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24 Midlothian, VA Gender Nonconforming, Androgynous

Gender Nonconforming, Androgynous

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  • Ages 18–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, casual sex

My details

Last online
Jul 9
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Open relationship
Has cats
My self-summary
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Greetings! I'm very openminded and creative and I very much enjoy meeting, connecting with, and learning from people of all walks of life. I define myself as queer which is sadly not an option on this site, sexuality to me is far from binary. This is a favorite topic of mine, lets talk about it! I play guitar, bass, drums, keyboard, my vocal cords, and a little bit of mandolin. I like to take photos and go to concerts. Good movies are always awesome too.I also enjoy breathing, living, drinking a hell of a lot of coffee (mmm french press), internet things and cats, using out of date slang terms, making terrible puns, dark humor, dancing to awesome music, exploring RVA and any other place I might have the fortune to go galavanting around, meeting new people, and working my lovely job, though I AM trying to further my career in something productive and lucrative while not being a mindless drone of society. But aren't we all really?
What I’m doing with my life
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working my ass off & music & concerts & fun things. Working towards going to school again hopefully.
I’m really good at
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music, photography, art, graphic design, painting my fingernails. Uhhh I'm also good at fitting cats into ATM machines.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Depends on what im wearing, but sometimes my outfit (I have a propensity to wear things I find cute regardless of their intended genderization) other times my eyes possibly? people don't tell me these things
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music - Modest Mouse, Fiona Apple, Tune-Yards, At The Drive In, alt-J, American Football, Braid, Purity Ring, BadBadNotGood, Talking Heads, Snowing, Built to Spill, The Zombies, Algernon Cadwallader, Little Tybee, Bibio, Givers, Death Cab for Cutie, St Vincent (so much<3), Earl Sweatshirt, King Crimson, Bear in Heaven, My Bloody Valentine, Sonic Youth, Slugabed, Yes, Aphex Twin, Beach Boys, Toro y Moi, The Dismemberment Plan, TWIABP, Machinedrum, Mars Volta, Battles, Tera Melos, Passion Pit, Neutral Milk Hotel (meeting jeff mangum made me die inside a little), Elliot Smith, Satie, Owen, Joanna Newsom, Four Tet, of Montreal (kevin barnes is my spirit animal), Animals as Leaders, LCD Soundsystem, Panda Bear, Cap'n Jazz, Morphine, Empire Empire I Was A Lonely Estate, Cake, Hiatus Kaiyote, Erykah Badu, Andrew Bird, Gogol Borello, Dr Dog, MF DOOM, White Denim, Caribou, Death Cab for Cutie, Jaga Jazzist, Tame Impala, Hundred Waters, Son Lux, Charles Mingus, Miles Davis, Bark Psychosis, Bon Iver, Pavement, Slint, Eyedea, Bowie, Sharon Jones and The Dap Kings, This Town Needs Guns, Grizzly Bear, Cymbals Eat Guitars, Friend Roulette, Los Campesinos!, Bjork, Portishead, Soul Coughing, Baths, Circa Survive, Flying Lotus, this heat, Portugal The Man, Philip Glass, Rubblebucket, Blood Brothers, Mr Bungle, John Zorn, Primus, Faraquet, Maps & Atlases, Can, Faust, Amon Duul, Broken Social Scene, Kayo Dot, Chelsea Wolfe, Here We Go Magic, Yeasayer, Don Caballero, Dillinger Escape Plan, Hella, Tom Waits, Funkadelic, Zappa, Animal Collective, Ennio Morricone, Bernard Hermann, Godspeed You! Black Emperor, toe, Twin Shadow, Why?, Dead Weather, Gold Panda, Cursive, Dirty Projectors, The Books, Flaming Lips, lots more!

