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salad--days

36 M Seattle, WA

I’m looking for

  • Men who like men
  • Ages 26–46
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:09pm
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
Pacific Islander
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly other
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Russian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm a good guy who wears his heart on his sleeve and is hopelessly romantic by nature. As cliche as this sounds I believe that life is a journey with many left turns, right turns, wrong turns and U-turns. In that sense I'm looking for traveling companions.

I like things a lot of Seattleites like- hiking, biking, camping, coffee, KEXP, et cetera. Except seafood and I think that's more of a mental block than anything else. I'm game for trying new things. I have my fears- heights, yikes!- but I can often push through them. One of my favorite things to do is just walk around the city with no destination, just soaking in the sounds, sights and smells (good or bad). I work hard, probably too hard, but in my free time I often have no agenda and am pretty flexible. With the right person I can have just as much fun at Target as I would at Disneyland.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I make a living as a therapist. People talk to me, I listen and eventually I talk back. Sometimes we sit in awkward and uncomfortable silence and that's okay too. I do this one hour at a time, usually 6-7 times a day.

If there's anything I'm slightly concerned about lately it's that people get a little put off by me after I tell them what I do for a living. Don't worry, I won't be analyzing you and truth be told we're all a little crazy.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening, daydreaming, tennis, collecting and displaying terrible art, engaging in text conversations made up of nothing but emojicons, karaoke
The first things people usually notice about me
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I was built to plow rice paddies in the Philippines- short, barrel chested and stocky. I can go down low. Someone told me recently I have the sexiest calves in Seattle. Their words, not mine!

Over the last, say, year and a half I have lost 50 lbs. the old fashioned way- diet, exercise and big lifestyle changes. The day I changed my Body Type on here from "A Little Extra" to "Average" and it didn't feel like a lie was a happy, happy day for me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Once upon a time I majored in Russian literature. Chekhov and Nabokov are my favorites. Also a recovering poet. In terms of movies and TV, I like things that make me laugh and just about anything directed by David Lynch. Twin Peaks is coming back and I couldn't be more excited! Big music fan, mostly what back in the 1990s used to be known as "alternative." I subsist on coffee, vegan protein shakes, chips & salsa, and candy.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends and family
My cat Boo-Boos
Tennis
Rock n' Roll
The internet
Laughter
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Stuff and things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing whatever. Usually at home but I can be nudged out every so often.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I collect refrigerator magnets. If you travel somewhere I may ask you to pick one up for me.
You should message me if
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you want to. You should do what you want. I usually write back and if I don't right away I'll get to it- I'm just a busy person.

Meeting people is hard! As far as the whole okcupid thing goes, I go back and forth. I don't have big expectations. I am always up for new friends and I also like to cuddle and stuff. But if part of me didn't want a boyfriend I wouldn't be here.

I've met some great people through this site. A few have made lasting impressions on me. So... um... yeah.