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23 Oakland, CA Woman


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 20–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Yesterday – 6:13pm
Hispanic / Latin, White
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body type
Mostly other
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university

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My self-summary
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*Please read my profile before messaging me. Also, no catcalling please. "Hey baby" will not garner a response.*

*Also, I'm super busy with school right now so may not have time to chat. Still message me if you like and maybe we can hang out during a break*

Some things that I love: fog, interesting conversations, the ocean, books and lazy mornings, autumn, spring, dancing, cuddling, (gluten free!) comfort food, cultural anthropology, photography, exploring neighborhoods, blasting songs in my car, dreaming, nighttime walks, being silly

I'm interested in people, and how they work. Social justice and radical politics are extremely important to me. I was a cultural anthropology major.

"INFJ" mostly
Enneagram 4\5
What I’m doing with my life
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Finishing up my bachelor's at the California Institute of Integral Studies

I'm an online social justice fanatic and activist.

Playin' and Dreamin' and building community
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
things I like (I won't be bold enough to say I'm good at them):

cultural deconstruction
somatic dance (contact improv)
being silly
thinking critically
health and nutrition.... and eating complete soul food
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
It really depends on the situation. I can be loud, silly and ridiculous or quiet & observant. Usually quirky. It depends on my company.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Sound and the Fury, Slaughterhouse Five, Cannery Row, Of Mice and Men, One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, One Hundred Years of Solitude, Ginsberg's poetry, Gertrude Stein, William Blake, Janet Mock's Redefining Realness, Norwegian Wood, The Warmth of Other Suns, Bipolar Expeditions...
Also social theory: Foucault, bell hooks, J. Halberstam's "The Queer Art of Failure", Judith Butler

Harold and Maude, Annie Hall, Hitchcock's "Psycho", Fargo, Lars Von Trier's "Dogville" and "Melancholia", Synecdoche New York, etc... I love cerebral movies and dark comedies.

I love music; it affects me deeply. Hozier, Janelle Monae, Elvis Perkins, Asaf Avidan, Mirah, Bon Iver, CocoRosie, Florence & the Machine, Joanna Newsom, Santigold, M.I.A., Fleet Foxes, Squinch Owl, The Shins, Daughter, The Tallest Man on Earth, Regina Spektor, Radical Face, Young the Giant, LP, Sia, Bob Dylan, Bob Marley, Mamas & the Papas, The Talking Heads, The Carolina Chocolate Drops, Otis Redding, the Beach Boys, Joni Mitchell, Cat Stevens, Simon & Garfunkel, Fleetwood Mac... my music interests change all the time. Thank u spotify!
--> doo-wop, sunshine pop, '60s rock and motown are some of the best best genres ever

You can pretend that you don't like "Blank Space" by Taylor Swift -- but I know you do.

Gotham, Twin Peaks, Game of Thrones, Freaks and Geeks, United States of Tara, Enlightened, American Horror Story, Louie, Orange is the New Black, Breaking Bad, Parks and Recreation, The Returned, Orphan Black, In the Flesh, Bob's Burgers

I'm gluten-free. Trying to be as paleo as possible; it feels best with my body. Trying to learn to cook wholesome meals for myself.

oh and visual art: Van Gogh, Max Ernst, Odilon Redon, Diane Arbus + so many photographers
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. family, friends, community
2. the ability to learn
3. nature
4. meds and herbs
5. good and omnivorous food
6. music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Culture. Social justice.
Bodies. Food.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Reading a book, going to yoga or hanging with friends
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm gluten-free and do not smoke or drink. It's not an uptight thing; I just need it for my health.

I have a crush on Oswald Cobblepot from Gotham (i.e. Penguin). Yes, I like those dark mysterious folks.

I'm interested in men primarily, and genderqueer people. I've only been romantic with men up until now.
You should message me if
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something in my profile resonates with you

you're (com)passionate, kind and socially aware (i.e. not racist, misogynist, disableist, homophobic, fatphobic, transphobic etc.), willing to learn, and have a sense of humor/play

I'd love to get a coffee or tea with you or go on a walk in Berkeley or something :)