Rep local music! Local bands that I know and love: Night Idea, Houdan the Mystic, Navi, Heavy Midgets, Parentheses, Fight Cloud, Brother Wolf, Freaky J and The Bears, hue, Midair, 8t88, Yefim, Crossing The Event Horizon, Cheyenne, Way Shape or Form, Wolf//Goat, Jazzcat/Mammals, Antiphons, Tigerlamp, Six Track Amateur

Books - Slaughterhouse Five (Vonnegut in general), Kafka in general, Choke, American Psycho, Fahrenheit 451, Brave New World, 1984, Clockwork Orange, Persepolis, The Stand, Disco Bloodbath, Trainspotting, Crash (This is one fucked up book you should read it), Sex Drugs and Cocoa Puffs, The Shining, The Ethical Slut, Lovecraft

Movies - The Life Aquatic, Punch Drunk Love, Adaptation, Upstream Color, Videodrome, The Game, Seven, I <3 Huckabees, Being John Malkovich, Synecdoche NY, Moonrise Kingdom, American Beauty, Down by Law, Delicatessan, Eraserhead, Princess Mononoke, Spirited Away, Ghost of The Fireflies, Alphaville, Black Swan, Wrong, Rubber, Wrong Cops, The Fountain, Inland Empire, The Science of Sleep, Stranger than Paradise, Primer, Rosemary's Baby, Holy Mountain, Let The Right One In, Confessions of a Dangerous Mind, Drive, Memento, The Brood, Planet Terror, Stay, Trainspotting, The Big Lebowski, Fargo, Best In Show, Donnie Darko, Full Metal Jacket, Dr Strangelove, Taxi Driver, Anchorman, Pulp Fiction, Fight Club, The Girl With The Dragon Tattoo (original trilogy), The Shining, 2001 A Space Oddessy, One Flew Over The Cuckoo's Nest, Magnolia, Broken Flowers, Primer, Requiem For A Dream, American Psycho, Eternal Sunshine, Scanners, Everything is Illuminated, Darjeeling Limited, Lost in Translation, Royal Tenenbaums, Raising Arizona, Evil Dead, Suspiria, Fantastic Mr Fox, Kill Bill, Zoolander, 11.14, Brazil, Clockwork Orange, I could go for on for a while.

Television - House of Cards, True Detective, Archer, 30 Rock, Wilfred, Orange Is The New Black, Breaking Bad, Weeds, Parks and Rec, Futurama, The Office, Stewart/Colbert, Freaks and Geeks, The Increasingly Poor Decisions of Todd Margaret, Whitest Kids u Know, Eastbound and Down, Rocko's Modern Life, Workaholics, Six Feet Under, It's Always Sunny, Shameless, Flight of The Conchords, Spaced, Arrested Development, Curb Your Enthusiasm, Scrubs, Sealab 2021, Harvey Birdman, Metalocalypse, Home Movies, Courage the Cowardly Dog, Adventure Time

Food - SRIRACHA. Oh yeah + Thai, Sushi, Vietnamese, Italian, most seafood. I really love trying new food/restaurants around RVA (it's a GREAT city for food). Let's go on an adventurous dinner date.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Live music (playing and listening)
Animals (because people can hardly love like they can)
Food (the delicious kind. I could do without food I don't like, but I dislike very few things when it comes to food)
I suppose I also couldn't live without blood. Not like in a vampire way. Like in a my heart will stop beating if there's no blood flowing through my body way.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
wondering what I should be spending my time thinking about
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
out late most nights being a hoodlum + galavanting around Richmond or mostly nowadays watching netflix in a warm bed and eatin popcorns

Oh yeah, LOTS of house shows of local bands

Or working, I work lots of friday nights until 1 or 2 in the morning babysitting lots of fucked up people at a music venue. I have interesting stories... ask me about them.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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opinions are like kittens, and I will give them away
You should message me if
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you feel like it. Or if you REALLY feel like it.

Oh also, if you don't feel the opposite of feeling like messaging me, that would be another reason.

I also just realized how incredibly detailed this profile is, if you made it to the end then props to you :)