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31 M Oakland, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:47pm
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Trying to quit
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
English, French (Okay)

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My self-summary
I left my heart in the Pacific Northwest. I love reggae. I'm from the snow in the mountains in the desert. Boy scout catholic school liberal arts. A B.A. in B.S. Employed. Noise librarian and beat keeper. Mod and rocker. Genetically predisposed to bleu cheese. Ethical slut. Fell far from the tree. White but not vanilla. Plays well with most. Mostly cats. Why no queer option?

Caveat: I'm in an open relationship with an amazing, trusting, talented, and intelligent woman. We just moved to Oakland and we're focusing on settling before we start engaging in extra-romantic activities. I don't expect to find special connections here (but I've been proven wrong.) I presume you are up to your eyes in monosyllabic and grammatically unsound messages praising your perceived anatomy, so it is understood that my message to you could go unread by virtue of my being a male. Which I wouldn't blame you for. I don't send many messages and instead encourage you to send one my way if I pique your fancy. Bear in mind that I prefer those of the female-bodied variety, but I'm open to males.
What I’m doing with my life
music, writing, looking forward, personal projects, wearing stripes, questioning dominant paradigms, dancing, DJ'ing, playing dress up, dreaming up a documentary, switching, stripping.
I’m really good at
eating, dancing, parallel parking, sugar:coffee ratio, communication, bathroom graffiti, neologisms, avoiding cliche, leaving parties, dog puns, sandwiches.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
the master and margarita, the wind-up bird chronicle, germinal, lipstick traces, leaves of grass, confessions of a mask, the revolution of everyday life, all my friends are going to be strangers

i am cuba, la haine, daisies, come and see, wings of desire, man bites dog, punch drunk love, night on earth, fallen angels, indiana jones, empire strikes back, classics, not classics, Hitchcock, old noir, foreign, gaspar noe, holy mountain, quadrophenia

kids in the hall, strangers with candy, mitchell and webb, twin peaks

rachel's, flying lotus, swans, einsturzende neubauten, spacemen 3, sonic youth, big blood, grouper, gayngs, neu!, black lips, sunn 0))), wolves in the throne room, lou reed, john lee hooker, t. rex, stephin merritt, tom waits, the vaselines, broadcast, jesus and mary chain, john coltrane, dizzee rascal (we share a birthday!), mykki blanco, le1f, abdu ali.

that sorta shit.

my body is a temple attended by a congregation of sandwiches.
The six things I could never do without
free will
On a typical Friday night I am
Sleeping. I work on Saturdays. Trying to change this.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 24–32
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
Si tu me parles en français. Ooh la la.
You like D/s.
You possess a sturdy command of language.
You love to dance.
You have to good dog jokes to tell me.