Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
The impression created in the summary’s that you are about to read
is that I am arrogant, I’m not, I’m just tired of dating bots,
having had enough IM me and by the 2nd or 3rd letter start
proclaiming undying love for me and that their world revolves
around the letters that they sit for hours in front of their
computer screens waiting for.
I'm direct in what I say, if I say something about myself, it’s the
truth. It’s difficult enough remembering what I say to whom without
having to additionally compound that by telling half truths or
lies. I don’t dish out BS and in return don’t accept it. I know,
both of equal importance, who I am and who/what I am looking for in
a partner. I am successful in what ventures I have undertaken in
the past, in what I am currently doing in my life and am confident
that I will succeed in my venture that I plan on undertaking in my
retirement (no I am not someone that can sit around idly waiting
for time to pass, being productive, having something to occupy my
hands and challenge my mind is of extreme importance to me) and on
that note, any potential match must view life along the same
I enjoy high activity sports, more so if they revolve around water
or wilderness, having never lived in a country that has enough snow
to try snow sports, I don’t know what my stance would be on that, I
do however feel that screaming down a mountainside attached to 2
very thin pieces of wood (or glass fiber) is appealing, very
My existence is rural bohemian by choice, it’s what turns me on,
I’m not one that has to live in the limelight, I am more than
comfortable enough with my own skin to enjoy my own company yet
that being said life is long and becomes lonely and dogs don’t
offer any input when you ask them advice, they just sit there with
a stupid grin on their face wagging their tails hence they are mans
friend but not man’s best friend.
As with almost everyone else that has been in a long term
relationship, I do come with 1 condition, in the form of an 11 year
old son who stays with his mother. He is of paramount importance in
my life. I do not carry emotional baggage, sufficient time has
passed that my past is exactly that, I do not believe in comparing
old flames to new romances as each person is an individual and
should be treated as such, it’s the entire package that makes some
Lastly, I am not looking to starting a new family, I am past the
stage in life that nappies, bottles and waking at all hours of the
morning appeals to me, if you have children of your own, that isn’t
an issue but expecting more from me or through adoption is out of
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
This you will get to know as time passes and we open up to each
What’s relevant is that I am on this site internet dating, I am
looking for a partner and not a quick fling or casual hook up under
the pretense of wanting a serious relationship and as such I don't
care for women who include 'I prefer the finer things in life' or
‘know how to treat’ in profile introductions, rather just come
right out and say that you are looking for someone to bankroll you
and your flights in life. I know how to treat a woman and I’m sure
that if I don’t know how to treat you, you will let me know as
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Knowing who I am and what it is that I want out of life, setting
goals and working through them.
Letting my significant other know, that it is her and her alone,
that rocks my world and showing her just how much I appreciate her
whether it is by whispering sweet something’s to her or through
doing something unexpected for her.
Hearing, not listening, massive difference between the 2, that
isn’t to say that I don’t listen as that would be self
contradictory to the hearing.
Reaching compromise, I learned the art of agreeing to disagree long
ago and being able to find the middle ground.
My hands, I love DIY from changing plugs to ripping a house to a
shell and re doing the interior from scratch including the wiring
and plumbing (and it works when you flip a switch or turn a
Living in the moment
The ability to tell someone to go to hell in such a way that they
DON’T look forward to the trip
And on the opposite note I’M REALLY BAD AT
Putting up with Drunken Idiots/Drug Addicts/High Maintenance
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I dress like a tramp
That I’m not materialistic
That I appear introverted, I’m not, I’m just getting to know
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
This category has way too many variables to do justice to writing
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Freedom of speech, choice, expression and movement
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What I am going to do when I retire.
Why I bother writing out detailed profiles on internet dating sites
when no-one seems to bother reading what is said.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Wishing I was out in the Mountains
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I’m an open book, get to know me and then prove this statement
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I'm selective in who I respond to, let’s see if we click on a
mental level and take it from there, in other words, capture my
mind in your introduction and I will make the effort to reply in
kind, send a 1 liner and the message will get trashed.
Feel free to message me if you are a CHRISTIAN White/Caucasian,
Asian and Latino/Hispanic lady only, I'm not a Racist but am
Racially inclined when it comes to choosing a partner, just as the
age group doesn’t start in the 20's as I have no desire to wait for
a girl to mature into a woman.
Almost any woman can turn a man’s head and get him to notice her,
the ability to keep a man captivated, have his lasting intentions
and desires focused on you is however a different matter all
together. A combination of being self assured and aware of your own
sexuality with a touch of sensual-ism thrown in for good measure is
a good grounding for capturing a man’s attention. However, that is
only a fraction of the battle in capturing a man’s heart and
beginning of creating a desire to get to know you better. Ample
Self confidence without appearing standoff-ish, Style without
appearing to have spent the last 6 hours in front of a mirror and
protruding an aura of Class will get him moving across the room to
introduce himself to you. The ability to hold an intellectual
conversation, yet knowing when to cross that fine line and be
emotional in your reasoning will spark interest, add wit and humor
to the conversation, subtract assumption and gossip and you should
by now have him offering to get you a drink. Being attentive to
what he says, offering insightful comments and agreeing to disagree
with points that you don’t hold mutual views on should be the
cincher in him offering you his telephone number before the night
is done. And just like women, we also wonder if or when the
telephone will ring. Learn the ability to politely let a man down
if you are not interested and if you found his company as
captivating as he found yours, make a point of letting him know at
some point the next morning that you would be interested in seeing
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