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Sometimes waking up at 6:30am is awesome

Sunrise

I took this photo from my bedroom window a couple of days ago.  Just another reason I love my new apartment!

Sunrise

I took this photo from my bedroom window a couple of daysago.  Just another reason I love my new apartment!

Sometimes waking up at 6:30am is awesome

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From: username redacted
Subject: [Help] How can I can my wife to enjoy the taste of herself?

Hello OkCupid,

I need the advice of a woman. I have a very beautiful sexy wife. She loves to give blow jobs. However, she will not suck on me right after I have been in her. She also will not kiss me right after I have eaten her, which I love to do! Is there any way I can get her to enjoy the taste of her own juices?

Thanks in advance,

Real name redacted
From: username redacted
Subject: [Help] How can I can my wife to enjoy the taste ofherself?

Hello OkCupid,

I need the advice of a woman. I have a very beautiful sexy wife.She loves to give blow jobs. However, she will not suck on me rightafter I have been in her. She also will not kiss me right after Ihave eaten her, which I love to do! Is there any way I can get herto enjoy the taste of her own juices?

Thanks in advance,

Real name redacted
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Sign on store across the street from OkHQ

Sign on store across the street from OkHQ

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Subject: [Idea] Girls Use This Like A Facebook.
Fabulous site, and the only real thing going for free but, the women just seem to use this like a partyline, chatroom,myspace, facebook. I know you try to keep it sexy but you have to come up with a creative method of actually getting these shut-ins to start putting out sexually. It's rediculous. It's a dating service but these people are so oblivious to that. I say you need to tweak the system.

After 8 years of conservative Bush, these girls are so stepford it's frighting.

I implore you to get these gals off there butts and into the bedrooms pronto.

followed a short time later by:
Make it clear that this is a date forum and that hours upon hours of idol chat won't be tolerated. Have consequences if they do or have a disclaimer but do something.


So there you have it, ladies. Stop talking about idols so much!

Subject: [Idea] Girls Use This Like A Facebook.
Fabulous site, and the only real thing going for free but, thewomen just seem to use this like a partyline, chatroom,myspace,facebook. I know you try to keep it sexy but you have to come upwith a creative method of actually getting these shut-ins to startputting out sexually. It's rediculous. It's a dating service butthese people are so oblivious to that. I say you need to tweak thesystem.

After 8 years of conservative Bush, these girls are so stepfordit's frighting.

I implore you to get these gals off there butts and into thebedrooms pronto.

followed a short time later by:
Make it clear that this is a date forum and that hoursupon hours of idol chat won't be tolerated. Have consequences ifthey do or have a disclaimer but do something.


So there you have it, ladies. Stop talking about idols so much!
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Make Love, Not War?

I found this story amusing:


Little Blue Pills Among the Ways CIA Wins Friends in Afghanistan



Apparently the CIA has found a new way of paying off informants in Afghanistan: Viagra. The traditional forms of payment are guns or money. The former is problematic for obvious reasons, and the second either gets converted to the former, or gets potential informants killed or marginalized when people realize where the sudden influx of money came from.



I found this story amusing:


Little Blue Pills Among the Ways CIA Wins Friends inAfghanistan



Apparently the CIA has found a new way of paying off informantsin Afghanistan: Viagra. The traditional forms of payment are gunsor money. The former is problematic for obvious reasons, and the second either gets converted to theformer, or gets potential informants killed or marginalized whenpeople realize where the sudden influx of money came from.



Make Love, Not War?

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Subject: [Angry] I'M tired of all the bs!! happening to me. ([username redacted])


I send at lest 20 e-mails to ladys thay don't even write back!! this site is staring to feel like planty of fish.com you write to them .thay don't write back./ when you send me match's mAKE SURE THAY MATCH ME!! ALL I KEEP ON HEARING FROM GIRLS WE ARE NOT A GOOD MATCH SO LEVE ME ALONE!!!!!



Gee... wonder why this guy doesn't get responses.

