as friends or romantic partners (and this thought is based on who we both are, not just on you liking my pictures). You are willing in your profile and/or note to give me a sense of who you are and pique my interest. You can write to me with decent spelling, grammar, and punctuation. (It doesn't have to be perfect, but I am writer, so too many errors will make me wince and cringe). You live close enough that we can meet in person.

Some basic essentials about me and sex/dating:
1. I am not interested in casual sex. Please don't ask.
2. I am looking to date people less than 10 years older than me.
3. I am only attracted to men who are physically fit. Can't help
it! In women, I am attracted to a wider range of body types, but in men, just well-defined muscles without fat.
4. I prefer to go on dates with the option open that we might like each other just as friends; it's not romance or nothing.
5. I am bi, but more drawn to men than women. My attraction to women seems to be more sensual than sexual, and my emotions more in line with close friendship than romance. Ultimately, I want a monogamous relationship with a man. Until then, I am also curious to explore my attraction to women, and open to the beautiful experiences that could be found in doing so.