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44 Seattle, WA Man


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 4:31pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Has a kid, and might want more
Has dogs and dislikes cats

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My self-summary
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I am the guy next door driving the family Volvo. I love spending time with friends, entertaining or a good run, hike or walk around the city. I have a nine year old son with whom I share custody with my ex. My son is my life and enjoy every minute I can with him. I am active, house projects, spending time with my new pup while soaking up the Seattle sun. :-)
What I’m doing with my life
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Working in project management for a local non-profit.. big change from the corporate world.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Hosting a dinner party for friends, creating a fun time for all.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My shyness or eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Honestly don't read too many books, I am more into magazines and online reading. Some current favorite tv shows are House of Cards, Suits, Mad Men, Tosh.O, Downton, American Horror Story. I have varied tastes in music depending on my mood and activity. Love most foods and enjoying dining out.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My kiddo
My iPhone and iPad mini
My car - sorry I love driving.
My running shoes
My journal
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to be the best dad I can be.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I am picking the kiddo up from lacrosse, grabbing a pizza and having movie night. Friday's without the kid are generally spent alone catching up on rest or getting caught up on chores, and the hopefully a date here and there...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have an odd obsession with the Cadillac Escalade ESV.
You should message me if
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You enjoy being around kids. I am easily amused and love a guy with a sarcastic at times non-p.c. sense of humor. Looking for someone where we can get up early for a jog on a weekday or wake up on a Saturday and spend the day riding our bikes around the city and home in time to entertain dinner for 10. Or, we wake up on a Saturday morning and spend 1/2 the day in bed - simply being together. Prefer guys who are masculine, active and got their shit together.