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24 Oakland, CA Woman


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  • Ages 20–35
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Last online
Today – 2:06pm
Pansexual, Questioning
Hispanic / Latin, White
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Mostly other
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
My self-summary
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I love slow mornings with good coffee/tea, fog, the ocean, sunshine, dancing, and cuddles.

I also enjoy intense intellectual discussion, political and social justice activism, and cultural anthropology. I am especially passionate about disability rights and neurodiversity (ask me about it if you don't know the term).

I dabble in Wicca/Paganism, but my religion is best described as: magic, people, and dirt.

"INFJ" mostly
Enneagram 4\5
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I just completed my bachelor's and I'm figuring out what's next in my life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being weird - like, you have no idea.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
quirk. also hair (now, my head is freshly shaven), eyes, and glasses when I'm wearing them.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, One Hundred Years of Solitude, Slaughterhouse Five, Haruki Murakami, Allen Ginsberg, Gertrude Stein, William Blake, Janet Mock's Redefining Realness, Emily Martin's Bipolar Expeditions, Harry Potter...
Also social theory: Foucault, bell hooks, J. Halberstam's "The Queer Art of Failure", Judith Butler

Harold and Maude, Benny and Joon, Hitchcock's "Psycho", Fargo, Lars Von Trier's "Dogville" and "Melancholia", 28 Days Later, Synecdoche New York, etc... I love cerebral movies and dark comedies.

I love music; it affects me deeply. Hozier, Janelle Monae, Elvis Perkins, Asaf Avidan, Mirah, Bon Iver, CocoRosie, Florence & the Machine, Joanna Newsom, Janelle Monae, M.I.A., Fleet Foxes, Squinch Owl, The Shins, Daughter, The Tallest Man on Earth, Regina Spektor, Radical Face, Young the Giant, LP, Sia, Bob Dylan, Bob Marley, Mamas & the Papas, The Talking Heads, The Carolina Chocolate Drops, Otis Redding, the Beach Boys, Joni Mitchell, Cat Stevens, Simon & Garfunkel, Fleetwood Mac... my music interests change all the time. Thank u spotify!
--> doo-wop, sunshine pop, '60s rock and motown are some of the best best genres ever

Gotham, Twin Peaks, Freaks and Geeks, Enlightened, American Horror Story (first season), Louie, Orange is the New Black, Breaking Bad, The Returned, Orphan Black, In the Flesh, Bob's Burgers

Sushi, indian, vegan mexican, good pizza (deep dish Zachary's baby!!)

oh and visual art: Van Gogh, Max Ernst, Odilon Redon, William Blake, and photography in general
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. love (i.e. friends, family, and community)
2. the ability to learn
3. nature
4. peace (i.e. herbs, meds, and spirituality)
5. good (and omnivorous) food
6. music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
social justice; people; magic; bodies; food
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
chillin' in one way or another
You should message me if
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something in my profile resonates with you

you're (com)passionate, kind and socially aware (i.e. not racist, misogynist, disableist, homophobic, fatphobic, transphobic etc.), willing to learn, and have a sense of humor/play