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searcher1969

44 / M / Straight / Single

Troy, New York

His Details

Last Online
Today – 3:54am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Anything
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Aries and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Political / Government
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry that I could not travel both
And be one traveler, long I stood
And looked down one as far as I could
To where it bent in the undergrowth;
Robert Frost 1920

I am very active and seek the same. Especially the outdoors and hiking in particular. I want someone who makes me feel alive. Creative types and self starters are a plus. I'm not averse to shorter term or less serious relationships right now. Quite frankly, the search for my true love keeps getting dashed on the rocks and a temporary port in the storm would be welcome. My ultimate goal is to find the one who I can't wait to see again- the one who I will wake up thinking about, even if the pillow next to me is vacant.
What I’m doing with my life
I've reached a secure and successful point in my working career. And I have no debts. I have set down deep roots and own property. I have friends and family who help fill my days and evenings with who I could never part with. The missing piece is that special lover.
I’m really good at
hiking, caring for family and pets, making things grow, writing poetry and short stories, finding common ground with someone I really like
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like all kinds of movies but appreciate classic films the most
Favorite authors : Steinbeck and Robert Frost
Music: Rock and Roll but like older country and folk too
Food: Oh well I'll eat about anything.
The six things I could never do without
I've learned to do without most things, or at least learned not to depend on them.
The only constant without which I would truly feel the lack is my family, who I love, and the place where I was born.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how lucky I am to have had the people, experiences, and opportunities that I have had in my life (I have no regrets),
human nature (what makes people tick),
the natural world,
politics and the direction of the country,
world events,
history,
conservation,
what will be my next poem or short story,
when am I getting laid next
On a typical Friday night I am
Packing for a hike
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Check out the sex questions. In order to see how I answered them, you have to answer them too. Don't be chicken now.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–50
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, casual sex
You should message me if
you find me attractive and would consider sleeping with me.
I am companionable, can find common ground with most anyone, and value friendship, but I am looking for an "adult" relationship with a healthy physical component.

I also want hiking partners, friends to listen to live music with, those who are up for road trips, and those looking to have adventures. If you are into these things then platonic friends will do. But expect that I'll be seeing other people for sure.