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26 Oakland, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 19–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 10:34pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Strictly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I like hobbies. I get wrapped up in thought, explanation, and ideas a lot. I love to think and create and most importantly share. I'm a bad story teller, but that doesn't stop me from sharing hilarious or weird experiences I've had. I love to take jokes too far.... Way too far.

I do anything I can to derail small talk, and get to something interesting or unusual.

We are our thoughts and our feelings, our triumphs and experiences, not words. I don't need you to be into anything that I'm into, I just need us to enjoy each other's company. If we have a drink and have a conversation worth having, It doesn't matter what you do for a living, where you live, what kind of "personality" you have, or anything else for that matter. Conversation and the way you feel around someone are literally the only two things that matter.

So let's talk.

Hi, My name is Sean.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Making things, building things, writing things, and sharing things.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Derailing small talk, being real, being transparent about the things I like and don't like about myself in any moment.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'll either talk too much or not at all.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I'm really into LOST. It's my favorite show. Breaking Bad was cool. Walking Dead is terrible. House of cards was good.

All genre's of music. I can go from listening to metal to folk to pop to bluegrass, to electro to rap. Some artists include, Sufjan Stevens, Between the Buried and Me, Edward Sharpe and the Magnetic Zeros, Radiohead, Mars Volta, Broken Social Scene, Kanye West, XX's, Refused, and just about anything else.

Favorite Book is probably 'Choke' by Palahniuk.

I love food. Not picky, and love to try new things. I tend to eat pretty unhealthy due to how busy I am with work, but love any and all food. Especially home-cooked meals.

If you want to win over my heart, make me dinner. It's that easy.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
2. my guitar
3. internet
4. food
5. camera
6. music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My place in the world, how I'm growing and whatever aspect of a hobby I'm trying to improve at. If you're not learning, you're dead.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
These days who knows. I'm equally content with spending an evening with myself writing and recording music as I am going out with friends or getting into something weird.

Let's get weird.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have this unfortunate duality of coming across as cocky when in reality I'm a total softie who just is excited when good things happen. It makes me so happy when people realize what kind of person I actually am.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Liking 'Adventures' is the new 'likes to have fun'. It doesn't say anything. Be more creative than that. Give me something to work with.

You want a drunk letter written on a typewriter.

You want to! I like people, let's have a conversation. Tell me what you're passionate about and what makes you tick.

Doesn't matter where it's going because we're here, now. So, just be something, anything will do.