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24 Oakland, CA Woman, Cis Woman

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  • Ages 20-35
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Hispanic / Latin, White
5' 6" (1.68m)
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My self-summary
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There are a lot of things I am, a lot of things I want to be.

> I am very intellectual, devoted to social awareness and justice of all types.
> I love somatic dance, specifically contact improv.
> I am playful and silly and whimsical, but also levelheaded.
> I tend to be introverted when getting to know people but open up once I do.
> I’m an INTJ/P; enneagram 4/5.
> I love folk music and autumnal weather, as well as snow (though we don’t get that on the west coast!).
> I love the fog, slow mornings and hot beverages, hopefully cuddled up with a friend or a lover.

I am figuring out my spirituality, and dabbling in Wicca/Witchcraft/Paganism. I love the idea that each sabbat (Pagan holiday) corresponds to some modern traditions that have been transformed in one way or another to reflect Christian/secular holidays.

Right now I am seeking a job that makes a difference. I’d love to work from home and write for an online (or offline) publication – I feel there is such potential in the internet for creating change in this new generation.

Two of my favorite videos right now:
What I’m doing with my life
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Applying to grad school for anthropology and social change

Trying to spend a lot of time with friends and build community
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being weird - like, you have no idea.
The first things people usually notice about me
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quirk. also hair (very short and curly), blue eyes, and glasses when I'm wearing them.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, One Hundred Years of Solitude, Haruki Murakami, Allen Ginsberg, Gertrude Stein, William Blake, Janet Mock's Redefining Realness, Emily Martin's Bipolar Expeditions, Harry Potter...
Also social theory: Foucault, bell hooks, J. Halberstam's "The Queer Art of Failure", Judith Butler

Harold and Maude, Benny and Joon, Hitchcock's "Psycho", Fargo, Lars Von Trier's "Dogville" and "Melancholia", 28 Days Later, Synecdoche New York, etc... I love cerebral movies and dark comedies.

I love music; it affects me deeply. Hozier, Janelle Monae, Elvis Perkins, Asaf Avidan, Mirah, Bon Iver, CocoRosie, Florence & the Machine, Joanna Newsom, Janelle Monae, M.I.A., Fleet Foxes, Squinch Owl, The Shins, Daughter, The Tallest Man on Earth, Regina Spektor, Radical Face, Young the Giant, LP, Sia, Bob Dylan, Bob Marley, Mamas & the Papas, The Talking Heads, The Carolina Chocolate Drops, Otis Redding, the Beach Boys, Joni Mitchell, Cat Stevens, Simon & Garfunkel, Fleetwood Mac... my music interests change all the time.

Gotham, Twin Peaks, American Horror Story (first season), Louie, Enlightened, Orange is the New Black, Portlandia, Rita, Breaking Bad, The Returned, Orphan Black, In the Flesh, Bob's Burgers, Parenthood, Key and Peele

Sushi, indian, vegan mexican, good pizza (deep dish Zachary's baby!!)

oh and visual art: Van Gogh, Max Ernst, Odilon Redon, William Blake, and photography in general
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. love (i.e. friends, lovers, family, and community)
2. the ability to learn
3. nature
4. peace (i.e. herbs, meds, and spirituality)
5. good (and omnivorous) food
6. music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
social justice; people; magic; bodies; food
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
chillin' in one way or another
You should message me if
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something in my profile resonates with you

you're (com)passionate, kind and socially aware (i.e. not racist, misogynist, disableist, homophobic, fatphobic, transphobic etc.), willing to learn, and have a sense of humor/play

if you know the term "neurodivergent" big bonus points to you!!