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23 F Emeryville, CA

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5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Relationship Status
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My self-summary
Some things that I love: fog, interesting conversations, the ocean, books and lazy mornings, autumn, dancing, cuddling, comfort food, cultural anthropology, photography, exploring neighborhoods, blasting songs of all sorts in my car, dreaming, nighttime walks, being silly

I'm interested in people, and how they work. Social justice and radical politics are extremely important to me. I was an anthropology major.
What I’m doing with my life
Finishing up my bachelor's at the California Institute of Integral Studies

I have a lot of experience living in co-ops (mostly Oakland-Berkeley), hopefully I'll be back there soon
I’m really good at
cultural deconstruction
being silly
social justice
The first things people usually notice about me
It really depends on the situation. I can be loud, silly and ridiculous or quiet & observant. It depends on my company.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
The Sound and the Fury, Slaughterhouse Five, Cannery Row, Of Mice and Men, One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, One Hundred Years of Solitude, Ginsberg's poetry, Gertrude Stein, Janet Mock's Redefining Realness, Norwegian Wood...
Also social theory: Foucault, bell hooks, J. Halberstam's "The Queer Art of Failure", Judith Butler

Harold and Maude, Annie Hall, Hitchcock's "Psycho", Fargo, Lars Von Trier's "Dogville" and "Melancholia", Synecdoche New York, etc... I love cerebral movies and dark comedies.

Hozier, Janelle Monae, Lorde, Elvis Perkins, Asaf Avidan, Mirah, Simon & Garfunkel, Bon Iver, CocoRosie, Santigold, M.I.A., Fleet Foxes, The Shins, Regina Spektor, Bob Dylan, Bob Marley, Mamas & the Papas, The Talking Heads, Janis Joplin, The Carolina Chocolate Drops, Otis Redding, the Beach Boys, Joni Mitchell, Cat Stevens, Fleetwood Mac... my music interests change all the time. Thank u spotify!
--> doo-wop, sunshine pop, '60s rock and motown are some of the best best genres ever

Twin Peaks, Game of Thrones, Freaks and Geeks, United States of Tara, Enlightened, American Horror Story, Louie, Orange is the New Black, Breaking Bad, Parks and Recreation, The Returned, Orphan Black, In the Flesh.

oh and visual art: Van Gogh, Max Ernst, Odilon Redon, Diane Arbus + so many photographers
The six things I could never do without
1. love
2. learning
3. friendship
4. nature
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Culture. Social justice.
Bodies. Food.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm gluten-free and don't drink coffee or alcohol right now (all really, really sadly). It's not a ploy to be uptight, I just need it for my health.

I'm questioning my sexuality and definitely interested in some guys but also some genderqueer people and maybe some women. I guess we will see. I only have romantic/sexual experience with men though.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 20–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
something in my profile resonates with you

you're passionate, kind and socially aware (i.e. not racist, misogynist, disableist, homophobic, fatphobic, transphobic etc.), willing to learn, and have a sense of humor/play

I'd love to get decaf with you (see above) or go on a walk in Berkeley or something :)