Subject: [Angry] I'M tired of all the bs!! happening to me.([username redacted])


I send at lest 20 e-mails to ladys thay don't even write back!!this site is staring to feel like planty of fish.com you write tothem .thay don't write back./ when you send me match's mAKE SURETHAY MATCH ME!! ALL I KEEP ON HEARING FROM GIRLS WE ARE NOT A GOODMATCH SO LEVE ME ALONE!!!!!



Gee... wonder why this guy doesn't get responses.
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"Drinkability"

They just put up a big Bud Light ad on a billboard across from my office window. "Drinkability", it says. It would be a food joint advertising their stuff as "edible".

It may be a terrible slogan, but I'm struck by how honest it is... it's just about the most complimentary thing you could say about Bud Light without stretching the truth too far.
They just put up a big Bud Light ad on a billboard across from myoffice window. "Drinkability", it says. It would be a food jointadvertising their stuff as "edible".

It may be a terrible slogan, but I'm struck by how honest it is...it's just about the most complimentary thing you could say aboutBud Light without stretching the truth too far.
"Drinkability"

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Subject: [Opinion] America = English ([[USERNAME REDACTED]])


If this site was generated in America for Americans, then why do you have spanish on there? I live in Arizona and im fed up on how everything has beening turning into hablo espanol. Why does it have to be spanish? I don't understand it, especially when they didn't want to have to anything with us when wars happen, but yet we immigrated other cultures we have fought wars against, and yet we still spoke English. Now that we have a problem with our borders with illegal immigration, we are making it VERY EASY for them to cross the border illegally and be able to communicate so they do jobs w/o supporting our own country. So why are we allowing this? This is the last thing i hate, i came to site because of the genuine portrayl of actually meeting someone or establishing a relationship. Why do i want to deal with someone speaking spanish if i don't speak it. That is why i live in America, not Spain or Mexico. See my point? I hope you do, because this is a problem not just from your site, but in our society/economy in OUR OWN COUNTRY! I hope you realize you are contributing to the help of illegal immigration and terrorism. Keep in mind a terrorist comes in different colors/cultures, but when they are in our country illegally, the worst thing that is done to them is being deported back to their country just so they can try it again. So thank you for NOT supporting AMERICA!



Subject: [Opinion] America = English ([[USERNAMEREDACTED]])


If this site was generated in America for Americans, then why doyou have spanish on there? I live in Arizona and im fed up on howeverything has beening turning into hablo espanol. Why does it haveto be spanish? I don't understand it, especially when they didn'twant to have to anything with us when wars happen, but yet weimmigrated other cultures we have fought wars against, and yet westill spoke English. Now that we have a problem with our borderswith illegal immigration, we are making it VERY EASY for them tocross the border illegally and be able to communicate so they dojobs w/o supporting our own country. So why are we allowing this?This is the last thing i hate, i came to site because of thegenuine portrayl of actually meeting someone or establishing arelationship. Why do i want to deal with someone speaking spanishif i don't speak it. That is why i live in America, not Spain orMexico. See my point? I hope you do, because this is a problem notjust from your site, but in our society/economy in OUR OWN COUNTRY!I hope you realize you are contributing to the help of illegalimmigration and terrorism. Keep in mind a terrorist comes indifferent colors/cultures, but when they are in our countryillegally, the worst thing that is done to them is being deportedback to their country just so they can try it again. So thank youfor NOT supporting AMERICA!


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"Race Relations"

Obama's Candidacy Underscores Crosscurrents of Race and Politics
Poll Finds Four in 10 Think Obama's Candidacy Will Improve Race Relations


Personally, I'm just dismayed that even in the 21st Century terms like "race relations" are still part of the vocabulary.
Obama's Candidacy Underscores Crosscurrents of Race andPolitics
Poll Finds Four in 10 Think Obama's Candidacy Will Improve RaceRelations


Personally, I'm just dismayed that even in the 21st Century termslike "race relations" are still part of the vocabulary.
"Race Relations"