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32 Oakland, CA Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 24–32
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:42pm
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Trying to quit
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
English, French (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Non-monogamy. Ethical slut. Feminist. Body/sex-posi. Velocipede commuter. Clothes horse. Star Wars. Unwilling agent in our patriarchal consumer capitaltopia. Free Cascadia. I love talking to strangers. Britcoms. French films. Noisy guitarist and beat librarian. Graceful on my toes. I appreciate people who don't look at their phones in public. I love honesty and I'm trying to be better with it. Say no to bombs and politicians. Fairweather poet. Free Palestine. Fuck corporations. Save the humans. The rest will follow. My essence is mountains and snow. I have a B.A. in BS and my last name is the feminine form of the French word for "rabbit."

I'm in a committed non-monogamous relationship with an incredible and worldly woman who had the courage to live in Detroit on her own. While being her primary partner, I enjoy befriending new people without apprehension or expectation and following whatever connection stems from this confrontation of souls -- platonic or physical. Ideally physical. As the lascivious D.H. Lawrence once said, "Now, damn the consequences. We have met."
What I’m doing with my life
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Ask. It changes.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Eating, dancing, parallel parking, sugar:coffee ratio, communication, bathroom graffiti, neologisms, avoiding cliche, leaving parties, dog puns, sandwiches, kink, bedroom language, shufflin', hi-hats.
The first things people usually notice about me
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You tell me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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the master and margarita, the wind-up bird chronicle, germinal, lipstick traces, leaves of grass, confessions of a mask, the revolution of everyday life, all my friends are going to be strangers

i am cuba, la haine, daisies, come and see, wings of desire, man bites dog, punch drunk love, night on earth, fallen angels, indiana jones, empire strikes back, classics, camp, Hitchcock, old noir, foreign, gaspar noe, holy mountain, quadrophenia

High maintenance, saxondale, kids in the hall, strangers with candy, mitchell and webb, twin peaks, broad city

Sonic Youth, Patti Smith, The Cure, Jesus & Mary Chain, Velvet Underground, Joy Division, John Coltrane, Flying Lotus, Lil B, Le1f, Yo La Tengo, Randomer, Serge Gainsbourg, Sam Cooke, Bo Diddley, KRS-One, Swans, Television Personalities, Ramones, T. Rex, Bangalter, Tom Waits, Curtis Mayfield, Isaac Hayes, DJ Rashad, Tribe Called Quest, Underworld, Stereolab, Upsetters, Spacemen 3, James Brown <3, Sunn O)))

that sorta shit.

my body is a temple attended by a congregation of sandwiches.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
free will
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
sex, death & infinity. sandwiches.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sleeping. I work on Saturdays. Trying to change this.

ED. NOTE: I changed this.
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