Over the past several years, I've grown to be able to live and love as I desire. I don't always do things in the usual ways, and I like to see other people challenge norms and assumptions, too. However, I like being with emotionally intelligent people who are capable of navigating social situations, even if they sometimes choose to transgress expectations. I sometimes like to do kinky things, but people who lack pursuits beyond kink don't do anything for me--sex and kink are only exciting if the people doing them are exciting too.
You should know of my connections with other people who comprise parts of my life, including my deep long-term partnership with LinzLuv, a close relationship with quinky_girl, and others. I leave the possibilities open, and I definitely enjoy meeting, socializing, and playing with people, but I won't initially promise as much as I have to those who are already in my life. It's also important to me that people in my life at least respect each other, even if we don't all share relationship styles or interests. I feel sustained by the people around me, so their well-being is also my own. Given all that, it shouldn't be a surprise that though you may very well be attractive and fascinating to me, I'm not going to be your one-and-only.