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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 24–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Aug 28
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
When drinking
Agnosticism, and very serious about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Turkish (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I like to cook. I love to drink wine. I love good cheese. I love fancy things like fine china and crystal and I am a collector of said niceties. I love coffee. I love my space to have lots of visual stimuli. I like getting exercise (ski, bike, gym, pilates). I like to sew, and I like to make things that are pretty. My home is my sanctuary; the way that it looks and feels is everything to me.
I do the hair cuts. Specifically, I etch. It's like graphic-design, 'cept on your head.
I'm looking for adventure. I'm looking for friends, sex, lovers, and love. I am looking for insight, activities, ideas, and co-conspireters. I am looking for design opportunities- whether they be spatial, two-dimensional, or experiential.
I guess I do architecture too.
I am a "weirdo". I think you should be too. Normal is boring.
I've realized that I shouldn't read your answers to the questions which determine if we're a match. Nobody wants what they think they want and nobody believes all of what they think they believe.
What I’m doing with my life
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Building a house. Going to work... works.... Getting older.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm good at hosting: house guests, dinner guests, party guests, and dates. I love to host, it is a great pleasure for me.
I'm not so bad at skiing, I used to be a ski instructor.
I'm really good at cleaning and pretty good at organizing.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
People realize pretty quickly that I have my life together and my career is about to take off. They're totally wrong but they think it anyway... even after I correct them.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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LIT: Tom Spanbauer's Now Is the Hour is my favorite book, but I also love his others (The man who fell in love with the moon, Shy hunters)
I very much like the Game of Thrones books, and the show.
Wreaththu by Storm Constantine is wonderful.
Middlesex, Neal Stephenson (diamond age, cryptonomicon, snow crash), Ken Follett (the pillars of the earth, et. al., fall of giants, et. al).
Michael Cunningham.

I despise TV culture, mainstream TV tried to make me stupid and lazy and was so successful that now it's a journey to repair the damage... but I'm coming along.

MOV: It is a very strange thing, this neuroses of mine. I get anxiety at the prospect of watching movies I haven't seen before. I have some ideas as to why but that goes into to the secret admissions essay. The type of movies I like are, and this is often true of books too, scifi and fantasy.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A real comfy bed.
A place to call home, to feel safe in, to entertain from.
My family.
A beard trimmer. No way, no how. Wait that is 7... sorry not sorry.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I'm just a huge day-dreamer. I'm always in a fantasy. It's... not really a good thing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Getting together with friends, having libations, talking and laughing and flirting.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am afraid of emotions. I am afraid of breaking your heart, much more than I am afraid of you breaking mine. I got some walls up.
You should message me if
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You are smart and fun and funny and sexy... OR if you think I'm funny. Thinking I'm funny really is the fasted way to my heart.